'I'm 38 and I'm dating a 19-year-old'
AN I read Jason's comment above and giggled a little bit. Your rating Average rating 3 15 ratings. My point is it can work for us, it could definitely work for you as long as you are right for each other which it sounds like you are. And this time quit sniffing glue before you try to do math, Charlie. Half your age is five.
I believe that if your happy you should stay with Ben. Do what you feel is right I do want to get married young and have kids around 23 or 24, so maybe it would be to my benefit. So at 46, you finally get to have incredible sex with a beautiful, mature woman -- but you have to wait 46 years to do it, according to this urban legend. Although the age gap is quite bit, its nothing new to the world nor is it wrong. I think You know what to do.
But he was different. I thought maybe I had romantic feelings for him as the time passed, but I shook it off after all he must see me as a little girl and I'm incredibly whimsical so it would fade. One time he left for the weekend to his friend's house and I didn't know he was back I was just planning on putting a load of laundry into the washer before one more episode of "Save me Lollypop" then bed.
However, when I poured the laundry soap in he spoked me by appearing in the doorway His room is in the basement mine is on the 2nd floor and we just ended up talking. It was ten when I went down, but when I checked my phone it was 2: It had only felt like a half in hour at most. We had several nights like that. Thank god I can focus at school while still sleepy. More than a couple times he joked that he would be willing to marry me because I cook, clean, fun to talk to, and would kidnap someone to propose to them to make it interesting.
One night we and our group of friends were playing cards against humanity and when the game ended everyone retired to their respective bedrooms, besides Jerry and I.
He went to the gas station for a few things, and I stayed to finish the dishes. When he returned he invited me to his room, I had only been in there a few times, it still felt awkward for me- Being in a man's room with no one else. I kind of just wanted to go upstairs and watch "Fushigi Yugi" But I didn't want to be rude. So, we ended up talking, and I complained about my best friend never letting me use her as a human pillow.
I didn't have any purpose in mind with that statement. I was just talking to fill the silence. He offered to let me use him as a pillow. We stayed talking before he asked me if he could kiss me. I had one date before this with a random boy who was kind of dull and my only kiss had been with one of my friends because we played the pocky game, and a few other experiences like that.
So here I was this awkward, young, virgin with an older man she had a mild crush on asking her to kiss her. He taught me how to make out then it quickly progressed into having sex. At first I was nervous, we were just fooling around and I thought it was his fingers still until I noticed that he had his hand now by my waist. He was working in his penis. But, before he penetrated fully he asked if I was okay with this.
I wasn't sure how I felt- I have always wanted to wait for marriage. I grew up reading victorian fantasy books, and I was raised by older people. But I didn't want him to think I was silly, or a tease.
I haven't regretted that night it's been almost 3 months but we've started dating the next day. A few people have some concerns bout our age gap but most are okay with it. As two consenting adults, I think you two should just say "Fudge what the world thinks" and go for it if it makes you happy. I don't have any kinds, nor do I plan to until I finish my degree. So I can't completely understand how you feel about your son not approving, and as a foster kid I can tell you a few things of what I think about women who put a man first in their lives.
But, this is not one of those situations and I think your son needs to understand that as long as he treats you right then its not his concern. So keep going about your relationship: I just want to say thank you for putting this up!
I am not dating a 19 year old, but we started to chat a lot online cause we met on a online game. What started off very innocent has some how led to something very intense. I have been torturing myself wondering if I am wrong in having this text relationship he lives 20 hours away. He makes me smile with every text! We share so many thoughts and love so many of the same things! I doubt it will ever go anywhere, but I am just trying to justify that it's ok for me to continue this relationship, especially if it does end up leading to something.
I can't imagine ending it.. Anyways, not to steal your story. I'm just so glad to read these reassuring thoughts on age gaps, and I feel better knowing I"m not alone in falling for someone so much younger than myself.
Good luck in all your decisions!! I think your son will come around, but I understand how upsetting that would be for him and you! I have veen with my husband for 7years.
We have 3 beautiful daughters and he has two sons. Well I am 15 years younger than him and when we first started dating his and my family were against it. So we told both of our families that we were over 18 and that we liked eachother and maybe even loved, but they had no day do over what we did or wanted!!! Wetold his two sons and they wereok about Iit and knew that I was going to be with their dad for along time.
So I say get both families together and tell them its ur lives and ur hearts in this. So no one but u two have a say in your relationship!! He's just a child. Likely, almost the same age as your son. The two of you should not be anywhere near the same place in your lives.
This will disturb your son. You have sexual and romantic feelings for a kid, close to his age. Is it worth feeling good about yourself? Not unless this is "the one". If you're thinking marriage, or a future, perhaps you should keep it secret until your son is Then, do what makes you happy.
My boyfriend is older than me, but I have never met anyone like him my age. He actually cares for me, not just my body, or the physical side of the relationship. He is considerate, funny, smart and an amazing man.
But, neither of us care about people's opinions. They are entitled to them, but if we were unhappy with that age gap, then we wouldn't be together, simple. I'm in the same position as your son. I am 19 years old, my mum is 42 and her boyfriend is I feel the same as your son have also called my mum horrible things through anger and rage , but I felt as if my opinion didn't count, and I didn't want my mum seeing a 20 year old - due to embarrasment as my family felt the same way as your mum!
In the end, my mum chose to have a relationship in secret with him, however I am 19 and can see the signs staying late at work etc , and soon your son will also realise. She chose to continue the relationship with the person her child didn't like. We don't really talk now, lost our bond and relationship and she ended up having her bit of fun with a younger bloke and loosing her daughter.
It's weird, but legal, so who cares? The only issue I see with age difference as extreme as that is, life experiences and maturity levels getting in the way. Are you a troll? This guy said he was 29 when actually was So you're likening it to murder? Maybe I should re clarify. Women do it everyday, and who thinks they have some hidden agenda? I don't know if you're in a relationship now but everybody lies. You're going to be awfully lonely if you nope the fuck out every time someone is dishonest with you.
I don't think a number really tells anyone how mature someone is. So I don't think it's that big of a deal. I am 34 and would never ever date someone that young. But that's just me. If he makes you happy, then go for it.
She's mature and runs her own business. I have people tell me I look like I'm in my late 20's, so everything works out fine for us. I am 31 and I couldn't imagine being in a relationship with a 19 year old. Do what you feel is right It's not as if you are under Just remember, he totally scored if you decide to date him. Also, you are 19 and at a bar??? Ahh that explains it lol. Cheers then and good luck if you decide to go that route lol.
He totally scored though.. I don't like the ratio. I have a daughter just younger than you and I'm not to much older than him. My guess is that it would be tough to make this a long-term thing. Although the age gap is quite bit, its nothing new to the world nor is it wrong.
Doesn't matter what others think though, if you're happy, you're happy. Not great, because it probably will not last. But if it is not too serious and he is fun, why not? Just keep it light and see who he really is. All that matters is what you think. You're both consenting adults. At age 37 I got married to a 24 year old same 13 year differential.
Been married 15 years with 5 children. It's a good life. Not all 19 yr olds are dumb. And if you're only there for the sex, then why is that weird?
And this time quit sniffing glue before you try to do math, Charlie. Uhhh, it's weird because you're using someone with nowhere near your maturity level purely to get sex. Oh yeah, and you're old enough to be her dad. Honestly, it's probably only one or two rungs above the guys you see on To Catch a Predator trying to meet up with 15 year-olds. And really, the issue isn't intelligence so much as it is maturity. But hey, you can justify your creepy behavior however you want.
Imsges: im 19 dating a 34 year old
My friend said, "Son, you're 18 years old, so I am going to tell you how you date.
Vicky was excited about the freedom of being single I later on took a look at his ID when he wasn't around and saw that he was born in I grew up reading victorian fantasy books, and I was raised by older people.
Take your age, divide by 2, then add 7. Me thinks you are a troll- an ineffective one at that. Whenever I am out with my wife and see a man with a dating outside your generation youger girl I say to her, 'I hope I have a wife that young when I am his age! And When You realize that your son like Ben. Been married 15 years with 5 children. There im 19 dating a 34 year old so much a year-old can teach a year-old -- advanced coloring, advanced texting, and so many other important life skills.
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