Are You Crazy Enough To Marry A Russian Woman?
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But better spending some money for a background check then multiple times for 'nothing' and a lot of frustration and disappointment. Tip 7 Always show your honesty to her Always show your honesty first to her. Bibliography Balzer, Marjorie Mandelstam. Performing a background check will mean that Michael Muinov, a Russian lawyer who is specialized in background checks on Russian virtual lovers, can find out things like: The CFR was a secret organization for many years.
For the woman it's important to see that the man who is writing to her is serious about finding a new partner. To be very serious in your intentions and to be very open to her, gives you a response which you can analyze as reliable or not.
Important is to see how your mutual correspondence is developing, about what kind of subjects you both are talking. But if the woman starts in an early state with questions concerning money, for any kind of reason, than you have to be careful and you have to analyze if these questions has anything to do with the situation you and your correspondent are aware of.
Try to find out if her letters to you are very personal and don't look like standard generated letters. Persons who are just trying to get your money are using pre-defined letters, just because they don't have the time to write each person in a personal way. These persons mostly don't answer your specific questions and don't give much personal information, but use general predefined text for their letters.
This is at least a sign that you have to be careful. Ask specific questions and check if you receive answers on these questions. In case you are using an Agency with email forwarding or other mail-services, and your correspondent is not responding on your specific personal questions, this could be a sign of being suspicious. Another important thing is to confirm with her if your original letters indeed are reaching her.
Try to send copies of your original letters using postal mail or a fax machine at her office if possible and ask her if these letters are the same she received through the Dating Agency you are using. I know examples that some Dating Agencies, with this kind of services, can create additional questions or add more text to your letters or even change your letters, just for the reason to keep you as long as possible as their customer.
One of the most important thing is to try to get her on the phone now and then, in this way you can confirm your and her letters to each other. Read our complete information page about Dating scams and related topics. You will learn more about the Russian-women- dating-world in common. Being prepared is being halfway your success in finding you Russian lady.
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Always show your honesty first to her. Don't think they will trust you right away after your first contact to her. Dating Scams not only overcome men, but also to many women. Unfortunately there are also men who are trying unwanted approaches to the woman and sometimes these approaches are going very far. For you and your girlfriend it's important to know if you both are 'real'. Not only for you, but for the woman you are writing this is important too.
There are many ways to do this, but most of these ways will cost you money too. But better spending some money for a background check then multiple times for 'nothing' and a lot of frustration and disappointment. But one thing you can first do by yourself, just tell her not during your first or second letter to her!
It is better that you take this initiative to first send your copy of your passport, in this way she will have no reason to believe to be insulted by asking only her copy of her passport. If she did send you pictures of her, then she also can send you a scanned copy of her passport. Using this tip, you can at least compare her pictures with the picture on her passport and will see her real address and birth date, that is printed in her passport.
People who indeed are trying to fraud you, will give you at least a suspicious reaction to your question. In this world, it is quite normal to identify ourselves during official situations, so what's the problem to identify yourself in this situation?
Using this method you will have a check on her address and if the woman who is receiving this is the same you are writing. Also in this example, people who are trying to fraud you, will never allow themselves to be on a picture or give their real home address. They will use some excuse why they are not on the photo.
Don't get paranoid about this, just be careful and use your common sense.. Like I started this subject, it's just a minority who will try to play financial tricks with you.
If you want to read more about this subject, then continue reading our this article about Dating scams or visit the links in this page and you will read many interesting and useful topics about this matter. Internet dating Scams, what is this, how big is the risk, can this happen to me, how to prevent this. All questions thousands of people and more ask themselves.
In any kind of internet business where money is involved there are certain risks what we call in general Internet scam or fraud. In this topic we only are talking about scams in the Internet Dating and Marriage-world. When you are looking for a Russian woman you have to deal with many situations where your money can be involved. Please, be very careful when you want to spend money 'outside' reliable and verifiable services. In any case, never send money to a individual or single person you don't now or never have met in person.
In other words, you pay a lot of money with your credit card or Western Union money transfer service and you will receive…nothing! One of the most 'popular' service these organizations can do for her is arranging 'magic' US entry visa's. In , I paid a lot of money for a professional photographer and a signing up fee to put my photo's on the website of a certain Russian dating agency in Moscow it's not existing anymore.
Until today, I still have to wait till they will publish my photo's. I contacted many times with this 'Agency', but they denied that they received my photo's and money and the contact person, I was referring to, was not working in this office! These things can happen to your girlfriend too.
Always advise your girlfriend that if she need any services of an Agency ex. This happens almost every day in Russia Before I will give you some more details about all the financial items I mentioned above, I will give you first some more explanation about some facts you first should know.
Ok, I will give you some background information you should know: Yes, you are right, there are more men in Russia than women, at least in this age category.
Above the age of 65, there are more women than men. So why are Russian women, looking for a 'foreign' man The above question has more than one answer, I will give you a few: In Russia it is part of the Russian culture normal that women marry very young. They already marry from age 18, most of the women are married between 18 and 23 years and they sometimes already have 1 or 2 children too.
If a Russian woman is not married before 25, then she will be considered as 'strange' or weird. Another reason is that very young Russian women very early starts 'hunting' for their future husband, because they are afraid to be left alone, that they will be too old if they are not in time to find a husband. Because of this reason you also will see that many Russian women already are divorced at a comparing to Western standards very young age.
Being divorced in Russia is not a good start to find another man in Russia. All these reasons has everything to do with the Russian culture. Just 'living together' is sometimes not a possibility in relation to the Russian culture. If two young people want to live together, then they should be married first. For this reason, Russian women are looking for a foreign men with possible marriage.
To be married first or being officially engaged, when living together, is still very important for a Russian woman.
You really must respect this part of their culture. Don't try to convince her that 'living together' is almost the same as 'married together', because in Russia it's not the same. Another important reason is, that at this moment, young Russian people start to change their 'old' culture customs.
Especially young Russian men are waiting longer before they are thinking about marriage. This fact gives the young Russian woman a reason to look 'somewhere else', because they are afraid that when the Russian men is ready for marriage, there will be not enough men for her to 'choose'. The young Russian woman doesn't want to wait for this. A next very important reason is, that many Russian men have no job, no money, no future and as a result for that, drink a lot, which causes many decease's, and unfortunately, many Russian men will die too early read the above figures.
For the Russian women, this is not an acceptable situation or future she is waiting for. Concerning a certain age-group among the Russian women, you can say that Russian women between the age 30 and 45 are condemned to stay alone. There is almost no Russian man who is looking for such an 'old' woman.
I know it sounds crazy, but unfortunately, it's true. Another possible reason is the fact that Russian women don't have any faith in the economical future of Russia, although the Russian economy is recovering slowly, for the Russian women, it's developing too slow.
Russian women are in general high educated persons and hard workers and they also want to use their education in a normal economical atmosphere. Russia still has a long way to go to accomplish this and the women have not enough time to wait for this, because in time they will be too old to find a man. The final reason for women who are looking for a foreign man, is a combination of the above.
The economical reason in combination with finding a trustful foreign husband. In general all Russian women are looking for a trustful, reliable, healthy and respectful husband who lives a normal life under normal circumstances with an acceptable financial living standard to support a family under normal conditions.
I use the word 'normal' many times, I want to express that these women are not specific looking for rich men. They don't need 2 cars, a TV in every room, 2 boats, 2 houses and 5 times a year a holiday. But they are also not looking for a man who likes to drink a lot or uses drugs now and then or don't have enough means to support a family or is just lazy, or being only a housekeeper after he finally married her.
And they certainly are not looking for a one time adventure. Maybe you ask yourself why Russian women sometimes write down these specific qualifications. For me this answer is very easy. If you meet some woman in your 'own' neighborhood, she will find out by herself how you are living, what kind of man you are, what kind of job, hobbies, interests you have, how you clean your house is and how you iron your shirts. But for Russian women this is more difficult, she only can 'know' these things because you are 'writing' this to her.
She actually cannot 'see' it by herself, she lives too far away for just a short visit which for the US is impossible to do , to see e. For this reason, Russian women will ask you many times about these things, and if not, you should tell her these things by yourself. These items are very important for her, because she needs to create the right or correct image of the man she intends to live with. But unfortunately there is also a very small group of most of the times very young Russian women who only are looking for a 'ticket' green card to the US or other Western country.
Most of these young women are even not aware of the 'impossible' future they try to create. You can recognize these women if you have a normal knowledge of human character. These women doesn't want to take month's before they want to meet you preferable in your country and without detailed knowledge about what kind of man you are , also these women don't mind at all if you are 20 years or more older than they are.
And usually they will not talk or write about very profound personal interests or very private matters. In fact they act sometimes like high school girls, are already writing that they love you in their third letter and are not afraid to talk about money. They will often tell you that they are really looking forward to 'live in your country', instead of saying 'living with you'.
It is not self-evident that these women are 'scams', they are just too young to know that most of these large-age-difference relationships not always work out as they expect to be. The first line I wrote to my current husband was: They can make your head going out of control. Imagine, a 21 beautiful young woman, a really knock out, who is in love with an 43 year old western man.
If this will ever happen to you, please ask yourself, why this very young woman is attracted to a much older man? After that, ask her the same question and try to evaluate her answers about this fact, and talk with others e. Of course there are many examples that this age difference really can work, but to be honest and not to discourage you, I interviewed different Russian women about this subject and they all answered that they in general prefer men of their own age.
Of course they don't mind reasonable age difference more than western women do , but like I said, in an acceptable way. My husband is 9 years older than me and I have no problem with that, beside that, we both have reached an age above 35 that we made our decision based on mutual mature life experience. There is a big difference between an age difference for example, she 20 and you 40 then for example, she 35 and you Just try to keep it within reasonable age difference, I thought you are looking for a Russian 'wife' and not for a 'daughter'?
These women are most of the time very young comparing to your age She tells you how nice it would be to live in your beautiful 'country', instead of telling you how nice it would be to live with 'you''. In general, she wants to come to your country very soon, but not for you as the main reason. The real bad 'guys': And there are also women and men who work in an organized way. They almost never 'work' alone and can be very convincing to you that they will be the perfect wife for you.
In fact these 'women' are often 'men' faking like you are corresponding with a real woman. But sometimes it also can be a real woman who is trying to fraud you. I know a story of a man who visited a woman after she invited him for the first time in Ukraine but this also can be Russia or other CIS country and this woman arranged for him with help of some 'friends' an apartment and other practical matters. Then she showed him a lot of fake very expensive bills and asked him to pay her.
When he didn't want to pay this crazy and unacceptable amount of money, she blackmailed him by threatening him to go to the local police, if he didn't want to pay her. Of course he had no choice, because you never know how many people are involved in this kind of 'fraud' and he never would have had any chance or even worse. A single identification doesn't automatically means that she is a 'scam', but more than 3 combinations is enough information to start to be cautious.
But any 'money' issue, especially if she is asking for it or if she takes the initiative to talk about money, is considered as an important identification of possible scam.
Does it scares you? Please don't, it's only a minor part 0. Don't get paranoid about this, you can do many things by yourself to avoid a possible scam and if you do it right, it doesn't need to cost you a lot of money.
Always try to be positive, don't think that behind every corner there will be someone waiting for you to get rid of your money. And do not forget that many Russian women are afraid for the same thing too. It's not only the 'women' who are trying to 'play' with men, there are a lot of weird Western men too, who just are looking for some 'action' or a one time adventure with a beautiful Russian girl or woman and just drop them like dirt when they don't need them anymore.
One of my best Russian friend has had this kind of experience with an American man. So, both parties man and woman will be insecure and cautious, before they 'open' themselves completely to each other. Ok, I know this sounds stupid, but this could be a 'safe' way to start your journey to find yourself a trustful and reliable woman. Don not lose you common sense and use your common knowledge of human character and always keep both feet on ground. Many men lose their heads if they see a picture of a real knock-out, especially if this knock-out is interesting in him.
It looks like they are drugged and it will take away their 'feelers' that should warn him when he scents 'danger'. The world looks pink to him and walks on clouds, but he doesn't notice that he is already taking his wallet to help this young beautiful woman who lives in such a 'cruel' world called Russia. Ok, I know I am exaggerating, but be warned, this kind of people can really use very credible stories to convince you their reliability, by using very dirty tricks.
Forgive me for saying this, but I am a woman and allow myself to say this men in general can be very naive during moments they should be very attentive. I receive often questions of men who are suspicious about their current contact with a lady. When I start to ask more information about the correspondence and receive copy of letters, I very often can recognize possible scam.
You should do this too, just to 'learn' how these people write their letters. Ask the woman to explain to you why she likes you and what she is really looking for.
This question can be very important for you. You can judge from her answer if it sounds acceptable, or reasonable or not. Skip the superlatives in her answer and try to read 'between' the lines. Especially when there is a big age difference between her and you, her answer can be of great importance of your possible suspicious thoughts about her. If you are a man over 45, bold, having a small overweight belly and smoking cigars and she is beautiful and only 24 years young, then never accept her answer that you are so handsome.
Be honest with yourself. If she really likes you which of course is possible then she really must give you a very good and above all, realistic and acceptable reason to explain to you why.
Ask her things about her private life, family, friends, work, postal address, birth date, phone numbers etc. People who try to fraud you, don't like to give a way such sensitive information.
Because they know you easily check this information. Ask some specific questions in your letters and check if she really gives answers on your specific questions.
If people indeed are trying to fraud you, then you are not the only one they are corresponding with. They often use pre-printed text and after the second and third letter they use similar text which can be used for other men too. Of course some answers are answers on your questions you send to here, but it is important to read 'how' they write their answers and what kind of 'English' they use. Don't get paranoid at once. It depends in what way she is talking about money. And, more important, in what phase of your relationship with her, are you both in.
Supporting her financially, for only matters related to e. If the woman has no financial means for herself than you should help her. But never send her a penny before you ever met her in person! They can be very convincing to you why she needs money.
It can start with a few dollars to pay her Internet fees for emailing you, or she can talk about money for the phone at the post office. Jut don't send money to her. First visit her and see if you both really have or can have a serious relationship. Go to her country and spend as long time as possible with her. I write books, operate a forum, run two large blogs, have a personal blog, and so on.
I wondered to myself if he got sore by my answers and wrote a code which would subject me to an additional search. Sure enough, after getting my bags and going through the exit, I was pointed to the secondary screening area for further inspection.
Why was I being treated worse than them? Is there a new directive to screen citizens with Muslim names who have visited Eastern Europe? His search of my bags was lazy. Several years ago I was subject to a random drug search in Colombia and they even went through the inside of my socks. After his search was done, he fiddled at the computer for a while. I could only imagine what he was typing in there.
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