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Inject some positive energy into the relationship, and encourage him constantly. After many hardships in life I dint take much interest in being close to somebody. After moving out of state and no contact for a year, he reached out to me when he moved home to meet up. Always on the phone, gets mad if I ask him what he is doing, were he is at, and when he is coming home. OK, those are enough signs he does not like you to get you by.

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Build yourself into a wonderful young woman. Please someone help me.. For the last two weeks he has called almost every night a nod we talk for hours. As he was there for some days, he did the following just to me and not to my other girl colleagues as they themselves told me he is so indifferent to them: He stayed in a hotel and we hung out everyday.

The next day he wanted to see me. He came over and we watched a movie … we had sex. The next mornign he had to go to the hospital so I asked if he wanted me to come by. So i started to head that way. He sent me a message saying all was good but it meant so much I did so. That evening I asked said to him i know things are moving faster but are you liking where things ar eheaded.

The next day he was going to come to my baseball game. But messaged that he couldnt do to low on gas and no money — he had his wallet stolen. I offered to come his way after my game and let him borrow some money — 80 bucks to be excat — yes, Fool move.

Well anyways he was so thankful and said he would love to see me later and his sister wanted to do somethig. I said of course. The time rolls around and he said he is waiting on his sister. I write hin saying it would have been nice hearing from you especailly after today tbh.

I respond back and he asks how I am. We started talking about baseball. I see him online…nothing. The reason I reacted that way was because i went on the discovery on instagram and saw a girls photo pop up. Did I handle this right? I am so sick of dating. About a month or so ago, I kept asking him who he liked because we were just good friends and he told me who he liked. But after I found out that girl liked someone else so I told him that.

I have a class with him at school but his friends are always surrounding him. We share the same test in music and if I start humming to a song he will begin singing to it or when he has his headphones plugged in he keeps one earbud in and the other out. There are times when he smiles when I catch him staring or does some sort of silly face.

Our conversations our short and brief but other times he will tell me about the things he dreams of and how his day has gone. He did once mention about a date he went on and how he would go on it again because there was no spark. He jokes around with me sometimes especially before he goes to bed by calling me a nickname and stuff.

Actually a guy ws back on me for one yr n it ws lik we were frnds n he helped me in lot of situations and then i fell for him n i proposed him n we were in relationships for 3 months everything was good bt sudden off he said he wanted to break up with me n i ws lik no n i begged him to pitch up with me bt he ws lik no i want to get settled in my life n he gave back the things which i gave him and even i gave d things which he gave me n its been 2 yrs i cant move on its lik i want to knw whether he still feel for me or has he moved on ….

I have caught him staring at me, praising little things I do to others, he sometimes goes beyond to do little things for me even complimenting me on my looks casually but sometimes he would just ignore me completely. I always have to start conversations with him online, and he takes forever replying back and keep the conversation going but if I need something he makes time for me. Also, if you actually did date, it was apparently too awkward. For another, a relationship solely based on texting will almost never work.

Also, this guy seems to be a little nuts. The thing is, boy-girl friendships get more common later on. But if he says he just wants a platonic friendship, you should believe him.

I think you would be putting yourself at a disadvantage, perhaps to be used by him, because people will sometimes take the liberty to use the other person, when that person is displaying too much of a need for their affections, therefore, they will use your neediness against you, to benefit themselves…if you get what I mean? Just my opinion tho. Leanne — I think you should tell him if he wants to continue dating you, he needs to show a little more interest.

Tell him you are not accustomed to dating a person who puts so much space between contacts. This page has helped me loose my mind am always thinking the worst about my man…Anyway we are not all saints lol buh ey say wen a woman loves she loves for real.

Hello I have not found on search any of the following ways of a boys not interested iI she works in a fast food restaurant. So here goes what I do right now. Sit with back to her While waiting to collect order stands looking every where else A common problem while her friends working in restaurant they try to look at your phone-but I have nothing to hide.

Girl interested says see you later but NO reply from me! This is certainly a Not Interested in you. Certainly not interested in making conversation at any time. When leaving never look at her. If by bad luck she walking near you then blank her. I thought the girls were the clever ones? But how do you now you really want me? My Personal way of sorting this problem. So my daughters dad n i have been together for 8 yrs. I recently caught him cheating.

He ignored me for weeks n chose ger over me. He still sees her i know and but still he comes back to me. We are foolong around everynight and he brings me to climax everyway but when i ask him to have intercourse he makes lame excuses and tells me im ruining everything.

He always wanted me before her for last 8 years. So what is his deal he will do everything else but intercourse Why???? He went and had sex with some other woman, and you let him back in your bed? And he can do whatever he wants and still get off with you! All you need to know is he needs to get out—now. You owe it to yourself—and your daughter—to dump the cheater. I like this guy from day one of new job. He was my co-trainer. Every time he used to be subtle, nice, gentle, helpful for all of my batch mates which made me fall in love with him.

He was behaving weird with just me like fighting for silly reason n not speaking for months however with others he was not. The more he started avoiding or not speaking the more my mind started giving space to him. I have cried many nights thinking about him n his behaviour. He is always away from gals however for few days close to me.

He was staring on n on in the workplace after d training period , speaking loud to othersseekibg attention of mine which all made me go more crazy….

I truly love him badly…. He left me hanging with no explanation. I am crazy about this guy and want to continue dating him but maybe he has lost interest? What if I see him everyday like I have classes with him and I keep on talking to him like nothing happened. He used to like me but he lost feelings for me but he still single.

I still kinda like him but the other half me like him as friend as well as he dose. Okay, so there is this guy that was in the same class with me last year.

I liked him alot. I had a friend and I trusted her fully. She asked who I liked and in return she told me who she liked. After while she started being mean towards me. And then in class about a month later my bff for life told me some news that I didnt want to hear.

That the so called friend that I trusted fully was now dating my crush. When I was around him he was nice and super goofy… alot weirder than normal for him… and would laugh at my corniest jokes. This year we dont talk but sometimes I look over at the lunch table he sits at and he is staring. This may be a coincidence but do you think so?

Also if it isnt just a coincidence then how do I walk up to him and talk without being totally awkward in every way possible? So I would always push him away. But we were always close like we would tell each other every abd just be completely honest with each other. We were always with each other…. Never felt anything for anybody else. Never loved anybody else but him. Hes always been the kind of popular one in a sense.

We stayed like that for the rest of the film. During the week he came over same thing his arm under and around my waist but he started playing with my hair. A little later on in the week we started watching another film this time he wrapped his arm under and around my waist and held my hand and my neck was exposed and I felt him gently kiss it it felt really good so I just let him do his thing same thing for the next month or two.

A week later he came round my house watched another film same thing kissing my neck but this time he moved his body and his face so he was moving closer to my lips I guess he wanted to kiss me.

I never kissed a boy before so I guess I was nervous. Over the period of a few months whenever we was alone in each others houses it would be the same kissing and tongues. But it got a little more heated as he would touch my bum squeeze it and all of that and all of that. Please respond, its really driving me nuts, what kind of signals is he giving me?

I have been seeing a coworker a guy secretivly, no one knows about this relantionship. This is over a 6 month period of time. Always ended up with him calling me babe, and other cute names. Then it goes to no texting at all, we still are civil to one another at work, to him eventally texting me about something, tv shows movies, songs or just any kind of convo just to see if i will respond. He never talks about any other girls, he talks me about his family but we dont have that kind of relationship that we want to or are even anywhere close to meeting a family member or even one of his friends?

He seems like he is into me and then backs off and then always finds a reason to text me, but just doesnt give my any kind of signal to whether he likes me enough or not?? Can you please respond, its driving me nuts, i have read all your things about if he is into you or not, or am i driving him away I have read all of them and he fits some of the categories and then he does not, most of those questions seem to not fit the sceerio?

I have been talking to this guy for about 5 months no dating, we hang out like week and go on dates. The things that is killing me he will say nice words to me and make me feel happy, ask me if I am ready to be his lady! Then when we see each other in couple days he hugging and kissing on me. I went through this whole list and the guy that I am talking to does not do any of these signs to show me he is not into me. But he has gotten really busy lately.

But he hardly contacts and I text and call him first almost everyday. I would like some advice on two things. I have two classes with this one guy and I think he is really cute. He seems fun to be around and nice to. But I want to get to know him as I said. How do I do that…. I always freeze up and am either awkward or weird.

Sadies is in 2 weeks. I have thought about who I am asking and all the guys in my school are either taken or something I really do not want to be around. But now that I think of it there is this nice guy, he is a little bit of a stretch to ask because we are just friends but not as like close friends so. Well if u understand what I am saying thanks. Our relationship is great but I cant help but feel like he still misses his ex.

He gets really defensive when I try and ask what happened between them. And all I know is that she broke up with him and he was devastated after the break up. Early on in the relationship he was stalking his ex and his ex-crush on fb.

Does he love me or m I just a re bound that got out of control? Hey I just had a question, just some advice to do the right thing, I live in Vegas and I work at a station casino, there this security guard I been eyeing for the past few months, I told myself not to tell him that I liked him but on the other hand I thought take a risk and see what happens, its been a long time since I found a guy that I actually like.

He stares at me at work, but like in the smoking section when it just 2 of us left and everybody else is leaving he leaves with rest of the group there has to be something that I said or Idk what todo at this point, Should I just stay away?

Well you should end the friendship if he likes someone else he has no right to force you to be his friend you do have a right to reject his friendship. At Christmas party, my ex boyfriend follows me in my space talking with friends, I caught him across the room walking along with me, I went to the dessert table to cut the pies, he was behind me at the food line at the same time.

What is he decoding? Is he trying to drive me crazy this person is a ex friend he told me he did not want anything to do with me when I felt things were moving too quick. Last year, after much deliberation, I moved to a new city to be with my boyfriend. The move was okay but I soon realised that I missed my old job, friends, and the sense distaordom. Our relationship went from being amazing to almost always being irritated with each other. I was always so carefree and fun and now I feel bogged down, surly, vindictive, jealous of his relationships with others.

I dont want to be like this anymore. I want to be my old self. He too has become distant, critical of a lot of my traits and things I do or say. I always have my guard up. What can I do to get out of this rut, go back to my former self? He has his faults too but right now I just want to know how I can be happy.

I been in a relationship for 6year and he left bout two weeks ago when I text him he want respond on right then. Thank you for being there answering my question. There was this guy that i got acquainted with via my manager. He was his friend. Then on a start of a new project he decides to cooperate with our manager and be one of the investors.

He gave me some kind of trying-to-hide looks while i was among my other girlfriends and I returned back some of his look the way he looked at me without trying to be flirting. Then he came to our company for some construction changes as he is a building designer and while I was talking to my manager he reached us and stand totally in front me and directly toward me and stared at me while talking to our manager.

As he was there for some days, he did the following just to me and not to my other girl colleagues as they themselves told me he is so indifferent to them: He talked to me about the person on the phone and said that she talks too much!! He had his cellphone on speaker mode when he reached me and that girl was continuesly talking about some business issues. He greeted me differently and with smiles and i smiled at him in return. He completely avoided eye contact with me and talked to me only if it was necessary.

I had definitely no idea what was going on. The day after we had a business meeting in which he and I attended and others as well. In the end, I took the plunge, I somehow told him I liked him and told me that he was just friendly and he meant nothing at all. And I said ok, maybe I was wrong. Some day after he text a greeting message to me and i answered the same way.

Later I sent him an infographic picture and he asked me if I knew a good doctor for hair loss problem and talked to me about his problem and I listened to him and I gave him some advice but he stopped texting after 45 minutes of texting without saying goodbye or thank you. Another night he ended up saying this sentence: There is no game for us!

Just your imaginations to which i answered: You made it clear to me once and I have a good memory, sir. I have no idea about his behavior. Thank you, in advance, for your advice. I want him back as I do still love him and cant just cut my feelings off from him, what would you advise me to do? How u know if a guy likes u. I like this guy alot. He hardly texts me we spend four nights a week togethet when he is not out of town working.

He wont talk or see other females. He said he likes me more than a friend. He also said he wants to see where things go between us. He knows of my past so am i just being perinoid he dont like me or do i need to relax cause he does like me.

Please need some advice. We really do like each other and he is so amazing. Just want to know his true feelings about me is all.

I have a question, i know the texting is weird u said. But he hasnt been texting me first in a while and i always have to text him first. Is this texting thing a problem or is it just another guy thing? And if it is another guy thing will he get annoyed and think im too attached to him if i txt him first. Well practically all of these things u daid were opposite, so does that means he likes me? My friend thinks he likes me and I do too. But then I get this doubt like im just self centered and he dosent actually like me.

We met at work a few years ago where he ironically dated and met his ex to. She left him and moved on quick. On the other hand.. I am the first serious relationship my boyfriend has been in since that breakup. And how miserable he was after the breakup and how he became a drinker afterwards.

Oh and even better…I found him stalking her on Facebook almost daily very recently. I know he loves me. But is it normal that I feel super uncomfortable and insecure about this? So pay attention to your feelings. Anxiety is caused by a conflict between what a person says, and what they really feel, and we pick up that conflict by the nonverbal clues, and our anxiety results.

I have just return to the dating scene and it has been 10 years reason taking care of parents. I learned relationship are hard all kinds of situation out there are crazy to many rules. I am learning a lot about guys and how to handle things. I feel I have to say thank you.

I met this guy three months ago. At first he was pretty aggressive and I told him I wanted to take things slow. He was fine with that. Our first date was at a party I went and he met me there. We had a good time and plenty of time to talk. Next day he called and we met again. We went to three get togethers together. All three at my friends places. We went to few walks at the park and all these are my invitations. He has spent 6 to 8 nights at my place.

I have a 9 years old son, so when my son is not with me I say it is OK for him to spend the night. He says he cares about me often. Not sure what that means.

He says he wants to continue a relationship with me, but I am thinking what relationship am I in here? He is legally separated and his ex-wife lives in the bottom floor apartment and he lives on the second floor. They have a two family home. I have introduced him to my friends and invited him to events and engaged him on things I do with my friends.

He has never invited me out to do anything. He has not taking me out for dinner or not even coffee. When he is with me he gives me his full attention and is a real gentleman, but he told me he has a lots of friends from his work and he goes to parties and he will not bring me because some of his friends are married and their wives knows his ex-wife and he does not want the word to go to his ex that he is with a girlfriend.

Last week we were talking on the phone and he told me I need to concentrate all my free time on my son. That I want to have a social life and go out with my friends and I should be a full time mother and not a part time mother. I went to Florida for a weekend as a girls only weekend, and also went to a friends evening dinner two weekends ago and that I want to have a social life and am not giving my extra time to my son. I told him is not the case.

I take Martial arts classes with my son and for the past two weekends I have not gone because I hurt my back and am not feeling good enough to return to the classes. He told me even If I don;t take the classes I can sit in and watch or be there to pick him up and have lucy ready or so for my son. Now, to clear this, martial arts is something that I do with my son and his father. So I asked him if he was saying all these because1- he cares about me and my child?

I have not seeing him since Saturday, October 17th. He went to a dinner party with me and stayed over my place and left early Sunday to work. He did text and called me but never mentioned my birthday. It was around 11;30PM when I spoke with him last, and during our conversation he asked where did I go and I said my son had taking me out to celebrate.

I did not say celebrate what and that is when he said, OH I am sorry, I forgot your birthday. I can take you out for dinner some other time, since you were busy this weekend anyways. I did remember two days ago , but i forgot today. I did not put on the calendar because than would go on for every year and I did not want that to show up since my ex can see my work calendar. Was after that, that he started with this conversation of me spending all my free time with my son.

He said he is not a selfish ass that wants me to spend all my free time with him and not spend time with my child. Believe me when I tell you I spend most of my time with my child, specially on weekdays. I am not sure what kind of relationship he wants here. He also mentioned yesterday that who knows,, maybe I meet someone on the corner and I will fall completely in love with this person and call him up and end it all with him, or maybe that can happen to him too.

So I am on the other end of the line thinking, WTF? I am not understanding what is that he wants and what am I to him. He says I would not spend two hours on the phone talking with you If I did not like you.

I really enjoy my time with you and we do have a physical and emotional connection. Yet, he has never invited me out. He does not have a place for us to go, he comes to my house. I just feel right now that to him it does not matter if I stay or if I go.

Can anyone give some in sites here? This guy is not interested in you at all. Ok so my boyfriend who is also the biological father of my 2 year old son was texting a girl I went to school with flirting and telling her he will single I caught him doing this twice and the first time he said he did it because he was jealous that my ex had messaged me..

The second time he said he did it because he was testing me to see if I would leave him. A few years ago we net and basically fell for each other pretty fast n I ended up leaving him because he got into drugs really bad and I was pregnant at the time.

We have been doing great untill all of a sudden he withdrew himself emotionally and physically out of the blue. I kept blaming myself thinking I did something wrong but turns out he was talking to the other girl. I am in a very unorthodox relationship at a distance of which I am told that he is staying up wearing himself out just to spend time with me.

I have made it a point to say goodnight early, but I know for a fact that he is not spending that time with me. We spend minutes together in that a day and it is because I engage him most of the time. He stays up to work yet I get the blamed his for losing sleep etc. We spend less and less time with each other now.

I have seen needy women demand and get lots of time from a men yet still complain, but that is not the case here. If there is less time spent together then it would be safe to say that he ditched the relationship. I am not sure how to handle this since he claims he loves me madly and has waited for me so long yet the actions are clearly otherwise.

I do not want to be drastic or create drama, but clearly he does not want this relationship right now or he would not use me as the thorn in the side when he applies time elsewhere. I have been supportive for a couple of years of doing this now. Always too busy for me.

Why would be claim that he loves me more than anything and has waited so long for me yet blame me for wearing himself out when it is clearly not due to time spent with me? His line of work is Clandestine, so this is making it even more complicated. I have no idea what he does at all. I need need a wake up call or sound advice. I met this guy in my neighborhood. He started doing some work for me and was getting paid. He offered to help me out with additional handy man stuff for free. At first he was distant and did not talk much.

He works three jobs and has three kids so his time is limited. He will make time to help me with whatever I need. Our conversations are limited. He came to help one night and we were intimate. He has respected those wishes and keeps me at arms length.

For the last two weeks he has called almost every night a nod we talk for hours. He has not mentioned wanting to have sex again. But, he makes sure he tells me he does not want to be in a relationship. I need to move on. I also see him updating Facebook statuses saying he is not looking for love and always calling girls bitches.

I really like him a lot and would like him to be my boyfriend. I need help please. He teases me a lot and say some mean stuffs or say that am a child but I know its just for fun.. I never get mad for that. But I know that the fact that I am underage is a problem for him..

Yesterday I tried confessing to him but indirectly.. What should I do? We like each othwr and that is obvious and I know that because of past relationship is hard to trust again. But he is always around, always texting and we even met each othwr kids in a really casual way. Is hard for me not to think a lot about where this is going, my past experience was horrible and this person is so amazing.

I can wait and see but how about I wait until he feels sure enough of his feelings and is not the same as me, is just frustrating sometimes.

He make plans with me about future places to go and things to do, but still I need to know a little bit more about where this is going. The longest relationship for either of us. He turns 40this week and im a few years older.

Although he has shown love the first years but never talks his feelings. The past year im tired of his lack of help financial and otherwise in the house. We moved in together after a year of dating and being together every day. He barely helps with bills and doesnt do housework. I tell him Im unhappy and made plans to leave a few months ago. Im gettin fed up but then i see hes texting and flirting!

I get so jealous now i want to make it work- all because im in competition? Now im sad and confused. I discovered a heart problem and was in hospital. Should i just go, move on and leave him in this apartment to take care of alone? The little things are gone. Thank you I missed you…conversations seem like I annoy him.

Has he lost love for me? Cut your losses, learn from mistakes. I still wish him all the happiness in the world. This life is so meaningless. Why did I meet the perfect man if it is solely to see him ignore me? If you want meaning, consider being a Theist via a personal relationship with God. Stop trying to make a man happy by jumping through all these hoops. Nothing wrong with improving your health, but do it for you because you want to.

Everything rolls from there. After all taking all the quizzes and pass proclaming his love and liking me no question then all of a sudden after 5 yrs he said we do not have a future , I could not understand just told him well end it that way you have said enough I was so hurt , that situation I was not prepared pls advise. Keep your boundaries firmly in place. Learn from the mistakes, and move on. Look around online for other advice and support.

I have been seeing this guy for a couple of weeks, it was going well. He left for a vacation two weeks ago and he had texted me few hours before he had left for his vacation that was his last text. Most of the times, he initiates the text. Should I text him or does this mean he is no longer into me? Yeah, just text him. Maybe he lost his phone, etc.

Give him the benefit of the doubt. All the love he showed me the first year I thought he was the one. I used to get texts and phone calls. Now I am lucky to get one text if that. He says he loves me and wants to be with me still, but he changed.

He gets mad easley. He used to compliment me a lot saying how hot sexy beautiful ect. Now is yeah that looks ok. My self esteem feel. Talks to me like a friend. Always on the phone, gets mad if I ask him what he is doing, were he is at, and when he is coming home.

I should get off his ass and everything will be ok. I am like ahh no. Get your own place. Concentrate on raising your son. The rest is not a priority…and this guy used you because you gave him everything without putting up boundaries that would make him want to take you off the market.

He may come around after you move out, but it would probably be just for sex. I would like to ask.. I met the guy online and we went out movie and dinner once 2 weeks ago. He sent me message.. I thought he was not interested in me, as he didnt ask me out again, then I texted him to say, if we couldnt be more than fds, Im ok to be friends.

Do you really love him? Work on a better you and explore what life has to offer. You never know, you may find someone else who is ready to give you his love now. Hi Joey, I would like to know if this man really likes me, we met from a dating site last sept, i am from Phils and he is from US then we met last april He stayed here for 20days but i ddnt sleep with him in hotel which is i think its not necessary for first time meeting.

When we are in chat session he is always being nice even we exchanging presents. Then we meet, The problem is he always drunk, he always making dramas about his family, he doin trouble and out of control.. And i saw of his emails and messages he flirting also other girls in chat which hurts me and he said thats only for friends and he chose me! So in my part i gave benefit of doubts if he just using me or playing me.. So i didnt give a sex even he likes that makes him frustrated because he thinks he spend money going here then i ddnt give any..

Then i also lend our car with him but he just ddnt clean and lots of trash before he left back in US.. Then still until now continuing communication but we dont have any commitment. He telling me he loves me he has a plan for us and believe him and he wants to be his rock.

Then i saw an fb page where he likes he is dating site for interracial so i frank him if he just playing me stop im not one of those girls if he likes a game. I didnt do anything bad at him and my intention were pure..

Then he said to me its only a page im so paranoid he loves me and will never let me go.. But until now we are like this, its so hard.. I feels like he just playing my emotions tho we have a picture together on his facebook but i dont know his passwords..

Makes me feel sad i have been nice why he just dont be frank that he isnt interested with me!!! So this guy is: Out of control 4. Sex first, values second 5. Female attention seeker 6. So I read these articles everyday, looking for advice. My guy and I talk every day… text mostly. But he always seems to be too busy to see me in person.

So I fill my time with friends and stay busy with my own life. But it frustrates me because I want to see him more. I want to be more of a priority in his life. But what if HE is the one initiating that stuff and making comments about moving in, getting married, and having a family eventually.

Now, all of a sudden, he has backed off a little and says he has a lot on his mind. I am trying not to be needy and to give him his space.

Do I kick him to the curb, move on, be patient with him, see where things go, etc. Life is serious now and I need him in or out, but giving a guy an ultimatum like that only pushes them away.

I dunno, but when I was in a relationship, I would turn to my girlfriend for support when I was stressed about something. He is really handsome and he tried to initiate contact with me whole night, talking with me, teasing me around and we ended up kissing on the dance floor. When he gets drunk he eases up a little bit and tends to be closer to me.

Last time we saw each other he was acting super weird. He acts totally differently around every other girl but ME, he treats them normally but when it comes to me he has trouble speaking, he gets all nervous and stiff.. Maybe he likes you, or else why would he be nervous?

Its possible he feels bad about that one night stand. Dating is really the only way to get to know someone. Comfort sometimes comes right from the get-go, but it also can come over time. Communicate with him about your feelings, or get away from him. So recently I gave him my number. Cause he tried to talk to me and apparently was looking for me a lot the other day.

But I didnt say hay back to him at one point during the day by accident ever since then hes avoided me. I guess i made him upset or feel awkward.. Sucks cause I would like to at least be friends.

I feel like i should go up and talk to him about it but i dont want to make it worse.. Over the past few months I started talking to this guy. We talked to eachother last year but we had a falling out. After 2 months of us just talking and hanging out he says that he has feelings for me.

I had grown feelings for him so I told him how I felt. But I am afraid of getting in a relationship because he is in a love triangle. But I am afraid that she will come back into his life and snatch him away. After many hardships in life I dint take much interest in being close to somebody. Kindly help me out through this situation. So this guy talked to me a bunch, and we always kind of went back and forth on texting first, and once even stayed up till 2 in the morning just chatting.

He invited me to hang out with him at the library and we watched some short videos and stuff for like an hour and I was really getting the impression he was into me. So things continue like normal after that but he still does things that are really confusing me.

Like one night we were texting and I noticed it was 9: Also, I think he likes my best friend. Which is totally heart breaking. Is it worth it or should I just move on? PS idk if I can move on…. You can and probably should move on. Many times, a crush is the result of seeing things in someone that you lack in yourself but really want to have. Ask yourself why you like this guy so much. What about him do you see that you lack in yourself?

Girls have subtle ways of doing this…find out what they are and do them! Perhaps even touch his arm when he flirts with you, etc. I jave a huge crush on my best friend. That day I wanted to know if he cares or not so I cut in front of him n he goot really sad.. I need some advice. We always look at eachother and smile in the gym, he started initiating short conversation before I left the gym.

I caught him staring at me while I was sorting out my weights until I looked up and we both smiled at eachother quite cheesily. He was in the room quite abit and I think? Anyway, that same day, he came over to me and sat right next to me while I was training. He initiated conversation, it was really flirty and we both were laughing, he kept asking me questions about my job, training, family etc. It ended up us arranging doing something together and so we exchanged numbers. He text me about half an hour later, it was flirty but his texts were every few hours.

We text all of that evening and then the conversation just stopped. What does this mean? Alice — how long has it been since he sent you a text?

I had the same thing happen to me with a girl i liked that worked at the gym I go to also. We had the same vibe going for a while, after several months I asked if she wanted to go to a local minor league baseball game with me I had extra tickets , she was excited and interested, said yes. We emailed a few times about which game to go to, she liked a friday game, so we were going with that. Then two days later, she completely cut off all communication with me. About every day or two I would contact her to confirm the date, but she never responded.

I never understood why she would agree to a date, then cut off all communication, but it is what it is. Its strange how people can act.

Just check in with him from time to time, remind him of your interest to go on a date, etc. He was staring at me as I went to leave and we both kind of walked towards each other, we just had a friendly conversation with a little bit of teasing.

Please someone help me.. He told me that he really likes me and loves me around but doenst want a relationship. I am fine with that honestly and told him that.

He keeps on repeating himself about the not wanting a relationship and im at the point that i dont respond because i get it!! I also found him on a datigsite through my best friend.

I wont take it to heavely because i know.. This guy is all over the place emotionally. Focus on other things, other activities, and other possible guys. Reena — You cut yourself in front of him?? If so, you may have more important issues to deal with than with a boy from school. You probably creeped him out, but he seems to care about you genuinely.

Focus on improving your mental and physical health first. Get into more positive groups, music, books, etc. You deserve better for yourself. Free yourself of that. I cut on purpose to see whether he cares he really does.. Cutting to make him show he cares is called manipulation.

I am friends with this big group at school. My other friends said that we would make a cute couple and that he so liked me back.

Everything was awesome until we were messaging each other one night, when I told him I liked him. That afternoon I asked if we could talk over message again and he said he took it too far and we could be friends again. Some of his friends have no idea what is going on and I just need to know what I should do and what I should say and he is sending mixed messages as to whether he likes me or not.

You both are young, and he probably has no idea how to deal with this yet. Keep yourself light-hearted about it. Things may simmer down in a little while. Perhaps even find guys outside your circle at school, maybe even outside the school completely.

Whether its through meetup, church, sports, book groups, etc. Everything was going great ,until 2 weeks ago. I was getting off from work and he called me to ask if I was hungry. He then asked if I was going to his house and I said yes. I was starting to go crazy ,so I left because I have been needing to get me some summer clothes for the next day anyway..

Well after another hour he finally text me saying he was cow chasing and be be here in a min.. What do I do??????? I have really started liking him very much. But he says he is looking for a girlfriend. He is often in the dilemma to how to make a girlfriend. He says that he feels lonely because of that. So i met a guy during my final semester of college and we became really good friends, i gradually started liking him and we became closer and closer. Now we talk everyday, know everythjng about each other and are comfortable with saying anything.

He says he likes me but doesnt want a relationship because it brings alot of drama but he always mentions how theres noone else like me in his life.

He doesnt talk to anyone else like he does to me, i am sure of that. Problem is the whole 2 yrs we been talking, weve only met up twice and its more of a friendly casual thing.

He never mentions hanging out or meeting up and it scares me. Is he using me for my time or is he genuine and cares about me and really wants to take this far? He is a very shy guy and is very genuine his not a player of any sort. Really respected and honest. Anyone has any advice?

It would be greatly appreciated. Some guys show more than others…but how in the world did the two of you end up together then?? Affection comes naturally from a loving heart. It may not have anything to do with you at all. Inject some positive energy into the relationship, and encourage him constantly. Notice the good things he does, even in his failures.

Compliment him, and expect nothing in return. Read positive, encouraging material. And, really, who wants to take the simple and straightforward route?

A guy who cares about you and likes you will ask you questions about your life. They'll text you to say more than just "send me a pic" or "wanna come over? Do you think your crush only wants to be friends with benefits?

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