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My Ex's new girlfriend looks just like me?

is he dating me for my looks

Im afraid that he will leave me. But it will be the two of us. Its all very misleading. I have kind of done this before, in high school I asked a guy to prom and he said no. I, myself, have done stuff like that. Page 1 of 7. The one thing that has always thrown me off is the fact that I need to start the conversations most of the time with him.

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He was the first one to do it. Then I realized he acts Different around me, in a good way. He also pokes other girls. I think we all instinctively know if someone likes us. It is free and quick. And asked what was wrong.

He emailed me back the next day and the first thing he wrote in the email was a happy face that gave me a big hug. He said ofcourse its ok to email me. He was extremely happy to hear from me. It was about a week later and he sent me red roses to my job for valentines day.

He calls me baby and he tells me that he misses me and ect. But we have not seen each other or talked verbally since December. I know that he loves me. I adore him but I do not know if I should hold on or let go. It would be one thing if we just didnt keep in contact but even though we havent seen each other or heard from each other, it still feels like we are together. I love him, so I have to trust him. But am I going crazy? I know you can tell me your opinion if there is hope or not but ultimately you do not now the whole story.

But any possible insight on this matter that you can give me would be grately apprieciated. I just want to be who I was before all this happened but unfortunately this situation has altered my life and I am just finding the direction I need to go… Thank you so much for your time and sharing your wisdom in this matter.

Victoria, now one question I have is is this guy still married? And since all he is doing is emailing you sounds a little fishy. In my oppinion if he is only contacting you in this way and if he does come to see you, I think he is just trying to get lucky with you again. But on the other hand, he does care enough to keep you in his life, so if he actually commits in a relationship with you eventually, without sleeping with you first or being married I think he is a keeper.

Okay, So my friend told me that this guy in my class liked me, and I decided to tell him that I like him back on facebook. But then he said he rather Just be friends. Well, when it blurted out in facebook that you liked him, men will go backward and scared of your premature commitment over him.

Hi I would like to ask for advice. We never really worried about meeting new people; however it happened. I did not initiate the action, but while a couple of friends and I were watching a movie, a guy suddenly leaned in for a kiss. After countless debates about telling him or not, I decided to tell him. My boyfriend saw the whole situation as cheating. Prior to telling him, we have already kind of discussed about breaking up.

That was the reason because we were having problems and because I in a way felt really guilty for not doing anything about that kiss. After he calm down about the situation. We had a long talk. During that talk he told me the timing for how everything happened was what messed up our possible chance of ever getting back together again. He said if it would have happened in a different order such as not mentioning break up first and telling him about the situation earlier, then maybe we could have worked it out but now he says its impossible for us to date again.

He felt like I was trying to hide it. The problem is, I still like him a lot and I do want to date him again. The other problem is he told me he likes being single because he has time for himself and its less stressful since he goes to a pretty difficult school.

He says he feels neutral about me, I seriously have no idea what that actually means. If a guy says that what does that mean? Does he still seem interested in me? Should I still try to get him back? Should I leave him be?

In a situation like this, if I were to continue going after him, what are some hints for me to know if I am successful or not?

As of now we do still text time to time and I honestly have a lot of fun texting him. The first tme we kissed, it was because of a dare. The next few times, he made the first move. You know, that kind of bro code thing.

I heard my friend mention that he NEVER approached the girl first, rather they alwys made the first move. But with me, he confessed he made the first move.

When asked why, he said because he felt like it. After our kisses, we just act like normal. Here are some questions I would like to ask. Does he flirt with other girls? If he does, does he try to hide it from you or does he bluntly tell you about other girls? You like him, but do you feel you both have mutual feelings regardless of what he tells you?

I found it interesting that he would he be questioning you about not ever being flirty with him. He probably asked because he either expected you to or wants you to. And what does he always bring up? In my opinion, he surely has something for you. My opinion on this: So me and this guy were friends. We told each other we like each other. And what should I do now??

Hey when it comes down to it he, already knows everything about you. You as his friend or even his best friend. The guy wants someone that he views more as a girl rather then a buddy. So my advice is do your nails, curl your hair, and put on something that makes you feel free. I know this sounds totally crazy, but the little things are what count. Or he might just not find you attractive and you should let the other girl in his life to come in and make his world.

Also who said I like you 1st?? Because if you did he might of just said that to make you feel alright about it…… So before you jump all over him just remember that. I need having some help.. Im see ing this guy and we are having sex. He always there for me no matter what and stuff when things go bad anywhere else like home, college choices, etc.. It sounds like you were friends first who decided to have sex.

This is not good. You will mess up the friendship. If he tells you not to get attached to him then he is saying: I could be into another girl however, but not you. You need to stop having sex with him right now!! Hello, I was going through the same thing like you. We both deserve relationships and down the line they will like someone else.

When you not bringing nothing to the table and just sex, we tend to get used for sex. Move on because I did. No relationship, no sex let the next man know that but, let him wait on you if that man can. What does that even mean!!! It was pretty clear. Some other girl, absolutely. You should seek some form of therapy to get that under control. He had every right to be upset with you. He wants you to stay away from him, completely. You need to move along and work on your impulse control.

Learn to take rejection. He means that he could have sex with you, but since he has no feelings for you it would be using you. You need counseling to figure out why you get so pyscho over some dude. We use one another for pretty much everything, friendship, companionship, love, pleasure, entertainment. Maybe grow up some before you try to have a real relationship. My, now, recent ex and I broke up. An he just jump into another relationship like that?

Our friendship is gone, he told my friend the other day that the moment he gave me up was the moment he gave up everything. But when I finally gave in and texted him asking him for some advice on my music. What you should do is move on. If you keep hanging on to him emotionally, texting under the guise of needing advice, you will be wasting your time.

My boyfriend asked me for time off because I messaged a girl on facebook and asked her if she and my boyfriend had something going on. It happened that the girl was with my boyfriends cousin. A few days later my boyfriend told me why i did that and i told him it was because I saw on his phone that they were messaging each other and he had sent her a message saying I still remember the first time I messaged you on facebook and I gave you my number and he gave her the exact date.

At first he was an asshole about it because I would still try to keep in touch with him because I still love him. After that day things begin to be ok but we still had our distance and low communication.

But now I feel like Im making the mistake of having sex with him. Its just weird that he textes me everyday and askes me if I have gone on dates and if Im talking to guys. I know I have been those stuff but never controlling. I think his cousin filled up his mind and he thinks like that. But he still wants to have sex with me, he said that at least hes doing it with me and not with someone else. He would be in a relationship with another woman if he liked her.

Stop letting him use you for sex! Get rid of him. Me and my ex recently broke up well i say recently its been 5 months since we broke up. W ere both in love with one another and i still love him. We broke up due to a horrendous argument we had where we both said incredibly cruel things in the mists of the anger.

When we initially broke up I tried contacting him and he would alwayd repky back and at first he would be fine but later in the conversation he would turn cold e. If i just texted him a simple how is he doing he would reply back and we would be able to have a relaxed friendly conversations but during the conversation he would suddenly turn really mean like he would start saying things like why are you texting me i dont want to talk its basically like dr jekyll and dr hyde.

However recently like for the past week or two his not been cruel at all we have managed to have conversations which are friendly and well like how we use to talk though he still fratanizes with other girls. Basically what im asking is, is he just playing me or are we just friends or is he still interested etc… I know i broke his heart wheb we broke he even said that it was a very painful and tearful break up for us both though i want him back as i dont care about the argument i care about how he made me feel but i dont know of there is any point in trying??

Thank you for all the help and ligjt you may be able to shed upon thos situation. Ok so I was in a relationship with this guy twice and we came across the same problem both times. Whenever his friends or other people came around, he would talk to them instead of me. After that, we completely stopped talking and messaging and just ignored each other. As soon as he found out that me and my recent boyfriend broke up, he started messaging me again.

He said that he noticed that he liked me because whenever I was at the same event or room as him, his eyes would always follow me. He also said that he was finally over his last girlfriend but I still feel really doubtful about that. I finally told him that I was scared of going through the same problem again and then breaking up without fixing it. He said that he could and then right after that he stopped messaging me. I really wanna know if he is just using me or if he actually likes me because I really have no idea what to do.

I shoot many down but not in a mean way. Suddenly a handsome rich man shows interest. We exchange messages until with satisfactory he ask for my number.

We text back and forth. I have to make most of the conversation. He is happy with our talk. He continues to text asking for different favors. At a point I send a less attention getter video of who I am. Immediately after watching he says he wanted something more explicit.

He has already asked and received his other similar request and was happy. He is aware that I am unskilled and acknowledge my inexperience and reluctance in doing certain favors but he continues to ask for favors. After last request which I was a bit uncomfortable with and it may have shown I send and he just stops all contact completely.

What did I do? He was so into me. Now he cut me off completely. And he will not tell me why. But when the one I want comes I may try too hard to please him. Game never really works in the end. Playing with folk minds. Either we both will be real with our likes or forget it. Now he is giving me mixed feeling and mixed looks. A and i are very close best friends.

People used to say that we love each other and we are hiding it but there was nothing like that. We were sincerely best friends, at that time we both were not dating anyone, we were both singles but never thought of dating each other. No one believed that we were dating till A got a girlfriend,i was happy for him but the worst part was that his gf disliked me. Because she thought i can take A from her anytime so,she started the mission of separating us.

First she started telling him that she wanted to be both his best friend and his girlfriend which means that i should backoff then. I could do anything to save our friendship and to make things easy for him. She told him that she hacked his phone so she can see whom he is chatting with and whom he is talking to.

As always he told me everything when we meet up and as always i made his work easier by coming with the idea of writing letters to each other. We then used to write letters to each other,we used to write the letters at night then he gives the letter to his sister when she is leaving the house and i used to exchange the letter with his sister when she brings his letter.

His sister was our Postman. He could get angry but he was happy thinking that we can now communicate through phone and no more troubling his sister. Things went on like that,playing hide and seek with his girlfriend. It was stress but also fun,we learnt a lot and our friendship became stronger and stronger as things get harder and harder.

Anyway,that unhealthy competition helped me a lot, i got to know that no one can separate me and A. He always stops me from dating. He then starts calling me,visiting me every day,chatting with me the whole day. Now am planning to propose to him on the new years eve. But how do i propose to him? Yeah i know he has a girlfriend but she is about to move to USA.

Am really confused, should i do it or should i not. And if it is to do it,what will i tell him,what will i say when i would be proposing to him. Oh my,Please help,i really need help in this. I have read so many different articles and this seems like the best one so far! Is he really into me or am I just imagining it? Should I tell him anyways? Would you think the mixed signals mean something?

I sometimes see him staring and he talks to his best friend about me in whisper but in front of me are these sign. Oy, where to begin. I have a manager who became a friend over the years. We both have kind of hit relationship snags lately. He always asks how home life is going. He pulls me in his office to talk about personal life stuff. He wants me to help him with work stuff all the time. When I walk by him he always smiles and says my name.

Most the time my full name. He comes up to me randomly at work to vent or to just talk or say hi. Thanks from this super naive girl. Hi Eric, Please give me your opinion. I move abroad 3 years ago. Before that I was going out with a guy for two years, we never got to date formally but become very good friends and lovers. After, I moved to USA, we keep in contact, he never got a girlfriend but just recently a week ago I saw some pics of him with a girl that is his girlfriend.

To my desapoinment I wish him well without making any drama, I even told him that he deserves to be happy. He told me that we are far away and whith out seen each other for so long thinks were very difficult realistically.

After all this we both agreed to continue being good friends and not let this situation affect our friendship. So, now yesterday I stopped by to say hi to him in a Pm and he started telling me how beautiful I look in my new profile picture and asking me to sent him pictures of me. Is he happy with his girlfriend? He never was this time of man, he always was very serious.

Any advise I will very much appreciate it a lot. His friends always would say something if I was there and they still do, I even took the quiz mentioned and it said he definitely liked me. Up until yesterday I thought he liked me as I always saw him glancing at me. But my best friend texted him and asked him if he liked me, his response was only as a friend then changed to maybe. When I went to school today he did talk to me and we laughed like usual but something seemed off. The last period I had at school we had a couple minutes to ourselves and my teacher felt generous enough to let us talk amongst ourselves.

I thought I saw him glancing at me today but he might have been looking somewhere else in my direction. We have hungout and we have gone on dates, we have kissed and everything else except have sex. He has told me he wants me. Then later on he starts texting me out of the blue again like nothing happened. Idk if that makes since. So I replied what I was doing and then i said I missed him. So he wants to live with me why?

So I have met him 6 weeks ago for an exchange programme, and we started talking normally, since we were in a small foreign group together we would always eat, go out and have classes together. And at the beginning I thought he liked her too. Then a week after we met, we went out and she started saying how she thinks he likes me and how she knows I like him too — since it was crystal clear her words.

Which I didnt know where she was taking such ideas from. Then we — this guy and I — started to talk and whenever we were having dinner we would make faces at each other, we became slightly childish; everytime I was walking alone or at the back of the group he would somehow be there next to me. Would playfully annoy me and find ways to have small conversations. But there were also times where he would be talking to his friends or stay quiet. Then once we had a group chat I gave my snapchat away so that if anyone wanted to add me they could.

He was the first one to do it. Whenever we circled in a group he would come up and be centimeters away from my face, maybe he was just playing. And the closest we touched was forehead to forehead when I was telling him to drink slowly and drink with a straw hahahaha. We would sit down next to each other or just play around. Whenever we would see each other he would make stupid faces and I would smile or laugh at them.

My friends say that he likes me and he is interested, so I mustered half the balls to ask him online, because his friends kept interrupting whenever we seemed to be alone in person. And he said that he likes me as a friend and would be stupid to have anything go further in 5 weeks, which I understand since we dont even live in the same country.

Also we had friends that had a relationship during these weeks and knew that they would end the relationship once the programme ended and this guy said he didnt want to do the same thing to anyone. And he said that we became friends and stayed as friends. We still kept in touch everyday and it seemed like I was always the last person he speaks to before he sleeps.

The time I asked him for favours or suggested something he would do ir or accept it. Most of the time he is the one to message.

I dont know if its because he is being a good friend or maybe he does like me. I dont know I am the worse person to understand signs from guys, so maybe I am already in the friend zone and hoping he would like me just a little bit for nothing.

His friend — well the guy he met before we went to the exchange programme said that he is not the womanizer kind of guy, so what is he? For example; The first Secret that you had mention was: What exactly is it that women do to make the guy feel like a winner?

That was one of my common questions that I just wanted to ask you and for you to elaborate more on if you do not mine of course. I was recently in a relationship a few months ago with someone who, at first I was not interested in, but after getting to know him, I realized that he seem very nice and interesting after all. He also has never brought me any gifts for me to show that he really likes me.

After everything, I still had feelings for him by the end of the day. Til this day, I still feel some type of way for him, even thought were not together anymore. Before long, I have never been in a real relationship, hell, I never been asked out on a date. I used to ask some of my female friends who had a real relationship for advice.

I would ask them questions like how did you meet him? Where do you go to find a guy? The majority have said that they have meet men online, around their neighborhood or even at church.

I am not a party person, I do hang out at the park or movies and eat out at restaurants, but you will never find me in night clubs or bars. So I wanted to ask you these basic questions including this last one next; where and how can I meet not just any guy the right guy for me? I really hope that you read this short letter, I would like to hear your answers or comments that you might have from reading this personal text; You already know my email so your can just send your replies there. Again, Thank you so much for the articles that you have posted and your emails, I truly appreciate them.

Ok this boy in my class keeps looking at me and one day I had my head down because people where being bullies and he came over and asked if I was on then he asked about my glasses and when I was getting new ones.

My friend keeps on insisting that he likes me is she right? Two weeks after my first day he texts me, we talk and we agree to go drink in tokyo and spend the night there. When we are alone he never tries anything, never speaks about us and has not initiated a text convo.

I have when i needed him for something but he has not answered to the last one just quietly done what i needed him to do. At work i am always associated with him and we occasionally spend the day as if we were best friends.. He has introduced me to literally everyone that he knows. I used to be sure he liked me after our text convos and have tried to give hints that i like him too, but now i am not sure???? I really need advice. The only thing I know of is in a previous conversation he state you looking for a relationship….

Not sure how to respond but I am attracted to this guy…advise please. I have a co-worker that to me is attractive.

I can be working and I can feel him stare at me and when I look up, i always catch him. Jeez this is exasperating, I got used to him and now I want him outta my head for good.

What do I do!? What do I do. Theirs this guy who works right next door to me. I work in that store with my mom she owns it well sometimes I catch him looking at me,passing by the store alot. Like today while I was cleaning I saw him standing in his store and he was just looking at me and I know I saw him look at me its not just in my head. Also today I caught about 3 times standing by the exit of his store looking at me. My bf, used to visit me every weekend!

He asked me once bout my feelings for him, I told him I love him, he told me, he is crazy bout me! What do I do? What do I think? I love spending time with him!

He is real a fun loving guy to be with! Theres a fella that works in a pub that i go to on a Friday for lunch. He alway speaks to me first.. He hid my keys on me for an hour last week and he is always messin and jokin about when i went up to pay he called me chick.. Is he just being nice r is he flirtin?? My cousin seems to think hes flirtin and that he does like me but i dont no. Do you ever get to leave this place? The fact that he called you chick means nothing lol.

Ok, I have been seeing this guy sporadically, mostly every other weekend. We text a bit throughout the week, but do not speak much via phone. We hug on every departure; the hugs seem to be getting longer, and he looks me in the eye when we talk. I started working at a grocery store a year ago. I was very shy and not very talkative. This other bagger was very nice and started conversations with me.

What was he like? Would you go back to him? One day he told me another co-worker said that I was the perfect girl for him and that he should take me to dinner. I just told him our co-worker is being silly. Slowly, things progressed, one day I was having a bad day, so I went outside during break and he was going home, He noticed I was sad, so he walked over, I tried to pull away, but he kept getting closer.

And asked what was wrong. A couple weeks later, we were in the break room, and he was playfully teasing me. I accidentally tripped and felt stupid, but he found it cute. He added me on facebook as well.

The day came to go, and I went there. After about 20 mins, I texted him. He told me his brother had a heart attack and asked if we could schedule, so not to be a bitch, I gave him the benefit of the doubt and said sure.

He kept asking if I was mad and apologize. I told him I understood. He brought up rescheduling a few times, but I never did. After a while, his flirting and attempts stopped.

One of our co-workers got divorced, and I saw these two come from the yogurt shop. So I assumed he was interested in her, She was on my facebook friend list and so is he, and she was on his as well. Until recently, he started in again.

I was upstairs and he was waiting to clock in. I was sitting there. He starts looking at me and smiling. I glance his way, and he smiles, I look away and go back to texting.

I start watching youtube videos and he starts making weird noises. I start laughing, and he does too. So I wrote hi. And then he sat and watched me, I read it, but I kept watching youtube. And keeps looking at me until I finally text. He asked me to lunch again, and gave me his days off. The next day, same situation. Except I got the hiccups, and he started teasing me. And he started talking about how much was his favorite month and asked me to guess.

I again got the hiccups and got up and got a drink of water from the fountain. So I guessed he liked march because it was his birthday. He said yep, guess my day.

I said the day and it was a day off. He said maybe go to hard rock. I told him how I have very bad panic attacks on planes. Would you feel better? I really hate flying. Then he asked if I liked hockey and had ever been to a game. That night when I went on to facebook, our other co-worker had posted a disney quiz she shared. I was puzzled as usually facebook states when we have mutual friends. Then I noticed he was no longer on her list. Either he removed her or she removed him.

Made me think that he was just leading me on and their involved. Got a bit hurt, but I went on with my night. Next day was my day off, so I went in and got a haircut in the salon next door to my store. Then I went into the store to buy a snack and kitten food.

I was cashing out and he was bagging. I was waiting to clock in. He was walking by to go bag, and then he looked and saw me. He started walking over in my direction, but I pulled a way a bit.

He always fidgets with his clothes a lot. And the customer asked how he was doing. But I need a good woman in my life. He always is trying to please my mother. Also one day, I was clocking in, and then I started walking around the corner.

We ran right into each other. Then later he did it again, but this time I was clocking out, and I turned around, he was right behind me and was reaching for the clock.

This seems super childish. I think you should just go up to him and be like. Do you want to go on a date with me or not? Or next time he flirts tell him to make good on it and take you out. I try to make him jealous at times by hanging out with other guys. He will talk to me and tease me. Sometimes I even catch him staring at me. He also tends to sometimes ignore me. He has also talked to me about this other girl he likes.

Mixed signals… The second one is a sophmore who I just met doing a play. He will goof around with me and tease me especially. He tries to talk to me but we are in rehearsals… The third one is a football player in my math class. I sat next to him the first semester and he would constantly compliment me on my drawings. This semester we both moved teachers and we are in the same period math.

We were put in a group to work on a worksheet and he teased me in a good way about my stupid anticipation of the fire drill that was planned. I have been seeing this guy since july, we met online and he was charming. Throughout the summer we saw each other on a good basis but then school started and we only saw each other once every month.

And the times that we saw each other after the last time having sex he would make the effort of taking the train from his school to come see me in my town but he has only done that twice right before the last time we have sex and after.

At that time the 2nd time he came to see me I felt myself being kinda clingy to him and him being kind distant but still good to me after that time we had made plans to see each other thanksgiving weekend because he was going to have his car.

He is obviously not into you. A It will only hurt you worse. I say, get out of the mentally abusive relationship before you regret the heartache and tears. There are way more men out there that will love and appreciate you. You must know your self worth. He told me that he does not like me, not but he keeps touching me and I have to sit with him… what should I do????? That is one of the most positive, well thought out, true observations i have ever read from a male perspective. It is really just the bottom line, the really fine print, all the cliches that explain the male mind without having to explain them.

Mostly women are in control. What do I say to my ex on text for him to naturally be committed to me? Now he is just checking me out but likes someone else meanwhile.

He always comes back to me so many times and leaves me for a another girl. Why would he always come back to me! Give me some advice pleaseeeee! Please help me i need your advice!!

We know each other through chatting application a years ago. We lived in different country. We began our relationshiph as friend… he told me he like me and i told him i like him to… every day we became more intimated… And suddenly many things happened for past 6 months.

We once stopped contacting each other for about 4 or 5 months. During that time i suddenly realized that i really love him… My friend told me to give up because its impossible to us to be together. I know it well, but at least i just wanna confessed to him about my feeling.

He replay with surprised. He keep apologize and said that he was a bad man who hurt me. That time i knew for sure he already reject me, so i think i need to give up on him.

He also asked me to wait for him some years until he have enough money to see me. But suddenly he stop contacting me and said he was busy etc. I dont know what should i do. I mean, i began to doubt is he really love me or not. The told me it hopeless but i really want to prove them it wasnt hopeless at all. But things that he stop contact me is really disturbing.

Im afraid that he will leave me. Its the first time for me feeling like this. Thank you so much and sorry for my bad english. I guess I really need your help.. There is that one guy that I like and I am not sure he likes me or not.

But he is really nice to meet like overly nice to me. He cooked me dinner more than twice. He tried to tease me like playful tease. He started the conversation even it is not necessary. He always said he is protecting me or will protect me. When I told him that he cannot carried me,he carried me half of the way home.

He touch my back sometimes and invade my personal space. But he told how other girls are hot infront of me and I feel jealous. Do you think he is interest in me? I need to know this. I am 21 and he is He was heavy into drugs and alcohol and I was neive enough at that point in time to not know what addiction was. Long story short, we parted ways, pretty much with me destroying his life for a good 2 to 3 months. I convinced him and his family that I was pregnant..

It was a horrible thing to do. I spent the following 3 years with this lingering fear that he would come back and destroy my life as I had his. Eventually, my secret was made common knowledge and I was past the fear. Over the years, he would facebook message me here and there, and I would either ignore it or tell him to leave me alone. Back in June of this year, I was in the middle of an Awakening and I was pretty much cleansing myself of all the bad.

I finally admitted to him that I lied about it everyone knew but it was the words that meant something and apologized and he forgave me. We talked here and there until a little over a month ago when he walked in to my store out of no where! It was a bit strange the first meeting, but we instantly clicked right back into our comfort zone. I asked him why he came. He said he was tired of thinking about me and not doing anything about it.

He regretted the influence he was under during our time together and wanted to do it again. We live an hour away from one another and we work crazy hours the both of us. Please, any comments, or advice, to keep him in my life forever would be very much appreciated.

Am I too assuming if I would say that this guy really likes me? He once told me that he wanted me to be his girlfriend and I told him that we could never possibly be. My ex keeps on starring at me and he starting to check me out alot and he passes by my locker at school at the end of the day. But im not talking to him?

Will he ever talk to me again? Does he like me again? Should I wait until he talks to me or should I start it? I did this in another occasion and he was begging for me but once i showed that i was interested in him more then he was in me he disappeared again.

My crush has a list of who he likes and I am second the girl he likes. Sometimes he takes things away from me and I allow him to sometimes, one day he took one of my earphones and started listening to my music with me what does that mean?

I need you explain at first the circumstances of all of this. So I was working at the switchboard head office of a Bank last summer and as you can imagine we actually receives thousand of calls every day from professionals. He asked me many questions about what I like, what kind of person I am, and blablabla. But right after the BBQ ended, he called me at the office, and said that he had to drink mojitos because I was not there. In our first messages, we used to speak very politely, and the 30th August he started speaking casually.

One thing, that might be important, it is that after he came back from holiday and before I had to leave to my new city, we planned to meet. The second, during one week I had no news so I sent him a message back and he explained that someone died and this was on 2th October. He always ask me how I am doing, if a made friend in my new city cause I moved from Paris to Grenoble. We laughed about a funny subject, however about it he just said that the principal is that I still be myself which is the most important.

Before we became friend on Facebook, he never sees me, no pictures, nothing. And after Facebook, there was pictures, there was no more office, so no more calls. Because I wanted to to hear he voice again, I gave him my phone number, saying hat he could call anytime, and so he said that he would call me by the end of the week and it is been one month.

So please, tell me, what is going on? Thank you for reading it, for your answer, and also for everything you do here. He is constantly raising his eyebrow, biting his lip, and looking at me.

But he is dating a girl. He fixes his hair, and even brushes up against me sometimes. Does he like me, or is he just playing a game? Sounds like he is trying to make you jealous. In the beginning we were just getting to know each other. About 2 years ago he started tutoring me alone at his place for my physics class.

That was when I really started to fall for him. Before he was just the cute guy friend. Over the last couple years we saw a movie alone, did other one on one activities and in my opinion flirting with each other. The one thing that has always thrown me off is the fact that I need to start the conversations most of the time with him. We have some things in common- movies and music taste, same opinion of morals and we are both loyal people. Over the last couple years he has stared at me longer than needed, showed off to get my attention, let his hands linger when passing me items, been protective of me when strange men to him, I know whom they are approach me to chat, stand shoulder to shoulder with me, hold an umbrella for me once, pays for everything and always stay back to help me carry stuff.

He recently has taken an interest in the freaky sexual stuff I am interested in. He also confided in my recently to the point where he broke down. Because I myself am a man, I am almost completely sure he likes you, either that, or he thinks of you as a sister. I am friends with many women, and find myself being protective even though I have a major crush on a boy.

Also I just have to mention that we have a long distance relationship, but for the past three weeks we have been traveling up and down to see each other. I was open for this, but I am receiving a load of mixed signals, so much that I feel I am getting whiplash from moving back and front with this guy.

After the no feeling relationship he wanted for now, he has asked me three times to leave my pills, so that I can have his baby, he has suggested five times that I move in with him and that he will buy me a car etc. I am very independent and he has a lot of money, but this does not matter to me, and even though I really like him, I feel very insecure, as when I start hinting in a direction that I am having feelings, he just reminds me again of the non-feeling relationship we have.

I ride the bus for hours to go hang out with him at his place, nothing really happens but usually I stay with him from 9am-8pm.

One of my friends asked me to date him 6 separate time. Had a guy boarding at my house a few years back, like over 10 years ago. I think he did like me as I felt him staring at me on the sly quite a few time. Long story short he moved out after a year and within the next year following had married someone else second marriage for him. So wtf is up with that. Hi Eric, I really hope I can hear from you. In my past I have been in some bad relationships and so has this guy.

I just understand why this is happening and was wondering if there was anything at all I could do to change this. Now my friend has a crush on him and stuff. She hangs out with him and other people in their neighborhood often. When I see him he seems to glance at me a lot and tease me. My friend was upset an told me that he talks about me all the time. Does he like me? What am I supposed to do?

We joke, play-fight, tease, compliment, and are pretty close to each other. We talk about everything, even the difficult stuff.

He has a girlfriend. It was a 3 yr relationship. I like dis guy from work.. He was so nice to me a couple of days.. Complimenting about my smile n how cheerful I was.. Then he just gives me tat look.. Not starting a conversation like he used to start before. He has noticed me talking to a couple of guys from.

Does dis guy reli like me. I think we all instinctively know if someone likes us. Another way more accurate way to put it would be to say that they were never on the same page. Maybe the guy wanted to have a casual, no-strings attached fling and she wants him to get down on one knee and have babies right now.

I blame Hollywood for this perverse notion…. I know he is into me and i know HOW he is into me. These words are very simple. I want more from him but I also know what our relationship is. So i can confide he likes me but i cant confide Im his one and only …but i can act like i am until, he makes it clear im not.

Be happy when hes into you. He is into you. Its the same with men. Its almost like woman want to conquer in an ultimate way whereas men just want to conquer. Women need to see things on a basic level if they want to reach a man at all. Much clarity should ensue …in time i think. Or asks you if you would date someone his age or gets touchy-feely with you. Its all very misleading. Hi Eric, I need some help… I feel so silly doing this but I have gotten to a point where things have got weird.

I have tried to ask him out I put my self out there for this guy and he like wont respond. I guess I came on to strong for him. I thought it was a good idea and that if it was a double date he wont feel pressured. I mean it was once. I need some advice…. This guy I thought was cute started to flirt with me and I flirted back, we were like this a couple days, he complimented me a lot, updated his status with things related to me and we laughed a lot.

He told me my smile could make him fall in love, and we joked that we were together. He tend today flirted with me further, implying he felt something but then he told me he only liked me a bit and that my personality was awesome but liked a lot of girls the same way.

Then I reacted because I hate getting screwed over and I said it was okay and that I was still hooked on my ex. He then reacted to that saying he never meant he wanted a relationship with me. So i said everything was cool and we continued as if nothing happened. Lie, it did hurt me I really thought he really liked me. Did I do it right? Can I still pursue something with him? Of course you thought he was trying to pursue something.

But as a silly boy, he also likes flirting with other girls and getting reactions from them too. You did good by playing it cool but now you have to be true to yourself.. This boy hurt you. I never wanted a relatiionship with you! Next time he tries flirting you, laugh it off.

If he really, truly wants a relationship with you, let him pursue the heck out of you. It started when he asked me to play baseball with the camp kids everyday during break and we had fun. We would play on a team against the kids and were super competitive. Then school ended and I left for a week to go visit family so I missed the first week of summer camp where I assisted all day every weekday.

This was super new to me because he almost never talked to me. As summer camp winded down in the last few weeks we went on two field trips together with the kids in the same car and he would always sing all loudly and we would talk about Vine videos we still do. He would always take me in his car when he could and sometimes complimented me on my bjj. So summer ended and time went by he began to open up to me more. He went from disciplining me to respecting me and from treating me like a student to being playfully violent and making weird faces and sounds to get my attention.

During the course of summer camp, I got to see his personality and just about fell in love with it. But it seems like the closer we get, the more problems I have with him.

He got a girlfriend that lives in Puerto Rico and she visited us at the gym. She was super cool and I liked her, but I noticed when she was around he got really red faced and barely talked. By the end of her visit he denied liking her and realized she was a lot older than him never heard him talk about her again. Then one day after class we were all giving each other hugs and when I got to him he just shook my hand and hugged the person behind me.

My friends all say different things but I can never draw my own conclusion. Hey I had the same sich. All u have to do is be a little weird when u r texting like me for example: OMG who do u have a crush on?!? We use to text each other paragraphs, but now its a few lines. But he confuses me. I dislike feeling vulnerable and putting my heart out on the line. Ive been hurt before. Im not completely sure if he treats me differently but he does tend to get a little awkward around me sometimes.

I asked him once how he knew, he said he watched my body language. I always assumed that he occasionally looks at me in class, but i was never really sure. When i do catch him looking at me, we have this mini stare down, where we both squint until someone blinks. A guy at work flirts with me and shows all signs that he likes me.. I like him too and flirt back with him. We are always laughing whenever together.

I think he knows that I like him too. The only catch is we work in different cities and meet only during team meetings. I met him 4 times last 3months. He remembers everything about me and refers to our previous conversations. He told me on his own that he is a divorcee and has a child. He said he likes my sense of humour and jokingly enquired whether I have a boy friend. In our last meeting he took my phone no and texted me something funny about other guy who is in the same room.

This was two weeks ago and I thought he would keep in contact this time and pursue me. Exactly at the end of two weeks he sent me an invite to connect on a professional network! I thought it was such a lame move or is he telling me that this is only professional connection!

Or is he hesitating because I am a coworker! He has all the qualities that I am looking for in a man and would love if this progresses into something more. But I am hanging back and playing it cool to see whether he would make an attempt to contact me.

What do you guys think of this situation? Hopeful or should I write off? I have a guy-friend who i have like for a while now, but i dont know if he like me back… We usually hang out in a group of all female excluding him but we are all friends with eachother.

He goes to my church, and most of our youth acitvities. He jokes around with me a lot, and hes really nice. And he is only like 3 months older than me. Please help I really really like! Is he just looking for a friendship? What do you think is going on? I met him at a camp and he was one of the counselors. I later learned by help from my friends he was flirting. Sorry this camp was months ago.

So a little while after the camp I saw him at warped tour and everyone he saw me he would give me a big hug. It sounds like he likes you, but the age difference is important.

He is older and might want you in the wrong way. Its important to choose a guy closer to you age who will respect you and your comfort zone. You could make incredible memories and a better future with someone who you can be a teenager with. I would do anything to be 13 again, so choose who you spend your time with carefully! Strap yourselves in, this is very long………. But I desperately want some advice… Please Help!! I have been married for 5 year together for 8 with 2 small children.

I recently found out my husband has cheated on me — again!! A year ago I started getting my car serviced at a new place, the owner immediately caught my attention. Everytime I go in there he is always really nice, smile, etc. Most times he offers to give me a lift somewhere even home, which is 6kms away it is in my car, but still. I asked him how old he was and discovered that we are both Aquarians born in the same year.

When I call to book my car in for a service he knows its me by my voice.. He always appeared to be flirting with me and made sure he was available when I picked up my vehicle. Anyway I went in there thursday night to pick up my car, I rang earlier in the day and said I couldnt get there by 5: When I got there he walked out. He told me how upset he had been so I told him about what had happened with my husband we spoke for at least minutes before someone pulled up out the front.

He pretty much immediately sent a text to my phone asking how the car was. One thing led to another he told me he loved my bluntness and it got him going and we should catch up soon, I suggested the Friday night.

He said yes but have to go out with his sister first. We agreed to meet later in the night at a particluar suburb, but not where.

At 9pm I sent a an sms saying where I was. Should I have not sent him the texts? Should I send a text confirming the booking? Or cancel the booking, give him some space and let him chase me? I was dating a guy a couple months and knew him almost 2 yrs. I also talk to him in the hall, and after school, since we are very alike and do a lot of the same sports and activities. He might like me because… He stares at me when I look back he usually either freaks out and looks away, or smiles and looks away He compliments me He took up a whole page to sign my yearbook with inside jokes He nicknames me He high fives me He randomly appears wherever I am He slouches and acts comfy when I talk to him He laughs at my jokes He agrees with a lot I say And we just never run out of thing to talk about.

Well, does he just see me as one of the boys? He is an outgoing guy in general, but when were together, things just feel different.

Aarrrrggg guys need to show their feelings more. Do you think he like me? This is my last resort. Well There is this guy I have been in love with forever and he ound out by the people around us.

Imsges: is he dating me for my looks

is he dating me for my looks

I started working at a grocery store a year ago. To go along with the shallow, ugly personality. Jane Hi I would like to ask for advice.

is he dating me for my looks

And since all he is doing is emailing you sounds a little fishy. It felt like some one just hurt me, I guess. I love him but I don't know if these feelings will reach him someday..

is he dating me for my looks

Worrying what the other person thinks usually just creeps them out… but assuming that they like you in the dating pool after 40 that you want them to… well, that usually leads to them actually liking you! He plays around with me, joking with me and whatnot… gives really warm hugs. Would you feel better? The next day i called him to know if we where still is he dating me for my looks but he ignored my calls and texts. Originally Posted by royalfuchsia When we first started dating, I would sometimes catch my boyfriend looking at me.