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I lived there 15 years and I am black. People are really polite but they rarely make the effort to get to know you and form a deeper friendship or get romantic. Women aren't property or a commodity. In other words, increase the number of males in a system too much and the number of females interested in pairing up GOES DOWN, due to some mysterious psychological trigger. Imagine a bar with girls and guys. Detailed information about all U.
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I know the bay area is full of tech men but is it as bad as it sounds? I tend not to enjoy being the invisible man that I am in the south bay or peninsula and even in SF at times. I'm curious, what is the dating scene like for single Black women in the Bay area? The bouncer admits 10 more guys and competitively speaking it's as if, for the low status guys, guys walked into the room and for the high status guys, 30 guys. The Greystone location is pretty but not as big as the NY school that one is a castle. Discuss culture, living, traveling, relocating, dating or anything related to North America.
Brotha's are always looking for a good cooking woman. I say date anyone who shows an interest in you and marry anyone who loves you.. I've never seen race mentioned on a tombstone.. Life is too short for racial issues.. I'm a black female and unmistakably so. None of that "what are you? You'll meet men who think you're attractive. If you're friendly and open to meeting people, you'll be fine. I've had dates with men of all types, even Asian.
My current boyfriend is white, and it's really a non-issue unless you come here with your own racial hang ups. There are a definitely dark men here. Maybe not a ton in the city, but I've met black professionals. Just get into networking groups focused on bringing us together and there is always online dating, you'll meet them. Around here, nobody "dates".
They just hang out. But then this isn't The City. Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Additional giveaways are planned. Detailed information about all U. Posting Quick Reply - Please Wait.
User-defined colors Preset color patterns. Based on data. Similar Threads how is the dating scene for men in SF bay area? View detailed profiles of: Dating scene for single Black women in the Bay Area? View detailed profile Advanced or search site with. Page 1 of 5. Advertisements I'm curious, what is the dating scene like for single Black women in the Bay area? Los Angeles posts, read , times Reputation: San Diego, California Republic 15, posts, read 20,, times Reputation: Originally Posted by Gentoo The only thing I can honestly say in general to this question is, dating is always easier in any area if you're open to dating different races.
Phoenix, AZ posts, read 1,, times Reputation: San Francisco posts, read , times Reputation: Eureka CA 7, posts, read 9,, times Reputation: A study published in in by two English psychologists who are better known for a different study that showed the wealthier a man is, the more frequently his partner has orgasms may shed some light.
The study looked at marriage patterns in the United States and an interesting trend appeared: The research showed that as the sex ratio augmented in favor of women, at first, as you would expect, the women simply turned fussy and went for richer and more powerful men. But at a certain point a curious thing happened: In other words, increase the number of males in a system too much and the number of females interested in pairing up GOES DOWN, due to some mysterious psychological trigger.
Women won't pick and choose, they won't choose at all. They abandon the enterprise. Imagine a bar with girls and guys. The bouncer admits 10 more guys and competitively speaking it's as if, for the low status guys, guys walked into the room and for the high status guys, 30 guys. The bar might as well close for the night. That bar, friends, is San Francisco. Dating wise, America is paradise for women and hell for men!
But the singles ratio is WAY off! Let me explain, say 35 of those women started dating 35 of the men in that auditorium. You would have 10 women left and 20 men left. But now those 10 women see that there's twice as many single men as single women, so they get so much attention from the men, that they now don't even need a boyfriend. The remaining 10 women are now happy, as they have men fighting over them.
Finally, someone other than me pointed out the psychological factor of a lopsided gender ratio! Of course, I honestly think they wasted time in trying to prove it scientifically. Like it was mentioned, just ask any young single guy and they'll agree.
Go to a club and you'll see exactly what happens. I do photography and have covered clubs and events while in college so I've been witnessing it first hand.
I felt like I was a host of those animal documentaries observing their behaviors, and it doesn't take long before you see the pattern and that it completely sucks to be a single guy here. That's why you never hear women in the US complain that they have a hard time meeting men. California is the worst state as far as the ratio goes for men. San Jose, California has the worst ratio of single men to single women in the US.
For every single women in San Jose, there are single men! Time to visit "male friendly" countries like Brazil, Mexico, eastern Europe, Russia and the Philippines.
I live in the SF area so I can completely vouch for that article. Of course there's lots of asians there. Whites became a minority long ago there. It's like a desert there, no scenery and coupled with the lack of connectedness, it's a depressing place.
At least in Utah or Colorado you have nature and scenery and so at least you feel at one with nature. But in the Bay Area, you don't feel at one with anything. You know that too. Yeah the Bay Area does seem different than it was back in the 80's and 90's. Momopi why are you in the Bay Area? Go around late March in Calistoga for flower viewing.
If anyone is interested in living there for a few months, check the Culinary Institute of America Greystone in St. Helena for job openings. The Greystone location is pretty but not as big as the NY school that one is a castle. I don't recommend working at the winery, because there's a large glut in the inventory right now and prices have started to fall.
Not just in Napa, but elsewhere as well. Last edited by momopi on January 17th, , 8: The way one American guy usually looks at another is politely but with mistrust and as a competitor. The only ones that have any camaraderie and smile at each other in earnest are the gays.
Now why is there such a ratio of men vs women? American women do not abort female feti as in China so what gives? Last edited by MattHanson on August 2nd, , 5:
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But most women do seem to care how much a man makes. USA 15, posts, read 14,, times Reputation: Yeah the Bay Area does seem different than it was back in the 80's and 90's.
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The Viet coffee houses are also dating christian couples up across SJ. Datijg who the hell wants to date women who are in their 40's or older? It's oakland ca dating scene a matter of being in the right place. Maybe not a ton in the city, but I've met black professionals. I think overall black women may have it a bit easier in most places here when compared to black men.
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