5 Things To Do When You’re Struggling with Faith Doubts
I would love some advice on what I should do.. You are a warrior and I admire you so much for your strength and fortitude! I yell at him all the time for it. You can grow from your doubts because if you let it this will cause you to dig for truth. How would it change your relationship if you told your girlfriend that you love her? This holds me back in business and in relationships.
The absence of fear is not courage. The absence of fear is mental illness.
My life,my marriage to a narcissist woman was a life filled with lies,manipulation,hidden agendas,secrets,her allowing me to blame myself for the marriage deteriorating. Eventually we both fell hard for eachother. Almost like blood tastes in the mouth. But how can I love God if He is allowing one of my loved ones to be tormented for eternity? The red pill says that women are only capible of viewing men as whatever they can contribute financially, and their place in the social order. But I know it's hard after having him suck your personal power away for so long. You and your best friend are now so in tune that you could have a whole conversation using your body language alone.
I have kept my age well due to 49 years of uninterrupted sleep and for selfishly guarding my fertility until the right provider might appear. I can enjoy shallow pursuits such as shopping and caring for my looks. I read plenty of books of many genres so I see myself as well-versed in a few topics.
I consider myself to be a good catch. Pretty house and garden. A boudoir for a bedroom. My disability is invisible and I manage it very well. I have my ducks in a row, as small as they seem. Why would I want a penniless man to come along and stuff all that up? A man of means is an aphrodisiac to me.
Realistically, at 49, things are looking bleak in the man department but in five years I know that will change for me. Besides, I love being single and celibate. I love being that mysteriously single woman in the room. Call me a shallow bitch but at least I am not making a poor depressed man feel worse about his situation by basking in my own stringent but easy one, right under his nose.
But I do have a stable job, I earn less than the average salary but I have a stable full time job. Daniel, thanks so much for your thoughts. I observe that many women indicate that they want a man who makes a decent living, regardless of his other traits. Beyond that, this comment resonated with me: Lots of people have that or some version; in fact, 1 in 4 have a mental illness, from mild anxiety to OCD my own son has that to bipolar to schizophrenia and beyond.
Add a low income, and …. Again, you are not alone. Which means there are people with anxiety or who have compassion for those with anxiety who will be interested in connecting with others with a similar situation. I hope you recognize and celebrate all the great things you bring to the world; if you believe that, someone, and most likely a lot of someones, will see that, too.
Also the basic fear of the actual going into a campus and meeting all the people etc which social anxiety so cruelly makes out to be much worse than it is. Again, not you or the article more just the general vibe I have been getting from various other articles and the comments to these types articles. Also on the point of rather than see myself as not smart but rather focus on the things I am good at, that I am smart about. Daniel, at least you can support yourself if you live with someone. Go to the library or something, learn, do what it takes and you will get there.
I have trouble attracting financially irresponsible men. I married another man , who seemed VERY responsible with money during our courtship homeowner, steady job, attended university, in the Army. However, he lost his job shortly after we married, deciding to drop out of college and change his career path. We relocated to a different state so he could attend trade school, and I started my career in education. He held temporary job after temp job, until finally working at a call center, but he was still always broke.
NOT the reason we moved cross country! I have my own apartment, vehicle, career and life. He is still unemployed and living with his band mate. Sometimes u just gotta let ppl be who they are. Broke men have broke ways. His dead grandmother had bought him his vehicles in high school, and the Army had given him his fun money, by direct deposit.
The only thing that could fix us is if I had complete control of our money and gave him an allowance. I feel like I was reading my own story. Men who are broke like the men we attract are broken. The last two guys I dated sucked my dry while living the fun life.
Staying up all night and sleeping all day. Giving me just enough attention to keep me hooked. I have hired a relationship expert to help me fix my picker.
Because it is my fault these men come into my life. I allow this behavior. And it needs to stop. I have to stop feeling sorry for these men and trying to take care of them and fix them. They have a mama. Go drain her bank account. I am a successful business woman who has her own money, car, etc. Basically I have my shit together. I am like fly to fly paper for men who have no money. Listen, I do not mind dating a man who has a job that makes less than me.
Money is not an issue at all. This last guy was very charming in the beginning. Took me out for dinner. Wined and dined me. I got hooked and liked him a lot. Then he drops the ball that he is broke and has no money.
Do not worry I will pick up the tab this weekend. Up until 3am drinking beer, smoking cigars and watching tv.
He would get up around noon and start the pattern all over again. He would cook dinner but other than that nothing. There was no compassion. And when he did finally go back home I did not hear from him again until he was ready to see me again.
Which means he needed money. If he was cleaning my house. Taking care of my dogs. Helping me with my move. Changing the oil in my car, etc. I would have totally been okay with supporting him. But after a month I started to feel used and taken advantage of. Plus I found out he was lying about being in school. Why lie to me? That just added fuel to the fire. I wish I had of followed my first mind n ran as soon as I learned his situation. I am currently dating an unemployed man that is recently divorced.
He has prior old felonies from over 20 years ago and got into a verbal alteration that led to his ex filing a restraining order against him last year. I put together his resume because I volunteered in the unemployment center. Therefore, he has gotten many job offers. However, the restraining order shows up once the background check comes back. His ex refuses to remove it out of spite, yet she still calls him, harasses him and wants him back.
He has put her on speaker phone. Despite warning signs and his lack of money, I have fallen for him. I too have found myself paying for almost everything if we go out etc.
Most times are spent at my house or doing free stuff. No gifts on holidays or my birthday. Everything is about him struggling n trying. Yes he works temp jobs but its just enough to buy his toiletries and a bus pass. He has nothing much at all. No house, no car, no steady job and 3 outfits. We have great chemistry, mind blowing sex but honestly, its not enough.
At times it feels like he gets all my benefits for free. I have put men off that can and have actually helped me, just to give him a chance because I see potential in him.
I have become resentful and irritated at times. I care but I dont want to commit to a broke man. Money really does make a difference in a relationship. Its a sinking, sufficating feeling to be in this kind of relationship.
Your partner should be an asset not a constant bill…. Thanks for commenting Tosh. No one can take advantage of you unless you allow it. Great sex and chemistry aside, if you want a future that looks different, you may have to make a hard choice. I wish you the best! I own my condo and car. I recently started dating a great guy that is 59 has a 1st and 2nd mortgage on a k home plus is making payments on his 9 yr old car.
He seems to be perfect except for that. Am I a bad person to break up because of that? He is a lovely guy, a few years younger than me, and spoilt me totally. I decided that there were 3 things I really wanted in a partner: Unfortunately — he dipped out on the final two.
I possibly could have dealt with No 3, but really, No. I have had to work very hard to get myself into the financial position I am. I was an orphan, and I divorced when my children were young. I had to really struggle to get my home, and succeed at work, and I do not want to be in a position where a roof over my head is at risk. Hi, No you are not a bad person for not wanting that kind of situation and are wise to consider walking away.
It is possible to discuss his debt and see if he is willing to eliminate it prior to a serious commitment.
In my opinion men are designed to provide ,protect , and profess their love. If they are not providing for even them selves, that is a red flag. Keep good boundaries financially and you will find someone who has similar ones. I hope this helped. I had a stable job before that, for 3 years, until the financial crisis and merger closed by department.
Before that I had different jobs but only a few weeks of employment gap. Because of savings I have enough cash, plus a small amount in retirement. I have no debt, with education debt completely paid off last year. I occasionally travel and visit family, and while there I help with cooking, trash, change diapers, get dishes done, take the kids to school, park, library, and activities.
I am not dating because I have no job and no stable income, and very high stress from all of this because I am getting older and finally after doing so many family activities wants to settle down. Millions of years of evolution means that the lizard brain still rules.
Assuming a marriage has occurred, a woman will look down upon a man who has gone down in financial status, whereas a man will not look down upon a woman who does down in financial status. However, as time goes on, a man will feel less attracted to his wife as she gets older, fatter, older, and wrinklier. Can you name a cosmetics age-defying line for men?
The lizard brain rules only when people allow it to rule. Are we attracted to young and hot? Sometimes yes but for the most part, no remember, women ask for divorce two-thirds of the time.
I know many women in long-term marriages who did not look down on their husbands during the Great Recession and he lost his job or had it significantly reduced. Many went back into the workforce full force. Sure, women use age-defying cosmetics and procedures more then men do but men are just as vain about that stuff — not necessarily because of their love lives, but their careers. Why the discrimination against short men? A lot of these gender type biases exist. Are people not allowed to have preferences?
We like what we like, period. Now you go to some extreme examples using convicts and drug abusers to try to prove your point. I have my own house living and supporting my two boys and 3 animals that I love very much. My both sons have jobs, one has a full-time job working 15 hr. I teach them about budgeting and one is great at saving, the other not so good but still make him pay me something every month.
You have to look after yourself first, then your boys. You can find some other dude that is at least financially independent. Lisa, I wondow how you got on? I have lived with my partner for over 6 years now and his business does not balance the books and I often pay for most things as his money tends to go back on the business or his own needs. I am tired of this as he does not help himself to find other means of work outside of his business which only really runs well for 3 months a year.
He means well and we have talks about how he can plan better but he is more of a talker than do-er. I have felt pity for his situation for too long and my friends are now telling me I have to take more care of myself as I will be broke too if I continue to bail him out. Obviously we need to eat but I dont know how much longer I can do this without feeling resentful. Like you, I love this man so much, he has a great heart and loves me dearly but the stress of all of this is making us argue a lot over money.
He wont even give me a straight answer of how much he made that day. I have now spent thousands of my investment money to help us move on but no more. Lets see if this relationship can survive now the money has been cut off. By the way, I earn way less then him even after business reductions! Good luck to you all. Love is never easy to walk away from without knowing you tried enough, but it can also destroy you. There is this guy I am with.
We have only been seeing each other for around 2 months. I met him online. I am 35 and he is I thought he was 40 when I first met him.
Found out he was 46 later on. He looks young for his age but. I have a full time stable job and rent my own place. He is unemployed and shares with 3 Middle Eastern men.
He has been in my country since Said he has worked the majority of the time since he has been here and is studying accounting.
He is out of dept as well and lives on the dole government benefits to help him get by till he finds work. We went out on a couple of dates at first. He has always treated me well and accepted things about me as well. He seems so nice but having doubts. I told him if he asks me for money he is out the door. He has not yet which is good. But still… Only early days. I have been in a situation before where I lived with someone who was a Trainee.
Paid for almost everything. Most the rent and bills. Regretted not dumping him sooner because after he got himself sorted out. No thanks to me. He ended up dumping me! I never want to be in that situation again and red flags are starting to show. I want a guy with a bit more stability in his life. I never want to have to support someone financially again. I am not to fussed about money. But would like to be with a partner wheo earns enough that we get by comfortably.
I feel bad that I feel like dumping him but I seem to attract these type of guys a fair bit and want to break out of that cycle as well. I asked my husband for a divorce because he did not work for several years despite having two impressive degrees, did not want to do anything and other problems that I will not get into. Needless to say, we tried working on them but to no avail. Also my husband was my first love; the thought of getting into the dating seen in my late thirties was nothing short of daunting.
I figured I would just focus on my kids and career. Maybe date in 10 years. Enter my someone slap me phase. During my separation, i met mr. We would talk and smile like high schoolers. And to his credit before things got heated , he admitted that he served a couple yes, a couple of brief sentences in jail for drug dealing.
Not a good thing, I mean I was always described as a goody two shoes. He smoked and although employed he was so broke. But somehow, my highly educated, professional behind began a passionate sexual relationship with this guy.
I mean, I embarrass myself, really. I mean there were other guys who wanted to date me. Somehow, I told myself it was okay, when I knew it was not. I mean, what is wrong with me? Back to kids and career and so much happier to boot. Maybe in ten years though…. I am 31 year old woman who had worked very hard to be successful. I have a phd and a successful consulting firm that brought in 6 figures in its first year. My hubby did not complete post secondary.
He struggled with an English course and ended up washing out of a program. He is always jumping from job to job and they never pay much but he works hard and is always employed. I love him dearly but do find I sometimes get resentful. For example, a few years ago I was extremely stressed out and hated my job to the point that it seriously affected my health including complicating a heart condition. I wanted to quit but I could not depend on him to support us until I found something and that really sucked.
Are they helpful around the house? Are they emotionally supportive? Do they spend more time with the kids? My wife is a doctor and I never graduated high school. We have been married 16 years. I have not worked for the last 12 years mainly just clean the house make lunch to take to her and cook dinner for when she gets home.
Rest of the time I work out, if I where to work I would make minimum wage at this point and it would be more of a problem with the schedule.
My wife wants to take trips all the time and attends conferences in other states and always wants me to come along with her. So I really could not have a job as I would be missing to many days traveling with my wife.
She makes a lot of money and there really is no reason for me to work. I have always thought that it was funny that in any discussion on the internet , the first casualty is always the English language.
This one is no different. The red pill says that women are only capible of viewing men as whatever they can contribute financially, and their place in the social order. It says that while men are capable of loving and feeling protective instincts towards women, women are incapable of this response.
This is why you will hear far less men leveraging such complaints towards a broke woman — even in a world where female breadwinners are fast becoming the norm. Women, meanwhile, love opportunistically.
It says that while a man will often be willing to put himself in harms way for his wife — for a woman, she is incapable of feeling the depth of emotion towards a man, to justify this response. To the straight guys out there that date Cis women: I truly do pity you, if this is belived to be true. Apparently, if you wanted to date someone capable of loving you unconditionally, regardless of how much you earned, you should have married a man instead. The romans thought that the love women could offer men was merely second rate — and merely based on temporary, conditional factors.
Fulfilling these conditions does not mean you are loved any less or more — because you are not truly loved either way. All you can ever be is your financial status, and place in the social pyramid. You are a resource, and nothing more, as long as you let women such as this define your value for you. In a world where women make more than you, you live in a world where you are obsolete and meaningless — for this is the depth of emotion they have for you. All a woman can offer you is sex.
Love, unconditionally speaking, is impossible — unless you are their direct off spring. However, based on the responces women have given here today — you might as well be credited as coauthors in a red pill publication. Every single response, backs up the red pill philosophy verbatim. Of course, if you reduce women to nothing but their physical appearance, then you deserve these people anyway. I could not agree with this post or the above mentioned red pill philosophy more.
My experience in hand being the primary example. I saved more money by having a work friend as a roommate. As a bonus I would always joke with my partners they would never have to deal with in-laws. At that time, I had a steady girlfriend of over a year, and never had trouble with women before. Then I was placed on leave for over a year while my shooting was investigated, and when it was deemed justified I was able to return to work, but chose not to.
Increasingly pushing me out of her life, because now I was living on savings, watching every dollar going out. Marriage and children were all up for discussion, until the point I chose to follow a different carrier path, and that would mean I would do without for a few years while I pursed my graduate degree. So now at 30, I still have little debt, a unusable degree, a far lower paying job, and trying to start over.
I think men have it harder as far as obtaining a stable job, and keeping it. When looking for and dating a man you have to pay close attention to his values and his ambition. If you are really in love live within the household income. A man should either work or be looking for work period. Women should encourage that man. Do not marry a man who cannot take care of himself. A woman will never ever ever respect a man who always has his hands out. Hello, I really enjoyed all the articles.
I have been struggling with my boyfriend about financial things. I have a full time job and go to school and have a 5 year old daughter. He had a temp job and then got laid off, applied for his life insurance certification which took forever and I let him borrow the money to pay for the test. Then it took forever for the company to higher him and when he finally got hired, come to find out that selling life insurance, you only get paid if you sell.
After working there for a long time, you get residuals. He ended up getting into a wreck. For the last 2 years, I have been the bread winner. He has a part time job at a pizza place, but I keep teling him that I need him to work full time until he gets his settlement check.
It just seems like one thing happens and then another thing happens. I am not asking to be taking care of, infact I have always taken care of me and my baby.
I just think that a man should be able to at least pay half. I feel like I keep waiting for him to be more financially secure and I am continuing to work overtime to keep the bills paid, but I feel resentful. Even though he does work part time, I told him that life is much more expensive. I am almost poverty and work over 40 hours a week. Am I right for expecting him to work full time so that he can contribute more financially. In the last 2 years that we have been together, he has probably given me around dollars from his paychecks.
We just got into a very bad argument and almost got physical. He swears that from this settlement, he is going to get a million dollars because his is a professional boxer, but nothing real big from boxing. I just thing that he is living a dream and I am more realistic. He thinks that with this settlement money, he is going to move out of West Virginia and open up his own business.
No that we had gotten into a big argument, he said that people who leave him during hard times are not good people. The people who stick around during the hard times are the good people.
Does he not realize that I have been sticking around waiting for 2 years now? Please someone, give me some kind of advise. I am 32 years old with a 5 year old daughter. I work full time and go to school to finish my degree in social work. I sometimes think that I rather deal with the pain of being with him rather than dealing with the pain of being without him.
I just keep waiting and waiting. I will feel kind of dumb if he gets a million dollars from the settlement and here I go, dropping him right when he may get it. At the same time, I have been waiting and its been one thing after another. I just need a man to help me and I believe in equality, if not the man be more responsible for the financial stuff.
But I am a hard worker and have always been indapendant. It would just be nice to be able to rely on my boyfriend financially, not because I need it, but because it is what is right. He knows that I have a daughter and that I live a very hard life paying the bills and going to school.
He said that I hurt his feelings when I asked him to get a full time job. HELP, I probably just need to leave him alone. I am smart and intelligent and have a great personality. I am not money hungry, but I strongly believe that the man should be financially stable to take care of himself, and help me out at sometimes. I was the breadwinner when my husband was alive, and it was never an issue. We never resented each other for our ability or inability to make money.
We married for love not money, and we were incredibly happy. I never really thought about money when I thought about dating, but I have a friend whom I adore and who has said he wants to marry me. I have no idea why. Could I get lucky in love twice or am I taking on an anchor if I pursue things with this man?
Thanks for sharing your story, Amy. You are already lucky in love — you found a man who loves you and whom you adore. Huge debt is a red flag, and marriage melds your finances; unless you are ready to pay for his debt, I would think long and hard about tying the knot.
The way people approach money is very important, especially as we age and especially if we have kids. In a few years, he might be in a better financial place and marriage would be more attractive.
Your kids have already lost their father; you want to be very careful about not causing more loss in their young lives right now. Thank you so much for your thoughtful reply. If he wants a future with me then he can fix his finances to make that happen. Hi OK so he is my question … I deftly make more than my man. He does work and now lives on his own although he lives in apartment that has my name on it that I sublease to him because he has not so good credit.
When we are together out in public he treats me like a queen but the lack of his ability to pay for stuff still bugs the hell out of me.. Am I my wrong should I let it go? Of course if you date a dead beat self absorbed leech things are going to go wrong. You can make good money but still struggle with debt, you can make crap money and have no debt at all; hell some people are high school grads and make better money than those with bachelors degrees.
I think the old way of the male being the bread winner is out, our economy is too crappy for that kind of relationship to be the standard. Life is full of uncertainties. My fiance and I are both university graduates.
He has acquired a reliable full time job with a decent salary above entry level. I have applied for hundreds of jobs including the bottom of the barrel positions and been interviewed maybe three times in the last year and I am lucky to get a three month contract at minimum wage. All of his income goes into living expenses and we are renting at the cheapest rate available. Some of us are dying inside and want nothing but to do better in a world that seems cursed at times.
Oh gosh, Amen lady. Someone sees the light. Thank you so much for proving that at least one woman can see and understand what so many men are screaming. Thank you SO much for your writing! We have strange fears but also a big dose of excitement and hope.
Hello Naomi Someone I turned onto your site tuned me onto this post…neat. Just have to find my fun-fear blankie… I am so glad you decided to set the elephant free. Just what do you want? I rest my case. I came by looking for your SEO book and ran across this post. My business partner and I just went live with our website 2 days ago. Anyway, I fully expected the servers to go down once we started informing people of our little endeavor.
So thanks for your transparency and sharing. I left a high-paying job 4 years ago. As an independent consultant now, my income has never really gotten back to where it was when I left. As I realize that I am more than that collection of fears I grow in confidence everyday.
And with it, so does my business. Just when I need some inspiration and advice, I stumble upon this blog post and wow! D Now I just gotta make that leap… The Fear is terrifying but then again the thought of not doing anything is scary enough. Your writing is funny, impertinent and successful because it is unique. If we all wrote that way, it would be a pool of smut.
Anyway, that particular piece of genuinely meant sucking up: Let go of the unwanted emotion or feeling…let it pass through…and discover that fear and anger, grief, anxiety, etc. Thanks for your honesty Naomi, especially since one of my good ones is identical word for word with one of yours. You helped me laugh at my own fears. From time to time it will require a person to place the words before you before you recognize that everybody need to receive a lot more care. This is the first post I read at this blog last night on phone!
So amazing to see site on real PC—great design. I loved the post, by the way. I have the Fatal Illness fear too, not helped by living in a developing country surrounded by fatal illnesses warnings. Is it ok to swear? If they told me there are virtually no public toilets I would never have come. I faced my fear of traveling long distances hundreds of times in the last few years and, guess what, you learn to make peace.
This business blog is testament to that—coping, facing the fear, making peace and kicking ass too! I have been trying to make my own businesses work, yet I have been so afraid of them being successful that I sabotage them before I even get them off the ground. Face my fears of being a success? I might have to have one more cup of coffee before I can ponder that thought.
People tell me I am a good writer. How screwed up is that thinking! Fear is one of my favorite topics. I LOVE it keep up the good work, fear is the most fearful thing in the world we are motivated by fear and love and each action is motivated by one or the other which one determines your actions?
Because awareness of fear eliminates it. Keep your eye on yourself and your fears will met away;. This is just what I needed. Here is a great and clean joke: My partner and I have been in business together for 14 months now.
Instead, it is just kicking our asses to move forward. The biggest fear I have is to go back and work for somebody else. I only discovered your blog last night and I love it. Feel the fear and do it anyway sometimes is easy to do and other times when the voices in your head are strong, you become overpowered.
I went back to your article about have the balls. When ever I have had the balls to do something, it has worked out great. Most of the time the committee in my head talks me out of it. Just came across your site from Untemplater. And want to create something bigger than merely traveling. In fact, was feeling that today. Everyone else does not. Your post nails it, fear is a wave I gotta surf sometimes. But, everything will be okay.
In the end, I know it. There has been a tremendous amount of styles and techniques in Sales out there and it really takes a lot of creativity and patience to be able to sell. An effective sales person always equals to lot of sales and success. I know an ebook that has really given me great tips and technique in Sales or Selling. It has great positive effects on my career. Is not going away. Always around to say hi. Then I found an environment that encourages to stay in this fear, or out of your comfort zone.
This is where the real action happens! It is freakishly hard, but man, is it ever rewarding! So, yes, live with fear and do your thing anyway. But if you can, also use that fear to take things a step further! That is, in every word, something I am also terrified of. I know I did the right thing, but God, where is it headed? What a great article. I really love that you put yourself out there, not only with the previous article you discuss, but also here, telling us your fears.
Thankfully we can choose to succumb to it or to overcome it, pull up out big girl panties or draws for the fellas… and do the dang thing!
Thank you so much for writing that down. It brings tears to my eyes relief? At any rate, love your blog. Many thanks for putting it out there. And it always gets hard at some point. Anyway, working for yourself is hard. Without sounding to too cheesy, thanks. Your site is amazing! Thank you for your comments — I always look forward to them. And therein lies the key. As a team, our crew is going to gross a million next year. Hi Aruni, We have two sons. Work now, sleep later. That statement is the epitome of the self-employed.
Quite true often enough, but sad at times. Lindsey, actually all you need to do it start with some cock and balls jokes. And yeah, I know its Wikipedia, not Widipedia. That was, um, a neurological quirk.
And your comment about your son made me chuckle. Good luck with that, I understand completely. Charlie, James Chartrand, and Shane: That takes a lot of self-awareness and guts.
You can piss me off or offend me any day you like. Thanks for all your Diggs and Stumbles, people. Keep it up and real ;!! My hat is off to you. Be afraid — then stare face and try again. My biggest fear is working hard on something and then having it all be for naught.
Wanting to have sure success prior to starting is a big impediment to starting! What do you do about it? For that I will subscribe to your blog. Thanks, Naomi, glad to hear you like our work and the feeling is mutual. Naomi, This was a great article, but I must tell you that you can take one of those fears off your list. I wish this guy had given me some criticism. It was just hollow and made me feel hollow.
Appreciate the talk and the help. Awesome post we cannot let our fears stop us: I am so with you on that one! Thanks again for the inspiration! Great post, I need to Gape this blog before things get out of hand. People do not communicate productively or efficiently, again people hide from each other. Hi Naomi, I only recently discovered your blog, and boy! Your writing is captivating, clever, irreverent, honest, and thus enjoyable.
I even love the illustration for this post. Will you share the origin? Keep up the great blogging. Hi Flora, Thank you!! A friend sent me this quote. Sometimes you just have to saddle up, even when your scared to death! Naomi, Keeping it real is the only way to go. Thanks for reminding me that feisty can be beautiful. Thanks again for your enlightenment. Hi Naomi, The funny thing for me is that many of my fears seem to be the reverse of those of most rational people. Keep doing what you do.
And thanks for sharing! Thanks for keeping the comments open. Reading this really helped me. Hello Naomi, Thank you SO much for your writing! Keep up the good work! Hi Naomi Just found your site today… and tumbled onto this post.
The point is excellent. We have to get beyond the spooks and learn to be real. Love your blog Naomi. I am now addicted, still scared, but addicted. Your advise has helped: Have a beautiful day! I think, I love you.
I am tempted to run right over to my blog and spill my fear guts too. I think I rather go back to having the balls. Always around to growl at me. Where do I want to spend my time? Thanks for this post: He has been in college for 2 years and eats the dining hall food. I think there is something wrong and my spouse is upset that I said something about his breath. There has to be a root cause, his breath did not smell this way when he left for college 2 years ago.
After 2 months, oral diabetic medications give me a chemical odor. It is so awful, at first I looked around to see what processing chemical I used, and to what I was exposing my pets. They call it a fruity odor but far from it. I feel like a walking Chernobyl.
This is my 3rd intolerable medication. When he was a baby his poops smelled the same way. It is really awful. Even after he brushes his teeth and tongue the smell comes back shortly afterwards. This bothers me greatly. It literally smells like someone lit plastic on fire. He is otherwise a healthy kid.
Wondering what I am missing. Hi, I Have a 2,5 Years girl that smells like fruit in her head, hair and behind her ears when she sweats. She has a twin brother and he drinks more water then her. She acts perfectly normal for her age. Anna, my baby boy smelled the same.
It is their sweat that smells like that. It has something to do with too much protein from the milk perhaps? It went away with a more diversified and better balanced diet. I used to know someone with asthma who used an inhaler regularly, and his breath would smell like inner tubes from tires after using the inhaler. This current situation has nothing to do with inhalers though.
If you have found any answers, please feel free to email! Why does my 2year old baby boy going to 3this coming june is suffering to bad breath it smells like a paste.. My 6 year old son is passing wind a lot and it smells of rotten cabbages, and his breath for some time smells like sick? He brushes Twice a day. Cost is not an issue for this cure. For instance, have you tried oil pulling? I had an issue like you after seeing several dentists….. Im not sure but you may have some candida issue, like a white pr yellow coated tongue, try to cut back on processed foods.
Get yourself a tongue scraper its cheap out of walmart its called ora brush, careful with it you dont want to to brush your tongue too hard. If its candida, meaning yeast youre going to want to eat a lot probiotics found in yogurt or just get probiotics in pill form. Check with your doc if you have a deficiency in minerals or viatmins and go from there, also if youre intimate with your partner orally you may want to make sure that they are taking the same steps as you because if they have candida overgrowth which is found in our intimate parts too then can be causing the candida problem in your mouth.
Pau D Arco is great at fighting this along with a diet that helps flush candida out. Grape fruit seed extract in pills helps keep that ph balance in check so ypu and youre special someone dont have that fishy odor coming from your intimate parts aswell too. Also Ms Greene is right oil pulling is great aswell, pulls toxins out from mouth.
What could it be? When you are dehydrated, you would have less saliva which helps to wash away odor-causing bacteria. In other words, its ok to wake up with smelly breath. Normally, people who are pregnant are most likely to experience bad breath which smells like raw meat. Probably worth having checked by a doctor.
What can I do? I brush me teeth n have good oral hygiene. Any explanation for this? I am 33years old by the way. Diabetics who are in ketoacidosis will have breath that smells like that of an alcoholic. I would definitely see a doctor because your health could be at risk. But I think you should schedule a visit;. Whenever I chew sugar free gum, my breath and mouth smell like popcorn, and I never eat popcorn.
I brushed and used mouthwash. And, still keeps smelling. What should I do??? Her hands and cheeks smells like the spit because she chews on them. Her pacifier, toys, etc.
The dried spit on her face is flaky and white. What is going on? I brush her gums twice a day with baby tooth paste and rubber finger. Brushing her gums is good. But if you want excellence you must brush her tounge as well. Bacteria germs hide in the tounge I like to think of it as a rug or carpet where all the dust mites are at. As far as her spit saliva it itself does not have a smell odor but when it does is when it comes into contact with bacteria.
So now she is nearly two I think you can use regular toothpaste on her gums or teeth and tounge especially. I hope this helps.
Similar smells, with different treatments and actual causes. My son gets lactose overload every so often and his breath smells of soured milk and poop smells of vinegar.
Hello, please my breath smells and I cannot distinguish what kind of smell, but I know it does smells. I have taken a lot of antibiotics and lots more, but it always comes back. I also do have a dry mouth sometimes, but not often.
I have lost my confidence a long time ago. Just still hoping that there is a cure out there. What have you tried so far? What mouth washes have you tried? Antibiotics are more likely to cause you bad breath and all sorts of inbalance issues. They should only EVER be used for an emergency. Anyone is welcome to ask me anything there. I took some antibiotics and startEd to get a smell of something like a green smell.
My son is 10 and has Autism and adhd…. I guess there can be much worse things, but is this normal? When I eat a lot of chocolate my breath smells like foul green beans. Any explanation what would cause that? My daughter has that smell too. She is diagnosed prediabetic and I smell that alchohol weird type breath. I am reading up on it and I believe that I should get her to an endo Doc right away as it could mean she is in need of insulin therapy.
It may be what is called Ketoacidosis. You may have settled the issue bcause it is almost a year later since your post that is. I hope you get a chance to respond, would love to hear how you are doing if things worked out. If it was something to do with blood sugar levels. Hope this helps you or someone else!
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