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He started his basic training in November and got to come back for Christmas for 2 weeks which is very lucky for me. Thank you so much for reading this. There may be concerns as to whether the family will accept the child after they have been a soldier. But the more I tried to fight for the relationship, the more he wanted to push me away. She will spend the necessary time to develop a relationship with you. I love you Daniel with all of my heart. In Uganda, this acceptance was achieved through the use of cleansing ceremonies, which has assisted in the removal of community stigmatization by "decontaminating" the child.

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Joking but you really bit off more than you can chew. How will I cope with something this New? They also lurk in chat rooms and social networking sites as well as Christian and other religious-based dating sites. He caught me at a very low point in my life as I was emotionally trodden. Her email address is or was wilsonbianca gmail.

I had experience in the past of someone messing with my profile after they were given my email. Been scammed by a person calling himself Natan Hansen.

A widower with a 8 year old daughter. He was a self employed computer programmer for 18 years. Please let me know Click here to write your own. Paul Bradley contacted me on Facebook. Said I was so beautiful and would like to chat with me. Within a few weeks he fell madly in love with me. He sent me a picture of a very handsome man. He left the Seattle area to work in the … David Kelly is the man you need to stay away from! He is a very good manipulator!

Tells you everything you want to hear. His wife died of cancer. He has two daughters who are off in a private school. He told me a story about losing his wife and daughter … engineersmithbrooks gmail. Just like everyone said, moved quickly to private email. He took down his profile quickly to show that he found the one. Said he was a construction engineer. Fell deep in love and he said he is in the military. Said he was deployed to Nigeria. I met someone off of okcupid stating he was an U S Army soldier special forces.

Met him on Skype. Said he was a widow and his son is stuck in Ghana and they stole his wallet, his passport and could I send his son money This guy is a scammer - a fake. I come in contact with a guy I met on Blackplanet. He is very dangerous. He appeared on the site Be2. Beautiful photos, just not true. His wife died from cancer.. She met a man on Facebook playing Farmville and it grew into a relationship to … melanie. I found her on cupid. Promise of love and marriage.

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Using a blackberry to send emails. He said he was from Houston Texas and he is on assignment in Afghanistan fighting terrorism. I am a 55 year old widow who posted a profile on match.

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The Army Veterans profile he stole, he's … LarsonMartins5 gmail. Widow, wife killed in a car accident, one son in scholmsmewhere in the uk.

She looked … Click here to write your own. Extremely romantic, called me his wife, queen, etc. I was very vulnerable. Thank the Lord I didn't lose any money. I have created two FB groups where you can post pics. Working on an oil rig in Scotland, wife died, 13 year old son Ryan. A sympathetic man, at that time on a UN mission in Syria. Single widow with son really good talker builds relationship then goes for the money.

Sweet talker then goes in for the money. I clicked on his picture and we quickly became friends. It must be lucrative for him. He follows business women. He started with that he was working in Ireland on an oil rig. Claims to be from Italy, widowed with 1 daughter. Praying on single women. He is nice and charming and behaves a little, as he could not tarnish any waters.

He says he is of Italian descent by the name of William. Texted for 2 weeks. Not rated yet Presented himself as Hoffa Cruz. Photos stolen from Gustavo Lazo Oval. Parents and wife and daughter all killed at once leaving him with a granddaughter. This dude showed up on Words with Friends as well. They run true to their script of being a Single father, deceased wife and always have … Click here to write your own. He asked my ring size and address. How are you doing? My name must be on a list or something now lol.

He just contacted me today … So-Called Engineer with teenager daughter seeking wife mom!! Not rated yet I was not in the market. I wanted to play my game. So this engineer on a platform on the high seas, sees my pic and is immediately in love. I know one women 26, Jeff blake's email is jeffblak mail.

This guy asked to follow me on instagram and I thought he was kinda cute so I accepted. He was handsome and was in Syria with nato and was a neurosurgeon on his way to Afghanistan then home. They are alone at the moment with the watchmaker. He asked for money. A Civil engineer who is self employed.

Age 56 and has home in Maryland. The scammers steal the most handsome pictures and he sent me one almost everyday.

He was self employed and was a civil engineer. How do you know if you're being friend requested by a scammer? Not rated yet States he works on an oil rig in the Gulf. Sweet talks for a couple of weeks and introduces his so called daaughter and starts asking for money. I am from Sweden. Friend request from Facebook. His name there was Richard Hanson. Thunder horse, oil rig, widow. They are all scammers Johnson Akute nerosurgeon in Syria.

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I blame … Nigerian dating scams Jeffersondavies gmail. He is a good one. Plays with your emotions. Never heard of thid sight but I am happy I found it.

His name is Lewis Walters. He claims to have a daughter Laura, in college in Louisianna. He says he is a US Navy Dr. Getting ready … Raymond A.

Not sure what the end game was, but all info was BS. Construction engineer living in Sanger, CA, currently on assignment in Chicago. Richard, 22 year old son in college in North Carolina. He … David Hunter. I was researching pipeline engineers so I could know a little more about what he does when I came upon this … Click here to write your own.

Not rated yet Hey years ago I was on a site called Tagged. I haven't texted for some weeks as too busy at work. I have a new one for you. Andrew Scott just asked me for friendship. I wish I knew the real name not this picture. Her email address is or was wilsonbianca gmail. Her name is Donna Tom, from Lagos Nigeria. Dont fall for her beauty. Here are some graphic pictures … Beware this two timer has several aliases. Not rated yet Claims to be a business owner who is traveling the world doing onsite, hands on jobs.

Was trying to scam my mother until my sisters and I did some digging. He sent sweet pictures of a handsome guy claiming to be from Belgium but living in Germany where I live. Bad english, spoke of … Plentyoffish. I saw the red flags, did some investigating, and warned her. His email is jbradley yahoo. They wanted money to help with other things. He needs to go to jail. Hello just wanna tell you more about me and my job Handsome pictures and then he is going to Africa for business purposes.

We chatted and then planned to meet for a coffee. Suddenly, his profile disappeared from POF. Why do people send money to someone they have never met? The fakers name is Matt.

He says he's originally from Norway working for the Exxon Mobil company in Idaho as a staff contractor. He said he was a white guy with a child and said he was with the US army.

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I told him it was too good to be real. At first he had courting me thru chat until he proposed that he loves me. She said she was born in UK long Blond Hair He had a project in Nigeria.

This guy is big time scammer. Has silver hair, dark eyes glasses, boyish smile. Very tall 6'7" and calls you love within first week. He is claiming to be an American soldier, stationed in Damascus, Syria. Met on Mingle2 but am sure he is on other sites. I have been approached by about 80 of them myself. On dating sites many of them He went by Antonio Giordano with me. Works out of Malasia He would ask to send money to Malasia.

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Not rated yet I became single a few months back Has a 15 year old son David. His ex wife took him for millions. He has a fake engineering site with his fake picture on it.

She had been horribly hurt by her boyfriend and contemplated suicide. Everyone thought I was crazy for committing to someone who would be stationed halfway across the country, but he and I knew it was right.

My husband enlisted in July of , only months after we had invaded Iraq. Needless to say, I was not thrilled with his decision. We had already been dating for a year and a half and a good amount of that time was long distance. I was attending the University of Virginia in Charlottesville, Virginia and he was in Northern California with his parents when he made the decision to enlist.

I was scared of the thought of him going to war, but even more scared that this new lifestyle would make us grow apart. But I decided to give it a shot and hope that we could make it through this, and we did!

We both wrote a lot of letters and he called me whenever he could. I saw him again after his RIP graduation — this time he came to see me. We spent an amazing week together but saying good-bye proved more difficult than before. Although there were no deployment orders yet I knew in my heart that the minute he arrived at his duty station he would be gone.

Sure enough, about a week after he had arrived at 1 st Ranger Battalion, I got the call. He was schedule to deploy to Iraq in a matter of days. I was a junior in college and had no way of just picking up and leaving for Georgia. So I had to say my good-byes over the phone. That was probably one of the hardest things I ever had to do. To make matters worse, when he arrived from that first deployment, I was not there to greet him. My husband proposed before his second deployment. At that point, I became the sole beneficiary of his life insurance policy and he granted me power of attorney.

This proved to be a frustrating task as he was repeatedly asked if he was sure he wanted to leave that kind of power to someone he was not married to.

Although I had complete control over his finances and legal matters, I was still not an Army wife. This meant I could not be included in phone trees or any kind of support system. I truly felt like I was discriminated against by the larger Army community for not being married. I was never able to see him off on any of his deployments a total of 3 and was only able to be there for his homecoming once.

Even when my husband was state side, life was not much easier. I was in Virginia and he was in Georgia, so I felt like I was constantly out of the loop.

My cell phone was my best friend during this time because it was my main link to him. We tried to see each other as much as we could, but at best we were together once a month.

So did this lifestyle put a strain on our relationship? Of course it did, but in the end, it brought us closer together. We made the best out of the time we were together and got to know so much more about each other from the endless hours of cell phone talk.

This time apart established the strong trusting relationship we have now. My husband and I got married in March of , almost a year after he was honorably discharged from active duty. During his deployments, I had no one who could remotely understand what I was going through.

I wish I would have know about Married to the Army and Army Wife Chat when my husband was in the Army and especially during his deployments. It definitely would have helped a lot! But at the end of the day, this experience made me a stronger person and has resulted in the addition of many great friends. I meet my fiance 7 months ago. We started talking and he told me he was in the army and even sent me pictures, he was stationed in South Korea at the time for a year but only had 3 months left.

We talked that night for 6 hours straight and every night after that for 6,7,8 hours on end. We connected so much it was like I knew him my whole life. He asked me if I would be his girlfriend and I said yes. About weeks before he was to leave Korea he broke up with me. My heart was broken, but we made an agreement to stay friends and that I would still visit him in Ft. Drum, where he was stationed next. When he got back to Boston we still talked everyday on the phone, online, thru texts everything.

It was like we never broke up. Then he tried to date someone else, but still talked and flirted with me like crazy. I asked him why he broke up with me and he said it was too good to be true, I am his perfect match and he can see me being his wife the rest of his life. We got back together, and last weekend he had a 4 day weekend so he came to see me, for the first time in person.

The weekend was amazing and he asked me to marry him. We are planning to do a Justice of the Peace ceremony by July hopefully for now, because he wants to be married to me before he leaves for Afghanistan, which we are not sure yet when that will be. But when you are in love and you know it, you have that feeling of absolute certainty you should never let it go. I got married the day after Easter, April 5, As of now I am not living with my husband due to the fact that I am going to finish school first but I talk to him everyday and night and we try to see each other on weekends.

Well just wanted to let you all know. My experience as dating a solider is way different than I first expected it to be. At first, I was begging him not to sign up and all I could think about is negative thoughts. But as time went out I learn to support his decision of joining the Army and over time I as so happy that he decided to go. We have been dating for three years but have known each other for six.

At first during bootcamp was a little hard but then I got used to not expecting a call everyday. It was just hard going from seeing that person and talking to them everyday to only communication through mail. The big big tip is to be patient and do not expect anything. Also, be very supportive. They look for someone to stick by them even through the hard times and trust me being patient is so worth it and from my experience it has been a good thing I just recently got engaged!!!

Trust is also a good thing to remember, most of the time you will be away from your solider so if you have a good trusting relationship that will help a lot.

Me and my soldier live about 12 hours away and I only see him about four days every month and we try to cherish those few days we have with each other. In the end, I am so excited that I am going to be an Army wife!! Hi, my name is Lindsey and this is my story. It all started when I was six years old. My family and I had just moved to a new town and we had just settled in. I was such a sociable child so it was not hard for me to make new friends.

My older brother, Nick, joined boy scouts, with my father as his troop leader. And that is when I met Raymond. At first we were like any other year olds. I tagged along when my father and brother went to boy scouts and soon became good friends with Ray.

As we grew older our relationship fluctuated. A few years later we grew closer. It was my junior year, his senior, and we were in the same class together. Every day we talked, laughed, and joked around like old friends do. At the end of the school year Ray and I fooled our friend, Tom, by making him think we were dating. This act went on for about two weeks. And then we broke up. A week or so went by and we were still laughing at our success. I worked up the nerve to ask him to be my boyfriend, for real this time.

He said yes but on one condition. The first week or so it was awkward, like dating your brother. After a month or so I started falling for this boy. Two months in and then came the bad news. I was the last person he hugged. I hate that picture. I bought a plane ticket to South Carolina to go to his graduation. He was not the same person. This was not the boy I grew up with. I also felt very insecure when I went to SC.

He called me on my 18th birthday at midnight. Ray was back to his old self. Boot camp breaks them down, but once they get their freedoms back they revert back to who they used to be…. He was still the boy I fell in love with, but now he was a man. New Years changed my life. But new years eve….. And then he left me…again.

The months passed and March rolled around. Instead of taking the two weeks leave he had to come to my prom and graduation, he used them on visiting her.

I am so glad he did. I took him out to dinner, wore my prom dress a month before I was supposed to, and paid. That was the best vacation of my life.

For some time I thought he was going to ask me to marry him. The day I left Florida for home was also the day he left Florida for Oklahoma.

That last night was magical. We spent all night talking, just lying in each others arms. And then I fell asleep. When I woke, we had a room to ourselves , he was no where to be found. I knew he was leaving that same day, but I thought he would have at least woken me up to say goodbye.

There was a note on my pillow. I should be back by 5: I think I woke up because I felt the absence of his body next to mine.

I fell back asleep, tired as hell. When I woke up I was facing the bedside table. The clock read 6: His plane left at 9: And who did I see? Raymond, smiling down on me. He leaned down and kissed me. He told me he came back from PT and saw me still sleeping, note in hand, and decided to take a shower while he had the chance. He said he was watching me sleep, laughing every time I snored or made a funny face. We parted ways and prayed that he would come home soon.

His stay in OK only lasted a month or so. The day Raymond came home was the day his Aunt died. Everyone, including myself, were gathered at her house. She was the sweetest woman I had ever met. Everyone was gathered at her house, and I know it sounds bad, but we were waiting for her to die, waiting for the suffering to end.

We all thought she was waiting for him. Judy died about an hour before Ray got home. He was a wreck. Believe it or not, life went on a little while after that. Ray was home for a month. He was being deployed to Korea. It seemed like that year had gone by so fast. September 4th he asked me to marry him. I was in total shock. He left for Korea September 20th, Now I sit here, typing this letter, waiting for my soldier to come home, so we can get married!

If you are patient enough, love will find a way. If he jumps, you jump too. You may not like it, but tis life, and all he really needs right now is your love and support. Its always good to laugh. Breaking down just adds to their stress, and then they worry about you, and not about their job. They are married to the Army first, you second.

If you distract your soldier, even in the slightest, they may lose focus and hurt someone because they are not doing their job right. Learn it, Live it. There is really not much else to say about that. This article was contributed by a visitor to the site. If you would like to contribute to the site as well, please email me.

Army National Guard soldier. He left for Basic this morning and his flight leaves at nine. And for the rest of you going through this…here is our story:. I was a regular customer at a local store where we lived. Chris my soldier worked behind the counter in the meat department. Everytime I went in the store he would flirt with me, ask me how my day was, and called me beautiful and stuff.

Sometimes I would make an excuse just to go down to Gerwigs just so I couls see his smiling face and beautiful blue eyes. One day I went in to buy 1 lb. He told me that he was also enlisted and would be leaving for Basic Training on the 14th ofNovember. Anyways of course I texted him. After that we hung out everyday.

He has now become my boyfriend, my soldier, and my best friend. I know he will be there for me when I leave for Basic and until he returns home safely into my arms for Christmas on the 20th of December, I will remain strong, Army Strong for him and for our Country.

Yes an engangment ring. They pay the ultimite gift…their lives. I must say, I almost felt like I was alone in this journey. It kinda makes me feel good to know that there are hundreds of girls that can relate and rely on each other for support with this common struggle.

Haha, though we barely talked, I would often bother him in class, poking him and calling his name while he was dozing off. My tenth grade year, I switched schools and started my life anew, losing contact with most everybody from my old school, including my soldier. The summer after junior year, while I was in Latin America, I decided to search Facebook for someone to chat with. We talked for about two weeks before meeting at his place and hitting it off.

Better yet, I am his first love. She gets it, I think mostly because almost all of her family is in the army and she knows that the only way for me to stay with him location wise is by marriage.

My soldier left for basic training on November 22, and is shipping from Reception to actual BT tomorrow, Nov. Needless to say, I was confused and shocked when I got a text and call from him when I thought his phone would be taken up as soon as he reached reception. I guess what was getting me through this week was his constant calls whenever they had downtime and his cute texts.

Following him on his journey as I attempt to make mine along with him. Is that a bad thing? He planning to ask my mom for my hand in marriage when he gets a ring and we are looking towards the Justice of the Peace option. I really hope everything works out…I want to be with him.

And he says the same even though I joke around with him repeatedly about his love for me. I just want everything to work out smoothly and happily. My story is very interesting to say the least! I am 20 met my boyfriend about 4 months ago in Hawaii and he is My cousin goes to college there and I went to visit her for the summer. My cousins boyfriend is in the Army which was completely new to me, I had never even thought about ever being with someone in the Military. My cousins boyfriend set me up with some of his friends and it was fun to meet new people and go out and have a good time.

I met my current boyfriend about 3 weeks before I had to head home to New York to go back to school. He has leave for Christmas for 3 weeks and he is going home to Chicago to see his family and I am making the trip there to meet everyone and to see him.

He is about to PCS to Kentucky soon so he will finally be way closer although it will still be long distance it wont be Hawaii to New York fortunately. The moment he got on the bus to leave, i felt a part of me was missing. For the first 2 days, i think i just blocked out the whole thing, thought it was a dream that i would soon wake up from hopefully waking to my boyfriend next to me but eventually i had to come back to reality.

We had no contact for 3 weeks to start then spontaneous phone calls and letters began to flood in. From that moment i knew that no matter what obstacles we would have to endure, we could do it. He told me, just before graduation, he was being based at the top of Queensland for 3 years unless deployed of course I made the decision after so many long sleepless nights, to make a new life for myself and follow him there I live in Sydney.

Two weeks before he was to leave, in true army style, he told me that he was no longer going to Queensland but to Darwin top of Australia-half the country away instead. No matter how many times i try to make sense of the situation, i hurt my head. No one can say that this is easy, but i think we can all agree it is oh so rewarding.

My boyfriend is in Darwin too! Feel free to contact me! I would love to have someone to talk to! I love him with all my heart, he loves me, we want to get married. We are 18 which is very young to talk about marriage. This summer we split for college, it was so hard.

We have gotten through the first semester, i attend a college in New York, he goes to Delaware. He is in ROTC and in three years he will be deployed and be gone for six months. We have been in a long distance relationship, but not seeing him for six months will destroy me. I am looking for advice. The thought kills me. Dont leave him then. This is going to probably be the hardest thing you have ever had to do support him.

My boyfriend is currently in AIT and will be graduating soon and then overseas he goes. We have been together for 2 in a half years. But your bf is right. He cant be worrying about his gf leaving him or cheating on him while he is away. In the end this will only make you guys stronger so if you are up for the challenge then go for it if not break it off and allow him the chance to be with a lady who is strong enough for this.

Sorry if i sound harsh but im just telling you the truth sweetheart. You need to prove to him that you can do this because he can be with anyone and there are plenty of people who would love to take your military man away from you, so you have to be the strong civilian girlfriend and hold down the fort!!!!

Hello, My name is Latitia i am 27yrs old and i am a Army girlfriend. My soldier is deployed in Afghanistan we have only been together for 4mths. This is all new to me i have never been with anyone in the Military.

He tells me he loves me and wants to be with me daily. I am learning that trust, patience and loyalty is a must. You are deff getting yourself into a longggg road of lonely nights, sad days and friends who do not understand why you would want to be with someone in the military. I dont know about the whole online relationship thing with a soldier bc my soldier is my highschool sweetheart and I fell in love with him before the uniform came into play.

You just have to remember that his career comes first but he still loves you. Distance is hard especially if you are use to being around them all the time. But since you guys started out longdistance maybe that wont be such a problem for you. Just make sure he is really a soldier and not some random guy pretending.

Little did I know she had friends come down from Sydney to spend that weekend with her, this is how I met him. We drank too much had many laughs and enjoyed each others company, somehow separating ourselves from the group at my friends house.

We had a moment where he was showing me pictures of him in uniform on his mobile and I was leaning over his shoulder having a fantastic perve. Both of us felt this spark, like electricity tingling on our lips and we locked eyes instantly.

However we both knew me being engaged even though unhappily it was wrong for us to act upon how we felt. Once I had and too much and proceeded to literally throw up everywhere, my girlfriend took me home. I thought of him often for the following two weeks, which then I decided I had had enough of my loveless relationship and to leave.

Two weeks after leaving I managed to get into contact with that mysterious man who I had forgotten the name of blaming that on too much vodka!

We organised to meet up the following night. We had such a great time, so much laughing and stories told. We became inseparable almost immediately, literally!

I had never felt this way before, the need to be next to someone all the time or just to be in the same room or to hear his voice. He is such a strong man, very loving, very sweet, very gentle. The first one was like living hell. I locked myself away for the entire time, I hardly ate I rarely spoke to anybody.

We recently just got through 8weeks apart, the longest we have been apart from each other. It was tough but so much easier then I first anticipated. I took it upon myself to do something, I workout a lot and keep fit anyway but decided I needed a new way too meet people. So I joined my local soccer club. Some duty of care bull shit so I have to patiently wait to hear my front gate slam shut and the sound of his heavy boots run up the concrete pathway. We have been together now for almost two years.

He is the love of my life. The man I will love forever, even when he no longer draws breath I will never love another person. He means everything to me. Enjoy the time you get to spend with them, sometimes they are few and far between. I found your story very inspiring. Both feeling like crap we met up for coffee the next day and hit it off further. The next weekend we spent at the beach. He messaged me everyday for hours at a time for 4 weeks.

After our beach date he had to leave for training for 3 weeks, although i knew it would happen otherwise i would have broke it off when he warned me i had no idea it would come so soon. I guess its good as its preparing me for what could be. Although it makes it tough… I wouldnt even know if were in the serious stage or not. This past week hes been out in field and like many others its driving me crazy!

But i cant wait for him to get home and have our first kiss all over again!!! I am a girlfriend to a furture Army Soldier. Our story is we met about 4 years ago and fell in love but never admitted it and so on, about 1 and a half ago we finally admited it and started dating about 5 months ago.

I met my soldier in January of It was my freshman year of college at East Carolina University. He would come in my room when all my friends and I were watching movies, which was kind of cute. Then one night, we just sat in the hallway in front of my room and talked for hours. He was rude and a womanizer.

But then I got to know him. He told me that his parents were both in the Army. He was very cut and dry and had absolutely no emotion. He was a rock, literally. I could tell that he had trust issues. He had never had anything stable in his life because his parents were always deployed, nothing against them of course, they raised an amazing man.

We fought constantly and never got along. But when we did get along, it was absolutely amazing. I met his parents, we went to the beach a few times, and we just had a lot of fun. But we got through it and always found our way back to one another. All of his friends told me that I had changed him for the better. Before, he was full of rage and always on the edge. He had always wanted to join the army.

He wanted to be an army ranger. Well, one day in September , he called me and told me that his parents finally agreed to let him go through with everything.

He attended meps and did everything he had to do. I noticed that he started getting cold feet, and unfortunately I was right. He broke up with me. We were apart for a month and had absolutely no contact. The question is, should the SF be taking on the large scale training mission at all; and the answer is no.

Again, enter the SFAB. We soldiers were completely up in arms over UCP. There was just no social media vehicle like you see today to get the attention of and call out senior leadership to get the desired reaction and results. Same with the transition to black berets Ranger community. In the days before the black beret, there were plenty of guys wearing regular BDUs and patrol caps that let their actions be their mark of distinction. SFAB took this post down from their FB page and replaced it with one that was clearly dictated from higher, with a link to the second article written from the second phone call Milley made to the Army Times.

This whole situation is a cluster and Milley has, on multiple times in the past few days, proven himself as a leader who cannot be trusted. The only way he will do the right thing is if his superiors find out the real truth about this unit and his motivations for it. SSD, you are right. It is there now. I scrolled on my phone and computer twice earlier this afternoon and it was not showing up.

But I am glad that it is so now we can see just how true the statement turns out to be in the coming weeks. This is a good decision in my opinion. I served at Ft. Bragg for thirteen and a half years out of my twenty two years career. These men are a special breed who step forward to undergo some of the hardest training our military has to offer.

The original plan for the SFAB clearly struck many veterans wrong for good reason. There goes the Army just shitting on special operations again.

Amazing, our beret comes from war, is a REAL part of history and then later is a presidential citation and the Army just wants to shit on everyone who volunteers to work harder and earn something special by ignoring history and just giving it away.

I have earned my beret as did my brothers and if these cheese! This is even worse than what they did to our Rangers, this beret has a real long-standing history dating back to WW2.

Thank you for your support as we establish the identity and culture of the 1SFAB.

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