10 Reasons Why You Should NOT Marry a Foreigner (Like I Did)
But even the other half of the workforce that labors under signed legal contracts must also rely on informal labor such as selling jewelry, and driving taxis in their spare time to make enough for themselves and their families to survive. So, we both agreed that a move to Ethiopia was in order. We had experienced many of the things on the list but it was all fun learning about each other and sharing experiences while we were both the foreigner in whatever country we were in. Except your differences, celebrate your likenesses, and above all……Be thankful for each today. Thank you so much for this article. How diffucult it is.
Thnx much, that was so educative Bt I was interested on to know what did batswana wear in their oldern days easpecialy children. We started out friends, we became best friends, and one day we realized that we felt something more. And my heart is broken in milion pieces. Wow, well that is a generalization. The State of the Physical and Social Sciences The University of Botswana expanded considerably in the s, and aspires to market higher education regionally. I just search all the things about Botswana if I feel miss him. Had my in laws been a lot younger and us too:
So, this localism is part of Latin American culture, and there are an e-nor-mous variety of dialects and accents across the continent. We think of moving to Canada every so often given the latest economic crisis, but despite some of the frustrations, I am a happier man down here with my wife and son. So best of luck. We currently both live in America but he is originally from Holland and well even though I was born here, most of my family is from Mexico.
These 10 reasons all have valid points that I will not deny I have felt at one moment in time. While we do not have kids at the moment, I often worry when we do where they will be raised and which language they would consider their first, second or third.
While we do have our fair share of cultural misunderstandings especially coming from a very macho male and ultra masculine culture and him being a bit reticent it brings forth a bit of arguments, but at the end of the day every couple has misunderstandings. I for one am happy our misunderstandings come from unawareness of each others cultures rather than awareness of each others cultures and just being inconsiderate about them and the person.
What if we were to divorce? Well in this day and age divorce is not an uncommon thing but I prefer to never think about that option with my foreigner, call me helpless romantic if you may.
I cant imagine the great advantage and opportunities our kids would get for being trilingual! Now being with a foreigner does take a lot of work, dare I say it? We had to face complications that are out of the norm for other relationships like pending resident status, hiring a lawyer, interviews, money put into these things and so forth. But these thing just gave me more knowledge of the world. He introduced me to another country, culture, and language.
The flights are expensive but we budget and try to save money else where, anyone can give up on take outs, dining out so often, or buying those expensive shoes when you know the real worth of these sacrifices.
While grandparents may be away, one is still blessed to still have and know their grandparents, know their voice via phone calls, or their face thru Skype as I have not been fortunate to know either of my grandpas due to them dying at an early age.
I feel that modern society values the initial phase of attraction and passion too highly. I think when girls are dating guys, they should be pragmatic and think long-term, asking themselves the following questions: As you can see in the previous posts, many women know their husbands are wrong for them, but they are far from their families and saddled with kids.
So, they are stuck for life. Having your own family around provides a great emotional support. Love your realistic point of view!! And yes the expectation is set and your every move is watched at last in the initial years.. I do not agree with these , because that is how i felt initially with my English partner.
Then with time I put more faith in who I am as a person. It helped me to accept new things and now i am used to them as a way of life.
I always wanted and strongly believed a marriage is that agreement between two fully grown adults that allows them to trust and accept the other half completely, even if it is annoying to some degree. It is not about who keeps us on our toes but feeling the most comfortable, and at peace.
If you are a strong, non judgmental person, with an open mind, how rigidly religious both of you are, family with understanding parents. It highly depends on who you are when it comes to having issues with a foreign husband. If you have compromised your true nature and values to be with some one in marriage, no number of in laws and their sweet talks can reassure you when you feel unhappy inside and resent your spouse for it.
We met in the US and first lived there together and then in Saudi Arabia and then returned to the US before finally deciding to move to Argentina. We had experienced many of the things on the list but it was all fun learning about each other and sharing experiences while we were both the foreigner in whatever country we were in. The problems for us really started when we moved to Argentina.
At the time moving to Argentina seemed to be the best option as we both missed being so far away from family now that we had 2 kids. Also moving to ireland was not much of an option at the time as my husband made it clear that he did not want to the study involved in getting his degree recognized in Ireland.
I was also confident I could make it work hell it had all worked out in the other countries! I frequently found myself feeling very alone and isolated and although my husband said he understood I could see that he was delighted to be back home. WE are still in Argentina and I am heavily weighting the decision as to whether I should leave the country and him. I am seriously unhappy here and end up frequently crying and depressed and it is not always possible to hide that from the kids now 3 in total.
While he says he will leave I do not see him making and preparations to do so. I think he secretly hopes that if he can keep me here long enough I will adapt.
This is having a very serious effect on our marriage as I am beginning to see him as the enemy that is forcing me to stay when I desperately want to leave. And that would mean your husband understanding that your living down here seems not to be an option. That is the thing that sucks most about marriage and kids—you become part of a unit, and it is very hard to do things with only your own preferences in mind. Who knows, you may even miss Argentina.
We have been married only 6 months, no kids, now things are great but I think kids will make it more complicated. We have an ongoing conversation about how to raise them and which country would be better for them, and where to live when we retire, and how to take care of our aging parents, etc. We have many things going for us, a shared faith and family values, the big-hearted acceptance and support of both our in-laws, and the fact that we both grew up rather rootless in families that moved a lot, so we accept living in different places and far from extended family as normal part of life.
I would say look for those three things in yourself and your partner if you are considering international marriage. And these days, we can be thankful for modern technology! Skype calls are so cheap and there are so many ways to share your life and connect with overseas friends and family online.
I think my marriage was doomed the moment family and friends found out. Few were against it and even after getting married their judgment and spoken word made it harder. Two cultures can be a wonderful thing in so many ways but very fifficult to maintain. My husband is Nigerian and his way or even values bring at times unrealistic expectations.
He is so good with the kids, very considerate and helpful although his expectations and even actions is contrary to being in Australia. I am disagree with this post I think every thing has some benefits and some problems depend on how we look at them and how we face them. Nothing be perfect I will give you some reasons base on my marriage experience why this kind of marriage could be good for people.
Each culture has some powers and weakness. We can learn so much from other cultures and improve our self. Between all people miss understanding is normal. You have more chance to be yourself by explain not only common words or cliches ideas about relationship. You can make different travels and learning by your partner very deep about other country and atmosphere. Family are important but not every thing we have.
Parents could not make so many problem in their children marriage when they are so far especially if they have enough respect from children. Having different traditional ceremonies make more fun for life because instead of one new year you have two new year some times or different celebrations. If there is some cultural miss understanding partners can speak about it and it is helpful because we can understand.
It let us to understand our culture and some positive and negative points we have because of our culture. For having unique child is good chance become they come from different genes and we have more chance for make healthy babies with different talent.
You and your children will have more job opportunities because you know about two countries very well and you can assist each other. If you are artists, business people, cultural activist between two countries, translator, researcher.
This is more fun than you can imagine. You will understand about politics of different countries and you have bunch of different and new topics for speaking together. There are so many benefit but you need to be positive, in love, care and respect other people as your culture and country.
You should not be very high religious, flexible , brave and adventurer, Interest to learn and teach. If you have all features you are so lucky because you have two worlds and so many new experience and people in your life.
What a lucid and thoughtful comment on inter-cultural relationships, Maryam. Pretty much sums up my views on the subject. IMHO, the perspective of this article is a bit narrow, and fails to accomplish what is intended to. Moreover, not everyone is religious, or attached to traditions. As an agnostic myself, things like burial are not even relevant to me, then cremation is even cheaper in most places.
Throughout history people have moved from place to place for various reasons, then things are a lot easier now than they used to. While family is important, it is not everything we have, I must agree on that. I have plenty of reasons to choose a foreigner over a local. The people I identify myself the most with are actually from low-context cultures e.
Am I going to change my opinion because of this article? By the contrary, many comments here, including yours, only reinforce my positive view of international relationships.
I have previously commented, but felt the need to come back again! I think what all the comments here tell us, is that such a relationship will work for some, and not for others. You have to be flexible, otherwise the relationship is doomed from the outset, one of you is going to have to make some serious changes to your life, whether it be religion, culture, or just everyday life. As I said previously, I had two failed marriages to women from my own Country England , so in itself that is no guarantee of success, you have to work hard to make any relationship a success.
Religion is not an issue, I am atheist, my wife and her family are Protestant, despite being in a predominantly Catholic country, I have told my wife, that I respect her beliefs, and as long as she respects mine, then it will never be an issue, if and when we have children, I am happy for her to decide on the religious approach, as long as they have the choice later, on which religious route if any, they wish to take. I do not believe in indoctrination, guidance should be given and then self choice.
I have always been a man who made his own decisions, and then stuck by them, in the nearly three years that I have been here, this is something I have had to compromise on to a great extent, and has been something that has caused more than one arguement between us, however when I have sat back and thought about it, my Wife has only been worried about my security, in a country where Foreigners are more vulnerable as targets of crime, even though as a retired Policeman, I pride myself on being very aware of my surroundings.
I try hard to accept this effort to protect me, because it is done with love. Until I moved to Colombia, my wife had lived in the family home for all of her 32 years, so she is extremely close to her family, the culture is one of music and partying, and I have to admit, it does drive me mad at times, but I never try to stop my wife continuing her involvement in those festivities, I go to the main events to keep everyone happy, but I am not a party animal, I trust and have complete confidence in my wife, therefore I am happy for her to go off with family or friends and let her hair down, it gives us both some space, and I am more than happy to see her on her return.
I know I have rambled on a while, but what I am trying to say, is to avoid difficulties in any relationship, to a foreigner or otherwise, you to have to be prepared to talk, and to listen, if you are not, then prepare yourself for an unhappy or lonely life. I am an American currently dating a Swiss woman and I am very surprised by the dramatic cultural differences. We approach life in different ways. We express ourselves very differently.
She is very much to the point about everything, whereas I tend to talk around things and soften them. She seems harsh to me at times. Marriage is difficult enough without all of these cultural differences on top, right?
Having said that, it can also be an adventure if one is up to the challenge. She has a lot of great qualities and I am trying to adapt, as is she. She speaks fluent English. I am learning German and having lots of fun doing it. We both love to travel. She is good for me in a lot of ways and I hope I am for her too. One thing for sure is I will not rush into anything. Before I get married, I would want us to successfully live together for several years.
That will be the test. He is atheist, though both of his parents are Jews and I am Christian Orthodox, he has dark hair, my natural hair color is blonde..
You see, it actually sounds ridiculous. And it never mattered. He understands me and gives that extra sense to my life. I married very young, in fact I am still pretty young, we date 2 years prior to our marriage, met by accident on some forum, then used FB and Skype, get to know each other, became great friends, fell in love. And distant relationships are not easy. So I decided to move to Israel , which is harder than to move to most of the countries. Yes I miss my family and friends but I am happy to be with my husband, I also have a family here now and even met some awesome people, few of them became my good friends.
I talk with my family every other day, write to my mother and my friends every day, no matter how tired I am, we send each other gifts and we are planing on visiting them this winter. Israel is full of immigrants , great food, sea, history, I love their customs and it is interesting for me to learn about everyday life and people.
My husband, at other hand loves Serbia, nature, people, food, I often cook some Serbian food upon his request, he even learned decent amount of Serbian, he keeps in touch with my family, etc.
We respect each others culture and tradition. We decided that we will give our best to give them love, support and education , rest is on them. As I said before, we are both still very young , I can not say that in 10 or 20 years I will feel the same and think the same but currently I am and it is fine. Sometimes I get nostalgic or tired but then I asked myself where would I be with out my husband and I remember how I missed him when we were apart.
We spent more than 8 months apart after we got married because of procedural reasons, so I learned to cherish and love every little moment, kiss or touch. Hopefully we will stay strong and in love, but if you want to be happy and achieve something in life in general you have to be strong.
Wish you all lots of luck and love! Love is worth of trying and for sure worth of a sacrifice! Update to post from March 9, at 2: OK, so here we are.. My wife is going to leave me tomorrow. Baby-girl will be one year old. And my heart is broken in milion pieces. Guys, my final advice: If you see any weekness like unreasonable jelousy, if You ever feel in your relation in doubt, be sure to end it as soon as possible.
Or be stupid like me with hopes, that next day She will be better — be sure that it is going to end in worst drama you have never could imagine. Hi all, this has been very interesting reading. Been married 10 months, together for 4 years. I cried in the bathroom at work a lot!! I had a bit of a melt down yesterday, because a woman at work lost her husband, he had a heart attack out of the blue.
Anyway, the easy thing for us is that New Zealand is actually pretty similar to the UK, so not that many cultural differences and barely any language ones. Although I do find hot Christmases quite strange and not very festive.
Overall, I do feel lucky — for me I met the love of my life, we are just the happiest we could ever be. There was really no option but to be together. But still, you never know, we may move there with them at some point.
Interesting website and article. A lot of wonderful responses! I was over-the-moon excited that my doors were open to a 3rd continent! No relatives for the holidays, the first-holy communions.. And miss the families the rest of the time.. Life is so relative! Yes, skype is over-rated.. In order to feel close to that extended family, they need to know the language, thoroughly. Being an immigrant is never easy. But I know, my husband will be the first to understand when I feel an immigrant in yet another land..
I tell myself, it can only be better! No friends, no family. Since my basic need in life is people, I think I already have a good start! We have amazing friends!
And my children will have grandparents!! Now I just wonder what could the repercussions be.. I have to add to my comment above: That leads to isolation from the general population and then to some resentment ……. I have no children anywhere. Does that make me a fool or a hero? It is definitely hard, but anything that is worth something is going to take work! I wrote a list about my marriage! I identify with these points but I felt we underestimated the challenges we would face in our marriage.
I am trying to teach myself his language and how to cook his traditional foods but with great difficulty. I do miss back home though but feels like an outsider when I visit. I have been with my foreign husband for 7 years now, 2 years ago we got married. We have lived in my home country and now live in his. At times I get very lonely and sad, sometimes the D-word crosses my mind too. When I look back, I realize that our biggest problem is miscommunication. I am sure there are some cultural differences in the equation too.
So, sometimes I just want to give up. Am African and am dating a German for one and a half years now. I have a really good job here and really wears me down that i have to learn German since marriage is on plan in 6months. I love him so much but he says,moving to Africa is so unlikely because he has an established company which he owns. The thought of practicing medicine in a foreign language is not easy for me….
Corey Heller — Thanks for creating such an interesting topic. I understand what your intentions are here, and agree that , if looked upon as a challenge, then one can see where you are coming from. I am American and my wife is Ethiopian.
We have a nearly 3 year old little boy who is simply put, a hand full. Our son was born in a 3rd country where we both worked, which was kind of interesting. Embassy took care of his Citizen Birth Abroad, U. Passport, and Social Security Card. He is healthy, which is the most important thing.
Most of which was early on in the marriage as we had never actually lived together, although we lived only 20 minutes away from each other. I have found that we have grown closer and stronger as a result of everything that has happened, good and bad.
It is actually kind of funny when she mispronounces certain words while speaking English and she laughs when I screw up words in her language as well. We moved back to the U.
Visiting has always been great but the quality of life associated with residing here simply was not on par with the amount of daily grind, stress, cost, etc that it demanded. So, we both agreed that a move to Ethiopia was in order. We have a home there, and my wife a business that she is totally excited about growing. Our son is very comfortable there and I too really enjoy the simplicity of life and freedoms there that I discovered have been somehow lost in the U.
Yes, I will miss what few family members here in the U. I guess what I am trying to say is that when you marry someone, native or foreign, that you had to have seen something very special in that person.
Be willing to see the humor in things that bother you vice the pain of it because no matter who you are with or where you choose to lay your head down, you and your partner will have to deal with and except some issues as simply being the way things are.
Quality of life is what is most important. There will always be immigration difficulties every where, but do try to find your own little happy place. Except your differences, celebrate your likenesses, and above all……Be thankful for each today. Therefore the culture shock is expected and holiday traditions might not be as missed.
Becoming the US citizen does not mean that the person will start to stop missing family in home country, start acting like some who was born and raised here, nor cultural shock is expected.. You know that can be regarded as ignorant remark to call Asians, do you know that? Well these are the main problems I see: Brazilians are very strong Roman Catholics; and Turks are not very strong Islamically, but they would not like their kids to be participating in Catholic rituals. Great distance between Brazil and Turkey.
When two people get married, their two friend groups all become close friends with each other as well because of same language, culture, etc. This will be unlikely with the different cultures…so there is more discomfort when your common contacts meet. Language barrier-Turkish is very difficult to learn; so a lot of time your girlfriend will be left out of conversations.
He wanted to go back to Israel having lived there for 3 years prior to me the Israeli convincing him to try and move to the UK. I will never go back to the UK as I hated living there. Found myself nodding to every point. We have an otherwise good marriage, we are best friends and get along super. His son just turned 18, he lived in the US until he was 8 then moved back to Czech with his mother after they divorced.
All the sudden, his son is acting strangely, has weird ideas about the US and is obsessed with Hitler. He feels that his son is acting out because he was never a father to him, although we have visited times a year.
I am out of my mind with hurt. I feel betrayed, even though in trying to be understanding about him wanting to be near his son and aging family. He made the decision to leave his country long ago, but now i am the one suffering.
Does the old saying apply here? Hi Maria, unfortunately, no matter how much we love our men, we cannot compete with the biological bond. I think your husband would not want to go back so bad if it was not for his son. Have you had your own biological child yet?
If not, I think you are right that you are suffering…because you are exchanging your prime fertile years for his company…yet at the end, he can leave and you are left, alone and barren. If he is going to threaten you to leave, then do it wholeheartedly. This is the hard part.. In my case, my husband and I are both in our 3rd country that is the US..
As long as I lived single, or dated or just married I never missed my family! So I spoke with my husband with a lot of tears.. So we decided to move at least for a short while.. If I were in your shoes, I would try the life of your husband, being a foreigner in his country.. I agree with the cultural differences. I didnt feel it until i got here in the US. Everything is very different here. The way holidays are celebrated are different than what I grew up with in the Philippines.
The christmas spirit is lesser. We have really many differences in gestures, how i describe certain things that he misunderstood, and sign languages. It used to have a conflict on both of us because there are certain things that were not okay, like me calling him with hand sign that he describes as me calling him like a dog which is how we do in the philippines.
He thought he was offensive. Also about the language that he misinterpret and to me that had made us upset before. There are a lot of differences however I really love my husband and he feels the same way that we both are willing to conquer the consequences. We both felt home when we met. I have never felt so comfortable with a man except to him. We get along very much. We both have the understanding and we have plans on trips.
We save enough money to make it possible and it is not a problem to me to visit her mom. We also have planned future trips to europe. My husband has 2 kids from previous marriage but I am really open to having them in our trips. As for food, he eats whatever I make.
Im blessed to be able to make any food that I want, either filipino, some american, some thai food , some of other cuisines and I am glad that he is a foodie like me. He eats rice too. I have learned to love eating burgers and adjusted in being here in the US. It feels lonely to not se my sister but after 2 years i will see her again. I have been married to an Irish lass from Galway for almost 35 years.
Met in London in got married in and stayed in London for almost 25 years, decided to move lock stock and barrel with my family to Cape Town -thats where I was born. Jobs were hard to find and my adult children decided to make a new life for themselves in Cape Town and stayed on. It was tough accepting the fact they were in another country.
My wife and I came back to Galway — her family and friends are here. I now have three grandchildren -guess what! I personally think that when you love and care for a partner -nationality plays a small part.
Thank you for your sharing. I also love a girl from a different country, it is nearly a platonic love. But I always thaught as you are. Where we will spend out life and where we will be buried. That is a big dilemma for me. Because I think profession and marriage affect the whole life.
Again I want to thank you for sharing your experinence and I think that I have to make a bit more research in this particular subject. Your reasons are wonderful and very convincing but if you see your relationship with your husband is a great experience and you are living happily with him. Yes, marrying a foreigner has its challenges. But it never gets boring. That itself is a plus in a marriage.
Also, some of these issues can be discussed upfront with your partner before marriage, e. We lived in Europe before we came here and I felt better back then than I do now. I guess it felt more equal to me because as mentioned in the article, international marriage is usually not equal.
Now my husband is saying that he wants to move to his home town and settle down. I feel that I am always the one who is putting effort.
We technically could move back to the Europe because his job allows us to but he says no. You cannot do always what you want. Just look for the middle way. This is because you are now married. I am European American. Europe is more stable. US is more about moving every now and then. European and Japanese have much more in common. They are more conservative.
Try to focus on the good things. Hawaii is a nice middle term between US and Japan. I am also married to a USA guy, I am from south america. I came to the USA knowing that I had to adapt, learn the language, learn the ways of the people from his culture etc etc, I had no problems with that, but the thing that has put me off was his behavior as a husband. I had to use and still have his help for many things, like transportation, and making transactions with people etc, he told me many times he was doing me favors by doing that, it seems that still after almost 7 years of marriage he still does not make feel as his family.
He also has some habits that I did not know before getting into this marriage that I had to put up for all this time, He stays late at night doing some triple x watching, and coming to bed at 2, 3 or sometimes 4 in the morning.
I told him many times I was leaving, that I was done with our relationship, and for me who is not a native of his country it is more difficult to make that decision. If I go what do I take with me?
I can not take any furniture and stuff we have accumulated in all these years, It is like start from zero in my country if I leave. I really have to make my decision and go. It is better for my mental health and well being than being here with a man that still needs to grow up a lot emotionally.
I am Nigerian and married to a Swede. I and my husband are very happy together and we go to Nigeria for Christmas every other year. For me the biggest problem is acceptance by his family. Even when my family visited for two weeks, his family found it very difficult to accept my family and this really worries me and makes me angry because I love my family so much and resent anyone who treats them with no values.
There is a lot of racism and pre-justice in Nordic societies towards of foreigners. There have been many sociological and anthropological studies on the matter. There is an implicit ethnic, religious and racial hierarchy in Norse countries and until fairly recently it was government policy.
Government may not discriminate you anymore but the general society will. The most social acceptable marriage among the Norse is those which one spouse is from another Nordic country.
There are also some individual differences between countries. For example, a person from Czech Republic Which is politically Eastern Europe holds the same level of esteem as someone from example Greece. Note that religion is also important. Protestants Lutherans — not evangelical Christians are regarded higher than Catholics. Outside religion I would say that gender is important.
A foreign female has it much easier than a foreign man — of course it is another matter if they are Norse and Western Europeans. Money and what you do for a living is also a factor. A good job requiring a degree means more respect than if you have a menial job. In turn Catholics are regard higher than Eastern Orthodox and so on. Muslims are regarded most negative and often with hostility.
The rest of the world outside the Western Civilization is lumped together. People from rich countries such as Singapore, Japan and Korea are held favorable while people from Africa, South America, Middle East and the rest of Asia are less favorable held. What is most important for Scandinavians is your willingness to assimilate rather than you race or ethnicity.
If you speak the language and respect the culture and religion of the majority society including financially contribute you will be hold much higher. When I see Muslim-Turkish immigrants fail in Denmark it is often because of they refuse to assimilate and tell the majority society to adapt to their needs. The same applies for foreigners in Nordic countries.
My wife understood that she had to assimilate and learn the language, cultural codes and what is socially acceptable. She did it as a Turk and a non-religious Muslim. She was just ridding with the flow. I think one important factor makes things difficult for mixed-couples are if one of the spouses comes from a poor country.
Often the larger family wants money, services or help. Morton, Fred, and Jeff Ramsay, eds. The Birth of Botswana: A History of the Bechuanaland Protectorate from to , Changing Roles of Women in Botswana, The Ethnic Composition of Tswana Tribes, A Handbook of Tswana Law and Custom. Frank Cass and Company, Schapera, Isaac, and John L. The Passing of Polygyny in Botswana.
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Nongovernmental Organizations and Other Associations International donors, drawn by the stable democratic environment and the relative absence of corruption, have aided infrastructural development and social welfare programs.
Marriage, Family, and Kinship Marriage. Etiquette Batswana emphasize extensive greetings and inquiries after each other. Medicine and Health Care Some illnesses are considered "European" and some "African" and are brought to medical practitioners accordingly. Secular Celebrations Public holidays are scheduled for four-day weekends.
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Far different from Australia. I admire the Christian influence. I'd like to know a bit more about the traditional cultural roles of women and men, if you wouldn't mind emailing me. I'm very pleased with the information I went through. Its impressive and informative. I believe though that you can go beyond and give more information about Batswana and the modern way of life.
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This is a really awesome website. It helped me out with a project I had to do. And your references were real too, so that helped me even more. So fascinating piece of work! Being far miles away from home, really this came to my rescue as an important point of reference. Thank you so much!!! Botswana is country with lot of Discrimination, marginalization and so much more.
It takes a single minded person to simple ignore this facts. She brags about herself as a country composed of different cultures. Different cultures mean different people with different languages, yet she adopts the name Botswana. What about naming her as SAN? San peoples were the first in this country and they form a wider spectrum of having inhabited the entire Southern Africa, but they, in fact, we, the San people are viewed as nothing in this country.
Treated with no dignity and are entirely marginalized. We are minorities in our own country and viewed in it as different people and we are laughed at with words 'Mosarwa ke wena. As far as we go, we are not Batswana, not Basarwa, not Bushmen, San I'm sorrry you feel that way Job. I wish there was something I can do. I'm writing a research paper on Botswana and I find it interesting how you believe so strongly in what you wrote down.
I believe that you should do something about it, rather then complain. I'm sorry, but that is just my opinion. Hi there, looking for information on dating a Botswana woman - I am Irish and she is from Gaborone - I am not sure of the etiquette when it comes to dating I know this sounds very naive but I don't want to scare her off with sexual advances or insult her Great page by the way - very, very informative!!!
I need to know about the traditions relating to young girls being taken to "mountain camps" where there virginity is "checked". I have a child in my school who desperately does not want this to be "done" as she does not accept the tradition if it exists.
Her father says it is how they do it. Tshidiso Matlho the information is so educational, may u please email me the about traditional wedding and funeral in botswana everything. Meru are bantu speaking people and am so happy to realize that there are bantu speaking people in botswana.
Batswana have lost their minds nowadays when it comes to dress code. I got a big wang. This is excellent, almost everything is there.
Please elaborate more in traditional clothing. I need cultural chothing for batswana how they previously dress most coulour they used and modern clothing. Quite an interesting piece of work, keep it up. I love my country, Botswana and I am proud to be Motswana. This is brilliant work on my country and people! But our culture s , like all cultures, is changing all the time.
Interactions with communities from around the world, as we are an open and welcoming nation, has had such a huge impact on the way we do things that this has a nostalgic feel to it as if it describes some lost moment in history. The previous domination of the so-called smaller groups is dying away and i hope Job won't be feeling the way he does for long. Batswana are generally wonderful and understanding people, and by reading this one understands where it came from.
Continue to unite in your diversity and look after each other Batswana! Who is the author of this site? I am trying to site this website on a works cited MLA format. Thank you for the work so well done, i have learned a lot about Botswana. How can I be in Botswana teaching African theatrical perfomances with good dances of Botswana at the same time teaching Kiswahili which is Tanzania's nation language?
I am proud of Botswana's culture. Very informative information about Botswana I would recommend this site to anyone who is interested in Botswana Hi my name is BOB and this is the best website on botswana I have ever seen. This was very helpful for me. Its just I would have loved the learn more about the San and their way of life because they are unique in their own way.
I'd like to see images of different groups in Botswana;dress, activities, food etc. I am doing research on health and older people in Botswana and am finding it particularly difficult to get sources.
This eased my mind a bit, God bless. I was falling love with Botswana guy, when we were got training in Tokyo, Japan. After we finished the training, we were separated.
And now, I can't contact with him. I just search all the things about Botswana if I feel miss him. And this article was help me to make me feel better. I am very proud of my country Botswana, we have gone a long way since independence. The Botswana that we inherited from the colonial government is totally different from present day Botswana , thanks to our leaders good governance. Indeed fatshe leno la rona ke mpho ya Modimo.
I got lot of information about Botswana country. I am an indian, In my life i want to visit botswana atleast once. Botswana is a nice country although its extremely hot,i still love it because my mom is from Botswana too,so for me its the best!!!
This is quite good and i have learnt a lot about my country in general. It's very informative web I never seen! It explains every thing the user needs! Truly, I like it indeed!! Botswana is a peaceful country. I have learnt so much about my country. I am very happy. Thnx much, that was so educative Bt I was interested on to know what did batswana wear in their oldern days easpecialy children. Botswana is extremely hot but believe me , is one of peaceful place.
My dad is from the Bangwato nation and my mum is from xhosa clan. When ever i came there I felt blessed. I am very proud of my nationality motswana as Botswana is a peaceful and cool nation if i may say unlike other nations wher there a fights night and day. I would have loved to see your reflections on the totems and their implications on socialization within the different communities. I believe its one of the unique symbols of our culture. I did a presentation in my cross cultural class about it here in China and the audience loved it.
But in all thanks for your work. This web page is so informative, you did a wonderful job! It is very informal but i would not recomend this if your trying to summarize way of life in botswana for a project XD.
This was very helpful as i am doing a project that requires that i have all this information And please if you have information on the place of origin, totem and location of Botswana tribes send it to me. I am a language practice student from TUT Soshanguve campus. I have an assignment based on Setswana culture. I would like you to help me with the beliefs of batswana. Theater had an early start in the colonial period and the country also maintains a National Symphony Orchestra, a national ballet company, as well as folk dance companies.
The sciences in Peru had an early development closely tied to the foundation of the Universidad Nacional de San Marcos in Lima. The country's difficult political conditions as well as the limited resources of the universities have seriously limited the general advancement of the physical and social sciences. Violence against Women in Peru's Armed Conflict, The Struggle for Utopia in the Peruvian Amazon, Inca Cosmology and the Human Body, An Opportunity Lost, Household and Class Relations: Peasants and Landlords in Northern Peru, El surgimiento de Sendero Luminoso, Business and Politics in Peru: The State and the National Bourgeoisie, In Search of the Poor in Jesus Christ, A Guide to the People, Politics, and Culture, Ecology and Ritual in an Andean Village, Las mujeres de Sendero Luminoso, Modernization, Dislocation, and Aprismo: The Origin of Peru's Aprista Pary, —, The Andes Viewed from the City: History and Political Discourse on the Indian in Peru, —, The Peruvian Experiment, The Peoples and Cultures of Ancient Peru, The Making of Post-colonial Mexico and Peru, Seven Interpretive Essays on Peruvian Reality, La reforma agraria en el Peru, White Gold Rush in Peru, The Incas and their Ancestors, New York: Thames and Hudson, Good Faith and Truthful Ignorance: A Case of Transatlantic Bigamy, Schmidt and Thomas C.
Poole, Deborah, and Gerardo Renique. Time of Fear, Historia del Tahuantinsuyu, Moon, Sun and Witches: History, Culture and Politics, Huamanga to , 2nd ed. Conversations in the Cathedral, Wise, Carol, and Manuel Pastor. From Orthodoxy to Heterodoxy and Back.
History and Ethnic Relations Emergence of the Nation. Food and Economy Food in Daily Life. Social Stratification Classes and Castes. Social Welfare and Change Programs The Peruvian government has traditionally been involved with national health and social security benefits; however, the government has had very limited success in providing Peruvian citizens with adequate care in both areas. Nongovernmental Organizations and Other Associations The main nongovernmental organizations NGOs in Peru are strongly linked to human rights, ethnic identity, and women's issues.
Marriage, Family and Kinship Marriage. Etiquette Possibly as a legacy of the strongly hierarchical pre-Hispanic cultures or European colonialism, self-discipline is strongly advocated among Peruvians. Medicine and Health Care Life expectancy in Peru is sixty-seven years, which is quite high considering the serious deficiencies in the country's public health systems.
Secular Celebrations The major secular Peruvian celebrations are National Independence Day celebrated three consecutive days, 28, 29, and 30 July ; the Battle of Arica 7 June ; and Carnival a movable holiday celebrated on the three days just before Catholic Lent. The Arts and Humanities Support for the Arts. The World Is Broad and Alien, A World for Julius, Permiso para vivir Antimemorias , The Rough Guide, Religion in the Andes, Palmer, David Scott, ed.
Shining Path of Peru, The Inca Empire, Paths to Poverty, Aunt Julia and the Scriptwriter, A Fish in the Water, Also read article about Peru from Wikipedia. What about more on etiquette This article was very useful for my research essay. It has great information on the govenrment and geograpgy and culture, but what about more on sexes?
I'm taking social sciences and currently I'm working on roles and values of children. Maybe more information on family life would be of great use.
This was very useful. Hi, I think your website is great, however I belief your article on Peru oversimplifies it's recent history. I think a key element to mention is the military dictatorships of the 20th century which had deep impact on everyday lives since they closed the country to any outside influence for years. I'm no sociologist but I think I could help out a bit since I'm Peruvian and have lived here all my life. Even if I wasn't alive during these dictatorships the impact can still be felt even today.
Closing the country meant creating a closed economy which led to largely inefficient industries that were completely devastated when the economy was re-opened in the nineties. This, along with migration to large cities because of terrorism, is also a reason for the increase in food imports. Also I would like to mention that after Fujimori, the Japanese citizen who was our president for over 10 years and is now in jail for human rights violations and embezzelment, we've had two other presidents.
The last one was reelected. His first term as president was in and left the country in macroeconomic disaster. Humala has rather extreme left wing ideas including closing the economy again and restricting many things. Luckily he seems to have learnt from his past mistakes and the country is still a free, macroeconomically healthy place.
Very helpful with my research, very informative and enjoyable, thank you. Diederik van der Wees. Nicw work, is there an author and year of publishing I can name, if I want to use it for an essay? Thank you so much for this article.
I am in relationship with someone who was born and raised in Peru. I have had a little trouble understanding some of his personality traits and this information has explained alot to me. I have noticed how there is a very strong sense of a dominant male existence. I have noticed that please and thank you are not a very high priority in there mind and its never verbalized or shown, being appreciative for anything. Thanks again for this information I looked at other sites and articles and did not feel as though anything felt any clearer in my mind but now it is alot better.
I am a foreigner that has lived in Peru for 15 years and in that time I have devoted quite a bit of time studying it. Your article is bang-on, and a great introduction for anybody who wants to learn about Peru.
The only correction that I would make is regarding the Quechua language. While Quechua was indeed imposed by the Incas on those they conquered, in fact, it was not their original language, rather, it was a coastal language that was often used by traders.
Thanks so much for providing this great information! It has done a great job in assisting me with my project over Peru for school. I was able to find all the answers I needed to do my research about the country. It is a great resource thanks for making this information available. Please reply because a man from Peru told me this and friends here have questioned me. To answer your question: That isn't to say that it doesn't happen frequently but it doesn't make it a tradition, just like in the states it's not a tradition to do that but people make their own choices.
Iam looking for more displays of traditional art designs. Unforntunatly, there were none that I could find on your site. I did notice however the information was broad and covered many areas. I enjoy reading in this site I've learn a lot about their customs and traditions.. It has all the information I need. A lot of other websites don't have what's here. Thank You so much for this.
I really appreciate it!: Wow great info thanks: This site was very informative and helped me with a project I am doing. What is the educational system for it I am researching it and its nowhere on any of its information about It's educational system. I found a lot on this page that really helped me, the religion part I had a little trouble with, But other than that it was very helpful!! I was looking for more on their culture now and the culture of their indigenous people. Also what happened to the indigenous peoples' culture.
Is it still around or has it adapted? I also love literature and art. I am writing a novel about my grandparents who were missionaries in Cuzco in the 's.
I would love to find more information about basic daily living arrangements such as: Thank You For Your Work. Who are the main caregivers? What are the beliefs regarding healthcare? Who are the ones successfully treating loved ones? Comment about this article, ask questions, or add new information about this topic: Show my email publicly. Type the code shown:
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Then I had to listen to the same from him when we moved to the States.
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