We respect your privacy. And unless you are a driver, farm worker, or fisherman, there are no jobs for Filipino men over 40 outside the major metropolitan areas. Which is weird to me. Striking a conversation when they are on their job would be difficult and perhaps challenging than meeting them in a club or bar where they could be in the mood to meeting new friends. But many of them grew up in Korea or are literally here in the US for vacation. Korean women smell better, dress better, have nicer skin, better hair, more manners etc, no wonder guys abandon white girls.
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Sure I care for my gf. Johnnie Walker April 7, at 1: Man keep loving her they are lovely. I m from nepal n i have been dating a phillipines girl n we want to marry what is the process for that. I am a mother of three who is just starting to date again after my husband passed away several years ago, and I hate the way people just automatically assume that there is a failed relationship in my past. So, if the narcissistic route won't win misogynists over, please inform us of the proper route to take when discussing gender politics.
I dated a girl with three kids 4,5,and1 I was going to marry her in may we had miled problems but not major she broke up with me two weeks ago and now have a new bf I found that weird especially having three children I loved them like they were my own.
Good article, but there are two sides to every story too, especially for those men who do give that woman a chance and accept her kids. One thing I rarely see is the opposite end of it. I have searched and searched for my situation, and yet to even see it.
It was inevitable that I would become the asshole. Before I go further, let me just say this: I would never make a woman choose her kids or me. I would always hope she chooses her kids. Now for my story. I dated this woman for 2 years before calling it off for reasons that are about to be revealed. I met her at work, and before the relationship began, she mentioned she had two older children 16 and 20 and that she had one request of me: I thought it would be no problem.
The relationship began very sexual and we ended up falling for each other. We kept helping each other get to better places in our lives. I would go over her house, spend a lot of time over there with her, and then return back to my place. The absence of her made me want her even more. I thought I was just visiting her and spending time with her. Something happened to my place — caused by mother nature and I was sleeping in my car.
She invited me to live with her and I ended up moving in. I was okay with the idea of living with her and her grown kids. How bad could it be? One was finished up with high school and the other would be soon. As for explaining my relationship with the kids, we got along well enough to have conversations, be in a car together without their mother, and talk, and I tried to help them with anything they needed.
They were good kids, stayed out of trouble, and we all generally got along. To make a long story shorter… her oldest had never held a job in his life, and these kids did not help around the house, they would leave messes in their path, and she would clean up after them, and that was her life. When I said something to her, she said she never gave her kids responsibility and that they would learn it themselves.
So I tried to help another way: Help them find jobs. The oldest admitted to me that he did not want to work and enjoyed his lifestyle of video games at home. The younger one showed ambition to work but never showed the responsibility of wanting to actually hold a job. Their mother bought them anything and everything they wanted anyway, gave them no incentives to work for anything, and they loved every minute of it, so what was the point of working?
She asked me what the point was of helping her kids get jobs. I explained that I worked and she worked at a young age and that it was important to work in order to make a living. I said it would help them learn some responsibility and give them insight on how to handle their finances. She disapproved of me helping them and it became pointless for me to even try.
I gave up trying to do anything, I got quiet in the relationship, no longer put anymore effort into helping her kids or the relationship, and waited patiently for about three or four more months, seeing if things would change.
I became the guy who paid half the rent. I had dropped hints and even tried to help her kids grow up, but the more I tried, the more she would spoil them, baby them, protect them, and prevent them from experiencing the real world. It broke my heart to break up with this woman because I still loved her. I really wanted our relationship to work.
I wanted to help her kids grow up so I could spend a normal life with her and not have her grown kids around all the time. Had she just let her kids grow up and helped me to help her help them, things would have been ok, and our lives would have progressed as normal, but I knew it was hopeless and I ended it. Had I tried to do anything or made anything happen, I would have been the bad guy.
She was upset but failed to learn and now I am the bad guy. In her mind, it will always be her kids. I wanted a life with her and her kids, but not if things were going to continue the way they were going. For weeks after the breakup, I wondered if I made the right choice, questioning, playing scenes over in my head, wondering if I said the right things, communicated properly, and after I sorted it all out, I know I have made the right choice.
This was the way she had raised her kids and this is the way her kids would always be. I am not sure if I will date a woman with kids again, but it was definitely an experience. I am a single mom with a 8 yr old son. I think you sound like a smart man — reasonable, caring, logical and I definitely understand that you would want to help her kids help themselves.
It probably seemed like just any other comment at the time — but it seems significant. At least you had the sense to change your life and get out of that. I have some relatives like this — who were solo parents and babied their child. That child is now an adult child who still has mom do everything for him. It gave me an awareness of what not to do with my son. I want my son to be fiercely independent — hard-working like me.
Have you dated much since then? Good luck and take care. And what a nice man. I read this article a few days ago curious to see how many people find themselves in a similar situation to mine. She and I have been through our rough patches and, to date, broken up around 4 times in the last 5 years. From that we have had maybe two and a half years together total. The breakdown is this. Her children are all under 4. This tends to cause us to butt heads not to mention the outside opinions we get.
My only explanation and means to justify this being that a majority of the time there were scheduling conflicts and her job has always paid better than mine, so I wound up being stay at home dad for about a year. I am now 24 years old she 1 year my senior and I feel like, simply put, dedicating my life to her will lead me to the lifestyle of a second class citizen.
Every time we have gotten to the point where a major decision in life needs made, my opinion is brutally ignored even if she agrees with me or has come to me with a very wise decision. Now I just wish I had never left….. Her sister in law and boyfriend live with us and are now threatening to leave.
Being the person I am, I am having a hard time figuring out what step I need to take. Sometimes all it takes to get insight on our next step in life is to commit it to writing Lion.
You just did that and I want you to read this quote.. Every time we have gotten to the point where a major dec ision in life needs made, my opinion is brutally ignored even if she agrees with me or has come to me with a very wise decision. If that came from me I would know that the decision has to be based on a question do I seek to have a happy and fulfilling life? I say you walk. I work and go to night school.
I was with his father from the time I was 16 til I was Really I hate the idea of just going out to a bar. If the author here will allow you can reach me on email thus; webuzy at yahoo dot com. We started out just hooking up, which led to dating, and we are exclusive.
I am the first woman he has dated with a child shes 7, im 27 and hes 28 and he says he is nervous about it but wants to give us a try yet he has yet to offer to do anything involving her.
Because we argue like at least once a month, I am still unsure abt us lasting and havent really thought about his lack of interest until now. I mean I brought it up before and he has yet to do anything about it but i def dont want to force it so I feel like its a dead end and I should move on but I really like him and he has made it clear he wants to eventually get married and have kids but now right now.
Fighting once a month edited: If he has mentally moved on then it would be good reason why he has chosen to stay cold to your child. If not then another reason could be the general pressure that one feels in a new relationship where a little person is involved. Media has done a grand job of vilifying men into a place where we have to second guess all motives and for someone in their twenties, saying the right thing to the child may make it a lot to process.
This is why I felt the need to write this article because I have been on both sides of the lines child and replacement daddy and I would be lying if I said that it was easy. You will need to just ask him. I was married at one time with a woman with an Autistic daughter, and i never had any kids of my own.
And he needs to understand this situation? Learn to separate yourself from your daughter. The daughters father is going nowhere. Get the boyfriends for yourself not for your daughter. My daughters mother seem to have a similar problem. She is not able to date without mixing up the child. Sometimes she tells the child to call the boyfriend dad and to call me , of all things, grandfather… which makes me hate and estrange her more. The point is find your position in life.
Or no man will stick around the confused scenario. Make it clear that you are being a good mother by remaining cordial with the father and not making it difficult for your child to have a relationship with him. That could become out of hand or even dangerous. I just want to know whos loss is that then. And how cordial is it supposed to be before the new guy feels uncomfortable?
I could use an opinion. I started dating this girl in April, She was 32 and i was She had two boys. The oldest boy had a some issues with behavior. Throwing massive fits, always talking back, telling her mom to shut up, and hitting. I left for the summer for a job. So i moved back to be with her. After I moved back I asked her if she had cheated on me.
She said no but she made out with her nanny. Who was 21 and kind of a party girl. I may have been into that sorta thing, being a guy and all. But it bothered me. Not only did I feel like she had cheated on me, but her responsibilities as a parent became untrustworthy to me. I feel that with kids having issues, it was not a good mix. But I stuck around for two years, I expected the kids tempers to get better, but it never did, and i was afraid it was going to get worse.
It seemed like there was more fighting than love between them. So I bailed in jan. Now, 11 months later, I still feel like a dead beat for leaving. I think that you need to find someone that is ready to start a family with you.
Try to move on and date women that love and want children so that if it works out you can be a dad. Good luck, and for the record you are not a dead beat, from where I stand you were unsatisfied with a situation and you left.
You are allowed to do that. There are plenty of families that are more functional that would love to have an awesome new member, or families who would love to be born to you. Find those, you left her for a reason and it was a good one. Good luck in looking for the non-childed ones i would say.
Its takes to people to make stupid decision. There are many reasons why a woman could be a single parent. For every single mother there is a single father. Any judgements to place on the guys? I was put in a situation in my early 20s where someone I cared for and trusted pushed things too far and forced himself on me. Same goes to say for single dads obviously. I am 36 and dated a single mother of a 7 year old for the last 11 months.
The daughter was okay but very spoiled. The problems I had was that I always came second. I understand that the child is the priority, but I was not in the relationship to simply be 2nd to the child all the time. I have needs to. We recently broke up after going on a much needed vacation but the child came with us.
This was 3rd time this has happened and it dawned on me that this was not going to make me happy, ever. Back to the drawing board for this old man…. It will be the same scenario for kids that genetically belong to you too.
Meanwhile the poor guys are missing out since we taught them they make rubbish parents. When someone has a child — her kid comes first. Unless there is some dysfunctional situation where she is neglecting the child. My mom divorced when I was 9 — from my then highly abusive father — both alcoholics.
I think the woman needs to first and foremost take care of herself and her child. My step dad was jealous of any time I spent with my mom and he treated me like I was a piece of crap.
It drove me away from her and them both. She can have ten if she wants. But here is the deal for me. She must be a a good mother to those kids. Dumping kids on me because she is tired is not going to work. Kids are, so to speak, a non factor for me.
A woman with no kids but bad attitudes will not cut it with me either. Well my gf tried not to do that but end up doing it because her baby sitting aid never came and told the manager not to work the same shift so i can take care of her child versa. That not really made me mad fact that it affected my hours and I am good employee.
Anyway I had a talk and there was transition in management i got my hours back but now she stressing out because her other sitter her elderly mom can barely do it. She has hard time walking and has doc appointments. Pretty sure she just got fired because she called in rest of the week and demanded to speak to higher managers up about it. Matter in fact i think had to do with the fact i kinda took nutural stance on the issue as long as work gave me my hours and money i wanted.
I am not willing to sacrifice myself for her kid to that extreme. I think kids are amazing little people who are smarter than you think — so full of life and a lot of fun. But also a huge responsibility — needs patience, love, care, etc. Honestly, I think she should give up the kid for adoption.
She not ready for it. The job I got her. I have found that mature, secure men who know who they are seem to be fine if the woman is also mature, secure and a good mom, etc. Even though they are generally good children. Children I love and my life revolves around but men get off easy. However, me and my girlfriend are in love?
I have a job and a car. I even try to get her a job in order to help her wean off Government AID. She got into argument with manager there that also mine. She told my manager to make so the days i m not working she working so i can take care of her tolder She was suppose to have daycare by this point.
This resulted in far less hours then I should be getting working there for a yr now. I was stuck cleaning diapers. I felt like I was screwed over. I told management this is not what I wished and I wanted to move upwards. Well now, she stuck with less reliable baby sitter her mother that mentally sick and as well as old.
Nothing seems to go as plan fiscally as concerned. The kid did annoy me lot of the time I just ignore it and put on the headphones. I honestly think she too soft sometimes but she has these weird cycles were she super soft gives in to all her demands all the attention I feel like i just entered flower world hahaha then all sudden bedtime and discipline. Some days she switches between the two attitudes.
The one thing I say the most to her to be consist. Two things I wish that the toddler did sleep on her own on normal sleepy time and please remain consist. If she wants me to co parent then take some of my suggestions but anythign that makes her cry she start get all weird unless of course tolder gets on her nervers.
If the kid cries she gets all depress and gives in unless she finds out she faking it to get something. The deal I made with her i just give my opinion on the situation and put on the headphones until the tolder falls asleep on the worse of days. I seen the tolder stubbornly stay up til like 5 or 4 am. This will sound cold but I think she should give her child up temporarily to somebody trust worthy for a few years while we develop career and future.
I would more then love then for the child to come back full time with my last name if turns that way and make one more of our own. Any opinions from men on dating a woman who decided to have a child with a sperm donor around the end of her fertility years?
So my question is, how do you men feel about that type of situation, where there is no father in the picture to have to deal with? I meet a man that is at the age of He is amazing ,smart, and caring towards my son and I. He tells me that he had dated three woman that had children and it ended in non mutual terms. He is afraid that the same will happen to us. He says he loves me and my son. People seem to comment so strongly that it is such a negative thing for a woman to be a single mom. There are a lot of single dads out there too and it is NOT just his life and decision.
I think he should have not pursued anything if he felt so deeply about it — and she should decide to let go or something else. She should take care of herself and her kid. How in the hell is that his loss LMAO. If anything he did his self a favor by dumping this broad and finding a woman who doesnt have kids.
Only person who is taking a loss are you single moms LoL. When things are handed to you you jave got to play by your own cards. So shut your mouth. I had dated a single dad before and he was amazing. She sound like a real catch. Some women are even with ten kids. That is why it could be his loss. But you sound too opinionated to understand this. Some single parents got there by sheer bad luck like the death of a spouse or rape, others the majority got there by simply not bothering to choose the right partner before having kids and then splitting up or getting a divorce.
If I were to get a gun and shoot several people, would you expect my husband join me in jail for the rest of his life? I am a single mom too. I think basically maybe you guys jumped into things really fast sorry if I am wrongly assuming and he was so into you that he pushed aside his fears. But, we are all human. I am so sorry. The only comment I can give as a man: Really, I mean, you buy her excuses? Genetics, my dear friends.
I used to date a woman a couple of years ago and she had a 8 years old kid. As a man, I really invite all men to consider your options and what is best for you as a man. Sadly, she was a bad mother.
We are mothers but we are women also. We both were aware of what could and would eventually happen. I know I was and I sure got a rude awakening. I love her but she lives with her mom for now an its an bad environment for her an the kids drinking an smoking then bad language is being taught.
They run around disrespecting adults and everything but the said thing is that her mother is telling them stuff like this she went away for awhile an came back to that. Get the hell out of there while you still can. I am a mother of three who is just starting to date again after my husband passed away several years ago, and I hate the way people just automatically assume that there is a failed relationship in my past. I had a very happy marriage, stood by my husband through a long-term illness, and took care of him after he went on hospice, and it took me years to get over his death.
I know more white women on welfare than blacks.. Just putting that perspective out there. I am 36 from India, unmarried. I met my Filipina GF online in when she was working in Dubai. Since I had bad experience with another Filipina in my past I told her I am not ready to think again about a Filipina as my Girl Friend.
She promised me that she will be truthful to me. When I asked about this she said her family is trying to destroy her life. But never rejected that news as true or false. She always blame family and say they are trying to destroy her life. I trusted her thinking that what I heard is false and gone and met her in Philippines. Interestingly she never took me to her home. That made me to keep a distance with her.
In addition to this she was telling she is working as a Sales girl in a shop in Dubai. But later her Dubai friend told me both of them working as caretakers in a home. But she was crying since I have shown rejection and I started feeling that she is innocent and truthful and I continued believing her. We planned next month 4th year of this relationship — over internet and phone mainly she will visit india for marriage. She reached Philippines to process the visa and documents for marriage.
But all of a sudden her brother send me message saying that she is a widow and she has kids. That is again shocking to me. I always felt she as a good woman with simple life, anger and an eagerness for a peaceful family life. In this 4 years only once she asked me money.
She never tried to squeeze money from me. I have met my GF 3 times in this 4 years. Once in Philippines and twice in India. I need your inputs in this issue. I am not able to understand why she is hiding these important matters still now? If I marry her what are the issues I am going to face? I had a similar kind of issues. I thought the girl is nice and good. We had problems because I had a doubt whether she is married.
But at last I caught her in fb that she is married and having child. So ask her email is and try to find her previous fb. Which I used to find her. Its common in Philippines. What we should know is the differences in culture and mind set. I want to tell to all Filipinas that hiding the important information about marital status and children is considered as fraud in India that can lead to punishment and divorce.
If you love someone say the facts sincerely. I am a single mum to two children and will refuse to bear any of the stigma or assumptions about me single parents that I have seen in some of these comments. I made a decision to bail out of a toxic relationship that had I stayed in it would have been emotionally harmful to my Kids. Their dad and I have put sensible and practical arrangements in place and mine is a harmonious and happy household. He has yet to meet my kids and I intend to keep it that way, if the relationship develops, for a long time.
They are three and five and sometimes a noisy handful! I will keep these worlds apart for as long as possible until such time as it feels appropriate and our relationship has developed to the point that we know we both see a long term future.
My mum remarried with two Kids at a time when the stigma was much greater and my dad loved her and my two older siblings, likewise my sister remarried with a child and the family are very happy with two more kids. Her ex husband and his wife are friends of the family and.
Enlightened folks can lead enlightened lives, Kids or no kids! BUT I will say this.. My ex-wife is infamous for smudging the truth in her favor. You must pay close attention to whatever the single parent says and also get the story from the other parent..
On the opposite side of the spectrum- denoting some crazy thing they did and only explaining the negative reaction of their ex etc.. I understand exactly where you are coming from, unfortunately my situation somehow the role is switch, I never dated a man until last child father with so much uncontrollable emotion , that not even a few females satisfied his craving for attention.
My advice for dating a women with a teenage kid? Biggest mistake of my life. I dated a chick with a 8 year old kid. She told me straight up that here kid would always come first. So unless I have kids I will never date a single mother again. It boils down to this. When it gets serious and the two fall in love, no matter what your never the number one in her book always her kid first. Parents who see this split are not mature or ready to be in a relationship. In a normal relationship this split does not exist because everyone is a team to try to do what is best for the others.
I see a lot of immature men and women on this post. Seriously some of the comments on here are just… Ugh. I was with their Dad until I was three months pregnant with my little girl, at which point I found the strength to leave his emotionally abusive ass. He came crawling back when I was seven months along and asked to be in the room while I was in labor. So when people start talking shit about single mums, it really gets my back up.
And why is she dating again with a little baby! If you end up living together and you walk in on a three year old about to smear paint on your tv, are you going to run up and stop him or just hang back and wait for Mum to come deal with her kid?
Plus some guys are getting shitty because the mums they dated put their kids first?? I would put my kids before literally anyone and anything in the world. Yes… it takes more thought and explaining than when you were single… but, a different situation, calls for different action.
I just got out of a relationship with a single mother, I lasted a year and a few months, we lived together, it was hell, you have no idea, follow my advice, keep out. Why would you put yourself out for a women like that only to be in a worse situation where you are not even the childs father and will always come after her children. A tragically simple outlook from a tragically simple person. If you are a secure, rational person you are not second to the children, you are a part of the family.
You only stand to gain in this situation if you have the right outlook. This is the best of several worlds in my opinion. The US is full of single mothers.. Pretty much every black girl I met had had kids by You seem to be right but you are too generic in a way….
I think it depends. Some black girls are brought up in a nice family and some are…just like whites and other races. So, I would say avoid black girls. Just find someone out there…. White girls have babies young as well.. Single parenting is not limited to black women. And some women only have one kid, not a whole parcel. You should totally get educated before you make an uneducated opinion, which no one is entitled to. I guess u have 0.
I have a three yr old son and his father passed away when he was two months old. So how should I get my boyfriend to kinda accept my son as his own? Oh my this is a tough issue. I dated this woman twice and now in the throughs of a very slow moving 3rd time.
The kids seem to like me and I am very good with kids. Her college freshmen is the worst to me as described to a T in this article. Tonight I went up to get this relationship moving forward and happily got some results, but the kids thing did arise in conversation.
I am trying to figure out what I can do to help the situation. Maybe she met someone who has more money. Wait, are you serious? You guys are willing to leave America , the land of freedom aka free sex , just to b stuck in a place where to get women you have to keep your balls in a freezer, and be totally pussywhipped? Seriously man, let who check my phone? You guys need to come back home….. I wonder how many korean women this writer dated and made this ridiculous conclusion.
I first couldn't understand for example my bf meeting female friends, but as time goes by, I was too harsh on that. If my date ever grabbed my phone and looked through it, I would grab it back and stick her with the bill. I even can't check my brother's devices. I assure that intelligent korean girls are never interested to you. If you are in a relationship with a Korean girl, that girl pretends to love you to learn English or she is abnormal as you are in your country.
I believe you are a little bit off with this assumption. I have a friend who went to teach in Korea and China, but that was just because he wanted travel and life experience after geting his PHD and before going into his field of study. In fact the pay was mostly insignificant to most of my friends who taught abroad, it was mostly just about travel and experience before settling down. This has to be one of the most comprehensive articles on dating Korean girls.
I should have read this article before I started dating Koreans. It would have helped so much. I also like the last part which is to answer the calls as quickly as possible. I got in trouble by this very quickly.. We have our cultural misunderstandings and fights, but get along despite. Because Japanese girls are out of their mind, they are like robots. Everything they say and do is like taken from a manual and are about as emotional as a dead fish.
Because she cares for me? We guys do the same for the gf, and never expect to get a Playstation 4 or an iPhone, etc. Keep paying for everything and your precious gf will have her mind set that love equals the money you spend on her.
I hate sports and other stuff that most guys like, which makes it nearly impossibe for me to have male friends, no matter how hard I tried. Sure I care for my gf. I do get to hear stories about how Korean guys do this and that for a girl.
I gotta say though that having a Korean girlfriend has given me more joy than any relationship with a Western girl. They walk around in pants, messy hair and have this twisted idea of feminism, that being beautiful, sexy and doing your best to look good is degrading.
Korean women smell better, dress better, have nicer skin, better hair, more manners etc, no wonder guys abandon white girls. I treat my girl with respect and never expect her to do anything for me. Japan has its faults and the women can be mindless, but Korea is just like a crappier version, not surprised you are bored out of your mind. At least in Tokyo there is more to do, and a sizeable foreign contingent you can talk to when tired of the Japan Nationalism.
Far fewer foreigners in Korea, I believe and more transient just do one year to pay off loans then get the hell out! What is that supposed to mean? I hope some foreigners not to have a misunderstanding of Korean girls….
The truth is as long as you are endearing and charming, it doesnt matter how much money you make or what color your skin is. I can personally attest. I think that every person is different and there is no way we can say all of korean girls are same.
Need your help…am dating a k-girl, but we have not got over the stage of kissing …there is no lead from her…what i doing wrong? I doubt your true intention. As seen on k dramas realise thoge thing are true …. That report is bull shit.
Love is based upon understanding, regardless of races, nationalities. I Hope you all guys will find true love. Not all of us are vicious and obssessive with money and phone calls. I think experience is really what matters before judging someone off an article that implies korean women have extreme expectations.
Many people will be surprised to find out how cool we can be in relationships and worth the experience. Haha, I just threw up a little in my mouth. After all i' ve read dont want date korean.. Hello I am a korean woman and this writing is not all true. This writing is only for korean whore or gold deggar not general korean women.
As a korean woman i felt insulted that the writer told korean women like this way. We are living in one of the most educated countries in the world and we learned how to behave in opposite gender relationship. There will be some cultural differences. What he had written are insulting. Very far from what I see and experienced from my exGF. Fucking disgusting to see these loser white males who are treated like cockroaches back in their home country, write these garbage about their Asian fetish.
They also take advantage of Korean women since they obviously cant get laid in their own countries. Korean government should seriously expel all white male English teachers from the country. Most of them are sexual predators who are more interested in exploiting local women than actually teaching English. Or do you tell us from another cliche? I can say, I read much about sex-tourism, and you are right, this is disgusting and this is disrespectful against the woman, and the land.
But I can tell you, not so many as you think are so. When I am visiting another culture, I know that I am a guest, and that I have to behave well and with respect, because I want to be handled respectful too. One this hand, there are those looser guys you talk about. You are so right, this people are disgusting…and if you condemnd them, let me say me and many other condemnd them to.
But on the other hand, there are people male and female who love asians , because they are look so beautiful in their eyes. I think fucking digusting the Korean guy think so better all people.
White guy no perfect, but koraen come china and rape women. I think Korean men rape women most of any men all world. Would Koreans know to denigrate a liberal arts degree? Or be familiar with so many western stereotypes? I bet the author of the above comment is a white woman! Adf your people come to my country to. Yous live on our tax dollars. But in Canada we inbrace our foreign people. We embrace each one of your cultural heritage and choice. But when you say crap like this it makes people feel like shit.
I love Korean culture and any asian or European culture. And I love Korean women they are beautiful inside and out. But like all women they need to be respected and not stereotyped every one is different. You can find cliches in every land, in every gender etc. This article is horrendous and should be removed. It commodifies Korean women and is borderline racist. At best it is a poorly written stereotype fest, at worst it is something that belongs on the internet's trash heap.
Very goood you said it sa about your girl friemd only! Korean are all you said but a averahe dont get drunker and dont. Neogjbours countries are even more conservatives!
Also any asian woman arent not hot or horny as non asiam ones! Very rare happen u be lucky! Korean and Thai girls are very up dated ahead othrss asians! This is fucking incorrect. Koreans girls are all same with others. Well I agree some korean girls might think like this article, but that means they are slut.
Not every koreans are like this article. I am Married to a Korean, and i am black. I get stares all the time when i go out. They treat white men and women like gods and goddesses, but black Americans or nigerians, or anyone else they treat like they are the scum of the earth. I just shake my head when i see a Korean man or woman kissing the ass of a white person.
Its pathetic to me. All Asian girls you guys met all you wanted is SEX but nothing else. Even worse you guys take them to bed at home hotel and make videos of them.
To all Asian girls if you wanted to date a foreigner man. I love sex, I love giving little thoughtful gifts, and I work hard trying to be dressed appropriately for the day. I think I just value the idea of living life in the best way possible.
I am working on lowering my expectations though…. I hate the plastic surgery industry. Girls should appreciate their natural beauty! Even make-up other than used in an artistic sense bothers me. Why hide who you really are? But… I was born pretty, so what do I know? I do perfer being a subordinate in the bedroom, but I want to be strong and looked up upon in my profession.
To all men interested in dating us, we just want to be loved. Please communicate with us bluntly and honesty. We over think everything! For the young and unexperienced, open relationships are the way to go. Trust and transparency is the key to all relationships.
Sounds like an immature woman with no self-worth. Run away fast, my friend…. I realize that Korean culture is different than the west, but not all Korean women can be stereotyped as insecure, jealous stalkers or gold-diggers. No offense intended to the author, but recommend that you choose your women more wisely. I dont have problem with all of this……instead it is sound so challenging which and interesting and I think i kind of liking it except for the abortion in country it is a no no no….
If this is true I would never ever date and be trapped or caged to any sperm crevice like that. Fucking sick and possessive people. I like Korean Girls, but I am scared by your ex price from them. But is it possible to date a university student Korean girl. But they could become very easy if u guys keep in mind this text and do like thisss. K-girls are materialistic and stuck-up as much as in a gold-digger mindset, but they give you little bang for the buck. We boys certainly like being the manly man, being dominant and in control over woman, but K-girls playbook is geared towards feeding off of the very trait of men.
If you like being the sucker, go for K-girls. As a Korean woman, I think this post is soooo exaggerated. He just listed disadvantages when you date with K-girls. Maybe the writer has an experienced betrayed by K- girls. A motivating discussion is definitely worth comment. I do think that you should write more about this topic, it might not be a taboo subject but generally people do not speak about such topics.
I also like Korean girls. I will do what she says and what she's in needs. I will suggest to bring her to a trip to my country and with the baby. I will always be there for her and cherish with. Find this girl , her name is Eugene Jung. She's my only hope and to my life. You fell for a woman named Eugene? I hope that is a spelling error. In any event, this list could possibly apply to any number of ethnicities..
No matter where she go , she's forever in my heart. She's in my life and so is my destiny. Even if she is important to me , but I will never say no to her. Stay beside her and never let her go , even that so. I always love her the most and I'm falling in love with her. Starting to know her , working in Singapore , and I finally meet her. She must know that I will never give up on her , until we are always meant to be.
When my K Girl friend first saw me in 7; she plain freaked out due to its size. Then she got curious and OMG after that. I know because every time I was with her and her friends they would always look at her then me and giggle all the time.. I e never gotten so many phone calls and text messages in my whole life! I am having so much fun dating a Korean girl, three weeks though. Im looking to meet or date with a Korean girl in American, northeast area. I have line app, kik, wechat, whatsapp.
Everything you can think of, if you want me to show you around boston. Reply to my comment. I dated K-GF for 3 years. We were together first year then she moved back to Korea. She is really amazing, polite, and innocent girl I've ever seen in my life. We kept a long distance relationship after she went back her country. We met each other about 2 weeks a year, amd talked on FaceTime for whole time when we weren't together for 2 years. Then, we can't keep any longer of this kind of relationship.
I never bleam her at all but our situation is just difficult to keep going. I admired her of that she could keep long distance relationship for 2 years. I can say Korean girl is the strongest heart in the world. Thanks for thiz be well. Im from Uzbekistan my name is Dilshodbek im 24years old i live now south korea part of Gimhae i can speak korean i want korean girlfriend. I think most of this is all too true. You may get lucky and find a nice girl.
However, Having many korean female friends, these mindsets are all too real. Korea is still male-dominated country.
This is so true, not about all but its real fact in korea. And about korean boys? And they using harsh words to their country ladies. Its hard to find mature korean guy. And taking porn is illegal in korea. You might seen sexmovie from korea, yet never seen porn from my country. But if you found porn from Korea, most of those are taken without agreement.
And they post on online for revenge. They hates korean girls no reason. And there was serious happening in gangnam. A kboy waited in womans toilet and tried to kill her without reason. He just hates woman. I dont hate boys. But once kboy asked my naked picture in relationship, im uncertain about kboys. I dated one Korean girl for 2 years and experienced the number 6 vehemently. Her grandmother didn't want her to get married with a foreigner and unfortunately we had to break up.
However, I find it really interesting that they have such a strong culture around family. It's known that their family is very united and they will try to help each other as much as they can.
Everything is true stated above. I married a Korean woman, and, indeed she is exactly as described above. Yes, they do have negatives about them such as complaining almost about everything, BUT there are faaaar more positives than come from being with a korean woman.
They love to please their man that pleases them. They are very adventurous so be sure to clear any schedule and make sure you have things planned practically every weekend. Just went on a date with a Korean girl. She mentioned how important her family is. Wouldn't kiss until a relationship, talked about money, and asked if I liked revenge.
Not what I am looking for atm. I had a korean girl find out I was playing around and she poured a bottle of soju on my head and tried to light it. Ironically, this is based on a history of foreign subjugation- the Japanese raped their country but dating and marrying Japanese is still better than any other kind of foreigner.
Korean guys are very cool and friendly but the women will never overcome family pressure or this bullshit history. Leave them to marry their own kind- Korea needs no place in a global society. Koreans are raised to be brutally competitive.
Women as well as men. When I say brutal, I do mean brutal. Koreans are competitive machines with only one setting. Go drinking with some Korean guys, it becomes a pissing contest who can drink the most. Go work out with Korean guys, it becomes a pissing contest who can do the most whatever. Go do anything with Korean guys they will insist to lead, dominate, know-everything, argue… whatever the fuck. They cannor EVER chill. You can see it in the way they dress, the way they do everything.
The fucking country is neurotic as fuck. You either run, or you die. After a while you stop locking yourself up in your room and kill the phone so they leave you the fuck alone.
Everyone will be in your shit at all times. I had chicks going through my fucking wallet when I turned my back. I was with some guys and this dude starting rifling through my bag when I was talking to another guy. Korean women are needy as fuck, emotionally insecure and attention-starved. You make non-Koreans look like shit. In their society, their are more men needing women then women meeting men — its a females market.
As a result their's less pressure for them to develope their character. So the likelihood of finding superficial girls, still acting like they are in highschool is higher. On the other side of the ledger, the men tend to have better character traits. If the fruit just falls off the tree into your lap versus having to work hard and struggle to have enough to stay alive — that sort of thing. I gurantee that generally speaking, Korean girls with good family backgound and higher education would not associate with foreigners as dating partners in the first place, as tabooed.
If the Korean girl has parents with a distinguised social position e. But if you are as good as her family's social position e. Korean parents always see their children' future materials. If the parents say no, most of the children even if they are grownups tend to follow thier parents' decision. For example, you can attract tipsy women in some bars like you could do even more and better back home.
It would be very difficult for you to attract a highly educated Korean girl with distinguished family backgrould at a conservative church. There are always people who are non-traditional or far from the general tendency.
And you call that a very educated person? For example, you might attract tipsy women in some bars relatively more easily than seducing girls in a church or a library. There are always people who are non-traditional or far from the general tendency, as things happen. A very educated person or someobe in a good position should not avoid relating with an individual for not being korean or being from an specific country.
Unfortunately there are always that kind of persons who define themselves as better or in a better position as well crazy people who like someone for being from an specific ethnicity but I will strongly recommend to meet korean people since is a very nice experience. The writer's personal and professional quality must be significantly limited, according to the crappy info.
No need to consider such sloppy info as credible. Also, birds of a feather flock together. This is the biggest load of feminist garbage I have ever read. Married to a Korean girl for 10 years now. We have 2 children. The cultural differences were too much to overcome. I get the children. I am Korean girl. Most korean girl are have plastic surgery? But I have a double eyelids.
And my friends too! All Korean are not plastic surgery. I Catch a scolding and ridicule. Now, this is funny. Were you born with those eyelids? How did you get them? You certainly need to go and check the definition of plastic surgery.
You, Korean girls, are totally crazy about white men. Everyone sees how you totally lose your minds whenever a white man shows up.
We see it on buses, on the subway, at schools, at bars, nightclubs and churches. White people are your masters, your gods. You deify them, kiss their feet and asses. All what I read above are all what I went through even more to that,when I first went to visit her family her father hates me but her mother loves me so much.
Despite the facts that I always send gifts during the Korean holidays called chusok and solar but her father still hates me. I went further to get her father his most favorite gift he collected and still proves to hate me. Mean while every body in her family likes me including her elder sister. I am Korean-Aussie mixed girl My mom is Aussie lives in Korea now for… about 4 years now due to grandparents being old and sick. To be honest, I think most of these are true but….
Here, I did see so many slutty girls who are almost half naked Yes, they were wearing a dress, that barely covers their important parts of their body. They are obsessed with white guys there for some reason. I hope these girls know that they are being USED, not committing relationship with these guys.
I also know some other kinds of girls as well………. Some girls who study abroad, smart and educated girls dates non korean guys as well, because they met these guys or guys vise versa while they are studying overseas. They do not lower their expectations just because one is not from Korea. These girls still expect high level education, good family, good personality and potential in the future. Now this is a relationship.
Try to read these again… and think about if the guy and girl is in a relationship, or just using each others? This is not the totally challenging thing for foreigners. They are definitely easy, but it is also same for the Korean girls too. True relationship is not these kind of things. You should keep in mind that Koreans are also human.
Some may greedy but another may have good mind. I am a filipino and i have korean girlfriend.. Before we are very happy together after 2 months..
Her boss and mom dont like. And she want to broke up with me.. Its realy hurt me. Even if it depends on person, some girls can easily think this way. This is so true and unexaggerated. Please fuck them as hard you could mr. We want women with common sense, not a prostitute isaned about money and a gucci bag. It will be grateful if the loser whites clean all of the trashes. Thank you for reading this tiny yellow text, our superior-race majesty.
This is not america or someof those spoiled-milk-eating countries where you can treat asian whatever you want. Just fuck a ugly plastic surgered prostitute and get the fuck out. This is totally bullshit.. Korean girls do not expect their bf to buy them expenssive bag, food etc. Every Korean girl around me go dutch.
We buy our own couple ring, and the reason why we date foreign guy is because we loved them no matter their nationality. What the fuck is this. As a Korean woman,I can say this is bullshit! How stupid tresh it is. Hello can you be my friend… I am very curious about korean culture.
Because i want to marry korean girl…. I think it had been wrotten by a looooser korean man who hates korean women cuz they dont date him. He thinks korean women love westerns to protect his pride. I am so glad the hormone addiction is not as strong, and that I have learned to think primarily with the head above my shoulders. And so much better to be alone, than with bad company! Unfortunately, they are all sweet as molasses until you are caught in their web…. From what I have heard and seen seems like a perfect match.
First of all… 1. No one wants to look easy, not just Korean girls. The remark about the phone: How does one expect both men and women to get treated fairly if preferential treatment is expected when looking at another persons phone? Trust should and is earned amidst mutual respect from either person. A year of free sex? Since when is sex ever free?
Show them the money? Did a Korean write this or an American? No-one is in competition with anybody. Being yourself should be enough. This is total bullshit. What the Fuck is this post. I just read this site and I really want to know that can a Korean girl marry to a Indian man? Her parents own a local Korean restaurant. So whether she sees it or not, I know her culture is still very much a part of her.
Reading this gave me quite the insight as to why she is moving as fast as she is and acting the way she does. This article helped to put everything in perspective for me. Many want a foreigner husband to show off and then move to your country.
But not until you are completed Koreanified first. I felt like I was a dog being gently but forcefully trained. The relationship becomes very cool. After 2 kids… No sex at all! Actually, be very careful of being tricked into making them pregnant!!!
I know a lot of acquaintances who used to work in South Korea. Most of them said Koreans are very vain, rude, discriminating, and very looks oriented. Full of hypocrites, immature and insecure. Sasaeng fans are the worst. Suicide is so common, too, and the highest rate among all countries in the world. They have serious attitude problem.
Yeah, I had those kinds of experience as well. So many germaphobe korean girl, but very dirty.. The more you take a girl out of Korea, the more Korean the girl becomes. They are like Chinese. Once they are out of their own country, the more they want to change our ways… Everywhere you see Chinatown, a Koreatown is not far away! After marriage, kids became the focus of everything.
Sex was for making kids to keep the family line running. Sex and romance went out the window!! I become the 3rd class citizen of the house. Sounds exactly like dating a girl from newly-capitalist countries of Eastern Europe such as Russia and Ukraine.
Hmm ,I thought Korean girls would be less expens lover,but you just rocked my head, I wish to have Muslim Korean wife. That would be great if it happens. But many of them grew up in Korea or are literally here in the US for vacation. I am sure they behave somewhat differently in the US. Generally though I do not find them to be very materialistic. I think it is always how you present yourself. Everything else, the money, the presents are just icing on the cake.
I love korean culture but i always wonder about the girl. Can anybody tell me something about this? I do really wanna know are the girls really chasing for a money from a guy? Or judge the guy loyalty and love. If your a korean girl… And if you read this message.. I hope you are welling to meet me… I will be yours forever… Trully…. Like Nicolas Cage, I have an Italian background. I too met and married a Korean girl. We have been together over 10 years. Best decision I have ever made.
If you have love and respect for each other, you will have a happy relationship. I would love to meet Korean Lady ,not a girl , I am after a serious relationship to establish family in Australia , i am not sure how , the dating sites is wasting time , most of them for fun not serious , anyone can give a hand , thank you. People were rude but not as bad and filthy as China. Better food, polite people, very convenient living and traveling.
Not to mention better looking girls. South Koreans are terribly rude and egocentric. They look down on other nations and is by far the most racist people I know. I am not an expert on women but I think that Korean girls are the same as women from other countries.
OK their culture may be different and in their country they may have to follow certain rules, etc. I came across a Korean student in England. It was night-time and she left her purse in a public toilet and she asked me to go with her as she was afraid to go there by herself as the place was isolated. I went with her and we found her purse where she left it. I always treated her with respect. The following day she told me that she wanted to sleep with me.
I found her to be very modern. She came to my place and had a shower. The first girl who insisted in having a shower before sex. In bed I found her hot and very loving. I thought I would not see her again basically because she was tight and I am big but she stayed with me until I had to leave for my country.
She never asked me for money, presents, etc. She only asked me for sex. She still writes to me. I am thinking of going to Korea to see her. She may have a high libido and there is nothing wrong in wanting or liking sex. Disgusting culture based on only inferiority complexes, racism, and materialism. Koreans are gross, no wonder it has the 1 suicide rate in Asia.
Oh yeah, and they are so full of themselves. Am planning on coming to korea from africa by this year when my visa gets through,, its incheon,, through Studies,, dont have anyone there but i hope i can meet a korean guy or girl who can help me around.. Here is my number. I dated 3 Korean girls but was funny is they all where students in the Philippines. I believe there is an invasion of Koreans there. Every time I go back there is more Korean boarding houses I know my mother in law runs one.
Each one I dated had a problem with Filipina jealousy. Always saying I have Philippine girl friends and how pretty they are and getting angry when one paid attention to me. I finally married a Filipina. At least I know what to expect from her. Cheating, lying to make themselves look better than anyone else in the world.
Twisted minds, not trust worthy at all. South Koreans often brag about how their economy is higher than other countries and yet they export large number of prostitues all around so called developed countries, and the pimps are all Koreans. They spend their taxes on something that can make them feel proud, instead of spending the taxes for elderlies and handicapped people in need.
Surgically enhanced faces and bodies, but their are rotten inside. Always dissing people from other Asian countries, or poor and undeveloped countries. I have a date with a Korean girl. I am an African and if it works, we have scheduled our first dinner. There are some guy who abduct a little girl. He just got 12 year sentence because he is old and drunken while he conducting crime. And also, there are some guy that beat his own daughter and make her starved.
The abuse continued like 2 years. He got just 5 year sentence. This is supposed to make me want to date Korean women?! They sound just as insane and irrational as any other nationality of females on the planet. The only woman I have ever dated that was worth my time was a Filipina the legit, dark-skinned, grew up running around naked on an island as a child kind mother of two.
The only reason we stopped seeing each other is because she had to move for work. Articles like this are not trustworthy. If you want to make a Korean girlfriend, go to Korea and try to talk with real Korean girls. Not that any South Koreans are bad, but the clear governmental propaganda to educate their citizens to hate the Japanese is seriously getting out of hand.
I sincerely recommend you to visit some other western countries, and also other east asia. My motorcycle is allso a part of my Life. Second to money, Koreans are all about appearances. It also has to be the center for purchasing fake designer items, to impress others. For the Asian Games, the soccer match Korea vs Thailand, they cheated. They would missed and punch aimlessly, while the opponent beat them up badly. But the Koreans won. Seriously, have a better sportsmanship and stop cheating. South Koreans are dead minded.
They simply keep thinking the past. South Korean government the woman one are brainwashing the citizens. She keeps telling them all Japanese which have done good deeds on them are all evil.
I know there are cases where the Japanese were harsh to the Koreans. But after war, Japan helped them in many things. Rude and loud wherever they go, they always try to scam you. In business they always try to steal you and they never pay even when they have the money.
They look down on every other country and is really dilusional that they are the number one race. Not to mention they play the victim card whenever possible. I want to make friendship with a korean girl. Am interested in marrying a Korean lady. I like their cheerful disposition, smily personality and their small portable bodies especially those with a well built behind with curvys. To me most of them are pretty and l just like ladies with very long hair.
Well, personality largely goes with culture and how one has been brought up and exposure. I have had good interaction with some Korean families and had a good K- friend who is currently running a Meditation in my country. I have found them to be interesting people and they are very clean people. They are such clean that they would not allow you to enter their house with shoes on.
Most Koreans l have met are educated and are morally upright. It could be that may be we have plenty of Indians and Chinese here. This is incredibly fucked up and racist. The idea that Korean women are all the same and are passive, sexy innocent is exactly the fucked up mentality white guys and guys in general have that makes them treat s Korean women and women in general not as humans worthy of respect and attention but as fucking sex objects for your fucked up pleasure. My boyfriend broke up with me two weeks ago, we were in love, we were happy and everything was perfect not until he started dating my best friend, I cry myself to sleep every night, I tried everything to get him back.
It looks like its hopeless, He spends time with my best friend and not me. I miss him so incredibly much and everyday, he was a great guy and I needed him back and i never thought possible that Dr Mack can restore broken relationship! Im Korean girl and i just saw this. Its just racism and sexism. Its not true, its even close with prejudice. Dont think Korean girl as a sexual object.
We arent interested in fucking westurn guys. Also not Korean guys too. Who the fucking stupid person spend their time to waste like this? Music, films, Tv or any other field Korea is making its mark everywhere and when we are talking about Korea it means the people of Korea. There is no doubt that the Korean people are really hard working, talented and beautiful so the article is also about the people of Korea and particularly the beautiful girls of Korea.
Korean Women are difficult spoiled beyond your. Better live like a hermit alone hermit alone. You can earn extra bucks easily, search on youtube for: I totally disagree this argument. Not every Korean women like to sex with foreigners and their baby , call every day and so on.
I beg to disagree. I have korean ex-GF. She doesnt like me to spend for her. She wants everything equal as much as possible. I like everything about her.
No sugar coating everytime we fight. We never go to bed without making up from fight. We just had to end and stay friends because of her parent. In our past generation, women sacrifice many times. But now young women are over-selfished, their washed perspecive spread outs, and sometimes it causes problems.
Say again, not all Korean girl like this. I could be the very special case. We have a government department for women, subway compartment for women, lounge for women, parking lots for women and all discount for women.
All these things are true. Nevertheless, they are not satisfied, and have a double standard about guys. Sometimes they have fear and hatred of Korean guys Due to the mass media effect I guess; even though Korea is one of the most safe country. Korean guys rarely flirt the girls at night, only very bad people does. I think it is because they are adapted in isolated Korean culture. I like Korean girls, but they need to get rid of laziness, passiveness, dependance, and need to get some self-reflections.
But you guys can try to talk to Korean girls. I believe usual Korean girls are nice. This is just my experiences. Well Anyway as the writer said not all the koreans are like this and I never saw girls like the writer said in my life..
Quick Texting or phone calling? Hmm probably kids ,students may do. I never thought about meeting foreigner.
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