Inside the world's biggest dating agency
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You may find that the stimulating conversation you had is just what you needed to feel relaxed and ready for fun. Keep it simple by going for coffee or after-work drinks. We give you the opportunity to spend time with the hottest women in the city. Sarah Rainey visits Match. They charge a fee to enable a user to post a profile of himself or herself, perhaps using video or still images as well as descriptive data and personal preferences for dating, such as age range, hobbies, and so forth.
What are Russian women looking for? So, should I stop looking for a Russian woman? How can I protect myself from unreliable women. How can I protect myself from unreliable Agencies.
Be realistic in choosing your Russian woman. Perform a background check on the woman. I always think about our meeting. By the way I know a travel agency here, that can organize the trip to your country very quickly.
They make visa, foreign passport, buy the tickets and even find a hotel where I can stay. I think it will be a good idea to use the service of this agency. What do you think about it?. If yes, then stop! Please read the whole topic about dating scams.
The person starts to use 'popular language' to impress you. The person writes in pretty well English The person falls in love with you very quick and sometimes even within 2, 3 weeks. The person lost her job or needs medical support and needs money.
The person has no postal address or phone number to reach her. Question about personal information that you can verify are not very welcome and she will try to avoid or ignore those questions, or tell you that this is not important for you to know. The person is avoiding or not answering your specific questions which you ask to know her better. If you ask specific questions and the person doesn't want to answer them, the person often starts to ask new questions in return, with the purpose to change the subject that the person doesn't want to talk about.
The person will be offended or feels insulted when asking personal questions or 'proof' that can lead to her real identification. The person avoids the subject to meet her in her country or tells you that she can better visit you. Magic visa's are not existing! There are so many single beautiful women and so many Dating Agencies. Are they all real and above all, reliable? In general I can say, Yes! But this still means that it could be possible to come across one of the 0. For example, some web sites have over So, the chance is present, but if you prepare yourself in a proper way, the risk of being scammed can be reduced to almost zero.
One of my favorite quoted expression is: A single person or criminal organization who use pictures and biography information of non-existing women who deliberately wants to swindle you. A criminal organization that exposes themselves as a 'real' Dating Agency that deliberately wants to swindle you. Or a co-operation between these two.
But there are also many variants, that are 'close' to swindle practices, but not yet labeled as real illegal organizations. These are organizations that will use methods to keep you as long as possible as a paid customer, or those who ask far too much money for their services. And you, blind of love, thinking about that beautiful young woman, are an easy potential victim for them. From a legal point of view they are no swindlers, but from my personal view they are.
Now you probably ask yourself 'what can you do for me? Well that is very simple, I want to protect you for any kind of possible scam. Just read everything of this topic, follow my advises, suggestions, remember my information, print it out or come back now and then, but visit also my recommended resources, including my recommendations to provide yourself with tools or services that are created by professionals.
But if this and all our other information is not enough for you to feel yourself 'well prepared' and certain then you always can decide to provide yourself with more information, tools or services.
It's you who has to make the choices, but making the wrong choice can cost you a lot of money. Better be sure than sorry, so don't leave right now, we are not finished yet. And if you are satisfied with our contents, please spread the word, I always feel sad if I receive emails starting with 'I wished I had found your website sooner Here are some tips to start with, these tips are an extract of parts of the subjects described in this topic.
Do not use any free dating site where women can contact you first. These sites are the hot-beds of dating scammers. Any person can signup here complete anonymous use any free email address and fake personal information. Only use real, professional and verifiable agencies. If you visit the website of some Dating Agency, try to read all the information about this website before you start to browse through the ad's.
Perhaps their introduction or 'About-Us' pages or other relevant pages could give you some background information of this specific Dating Agency, which could give you a 'good' or perhaps 'wrong' feeling about this site and their services. Also try to find out if they are a member of the Anti Scam Program. You can also first visit our recommended agencies that you can find in this topic. Write a detailed introduction letter preferable translated in Russian , to receive a detailed reply of the woman.
If you write your Russian lady for the first introduction letter time, please write a detailed letter about yourself.
For the woman it's important to see that the man who is writing to her is serious about finding a new partner. To be very serious in your intentions and to be very open to her, gives you a response which you can analyze as reliable or not. Important is to see how your mutual correspondence is developing, about what kind of subjects you both are talking. But if the woman starts in an early state with questions concerning money, for any kind of reason, than you have to be careful and you have to analyze if these questions has anything to do with the situation you and your correspondent are aware of.
Try to find out if her letters to you are very personal and don't look like standard generated letters. Persons who are just trying to get your money are using pre-defined letters, just because they don't have the time to write each person in a personal way.
These persons mostly don't answer your specific questions and don't give much personal information, but use general predefined text for their letters.
This is at least a sign that you have to be careful. Ask specific questions and check if you receive answers on these questions. In case you are using an Agency with email forwarding or other mail-services, and your correspondent is not responding on your specific personal questions, this could be a sign of being suspicious.
Another important thing is to confirm with her if your original letters indeed are reaching her. Try to send copies of your original letters using postal mail or a fax machine at her office if possible and ask her if these letters are the same she received through the Dating Agency you are using. I know examples that some Dating Agencies, with this kind of services, can create additional questions or add more text to your letters or even change your letters, just for the reason to keep you as long as possible as their customer.
One of the most important thing is to try to get her on the phone now and then, in this way you can confirm your and her letters to each other. Read our complete information page about Dating scams and related topics. You will learn more about the Russian-women- dating-world in common. Being prepared is being halfway your success in finding you Russian lady. If you are really looking for absolute reliable, professional Agencies which covers all the needs you have related to finding a Russian woman, then we highly recommend you the most reliable Agency you can find in this business.
We are a European representative of Elenas Models. You will feel very comfortable after reading the backgrounds of this agency. After finishing reading all the information of her site, you can start to look for your Russian dream without any risk, the only risk you will have is that some beautiful Russian woman will fall in love with you!
Always show your honesty first to her. Don't think they will trust you right away after your first contact to her. Dating Scams not only overcome men, but also to many women. Unfortunately there are also men who are trying unwanted approaches to the woman and sometimes these approaches are going very far.
For you and your girlfriend it's important to know if you both are 'real'. Not only for you, but for the woman you are writing this is important too. There are many ways to do this, but most of these ways will cost you money too.
But better spending some money for a background check then multiple times for 'nothing' and a lot of frustration and disappointment. But one thing you can first do by yourself, just tell her not during your first or second letter to her!
It is better that you take this initiative to first send your copy of your passport, in this way she will have no reason to believe to be insulted by asking only her copy of her passport.
If she did send you pictures of her, then she also can send you a scanned copy of her passport. Using this tip, you can at least compare her pictures with the picture on her passport and will see her real address and birth date, that is printed in her passport.
People who indeed are trying to fraud you, will give you at least a suspicious reaction to your question. In this world, it is quite normal to identify ourselves during official situations, so what's the problem to identify yourself in this situation? Using this method you will have a check on her address and if the woman who is receiving this is the same you are writing. Also in this example, people who are trying to fraud you, will never allow themselves to be on a picture or give their real home address.
They will use some excuse why they are not on the photo. Don't get paranoid about this, just be careful and use your common sense.. Like I started this subject, it's just a minority who will try to play financial tricks with you. If you want to read more about this subject, then continue reading our this article about Dating scams or visit the links in this page and you will read many interesting and useful topics about this matter. Internet dating Scams, what is this, how big is the risk, can this happen to me, how to prevent this.
All questions thousands of people and more ask themselves. In any kind of internet business where money is involved there are certain risks what we call in general Internet scam or fraud. In this topic we only are talking about scams in the Internet Dating and Marriage-world. When you are looking for a Russian woman you have to deal with many situations where your money can be involved.
Please, be very careful when you want to spend money 'outside' reliable and verifiable services. In any case, never send money to a individual or single person you don't now or never have met in person. In other words, you pay a lot of money with your credit card or Western Union money transfer service and you will receive…nothing!
One of the most 'popular' service these organizations can do for her is arranging 'magic' US entry visa's. In , I paid a lot of money for a professional photographer and a signing up fee to put my photo's on the website of a certain Russian dating agency in Moscow it's not existing anymore.
Until today, I still have to wait till they will publish my photo's. I contacted many times with this 'Agency', but they denied that they received my photo's and money and the contact person, I was referring to, was not working in this office! These things can happen to your girlfriend too. Always advise your girlfriend that if she need any services of an Agency ex. This happens almost every day in Russia Before I will give you some more details about all the financial items I mentioned above, I will give you first some more explanation about some facts you first should know.
Ok, I will give you some background information you should know: Yes, you are right, there are more men in Russia than women, at least in this age category.
Above the age of 65, there are more women than men. So why are Russian women, looking for a 'foreign' man The above question has more than one answer, I will give you a few: In Russia it is part of the Russian culture normal that women marry very young.
They already marry from age 18, most of the women are married between 18 and 23 years and they sometimes already have 1 or 2 children too. If a Russian woman is not married before 25, then she will be considered as 'strange' or weird. Another reason is that very young Russian women very early starts 'hunting' for their future husband, because they are afraid to be left alone, that they will be too old if they are not in time to find a husband.
Because of this reason you also will see that many Russian women already are divorced at a comparing to Western standards very young age. Being divorced in Russia is not a good start to find another man in Russia.
All these reasons has everything to do with the Russian culture. Just 'living together' is sometimes not a possibility in relation to the Russian culture. If two young people want to live together, then they should be married first. For this reason, Russian women are looking for a foreign men with possible marriage. To be married first or being officially engaged, when living together, is still very important for a Russian woman. You really must respect this part of their culture.
Don't try to convince her that 'living together' is almost the same as 'married together', because in Russia it's not the same. Another important reason is, that at this moment, young Russian people start to change their 'old' culture customs.
Especially young Russian men are waiting longer before they are thinking about marriage. This fact gives the young Russian woman a reason to look 'somewhere else', because they are afraid that when the Russian men is ready for marriage, there will be not enough men for her to 'choose'.
The young Russian woman doesn't want to wait for this. A next very important reason is, that many Russian men have no job, no money, no future and as a result for that, drink a lot, which causes many decease's, and unfortunately, many Russian men will die too early read the above figures.
For the Russian women, this is not an acceptable situation or future she is waiting for. Concerning a certain age-group among the Russian women, you can say that Russian women between the age 30 and 45 are condemned to stay alone. There is almost no Russian man who is looking for such an 'old' woman. I know it sounds crazy, but unfortunately, it's true.
Another possible reason is the fact that Russian women don't have any faith in the economical future of Russia, although the Russian economy is recovering slowly, for the Russian women, it's developing too slow. Russian women are in general high educated persons and hard workers and they also want to use their education in a normal economical atmosphere.
Russia still has a long way to go to accomplish this and the women have not enough time to wait for this, because in time they will be too old to find a man.
The final reason for women who are looking for a foreign man, is a combination of the above. The economical reason in combination with finding a trustful foreign husband. In general all Russian women are looking for a trustful, reliable, healthy and respectful husband who lives a normal life under normal circumstances with an acceptable financial living standard to support a family under normal conditions. I use the word 'normal' many times, I want to express that these women are not specific looking for rich men.
They don't need 2 cars, a TV in every room, 2 boats, 2 houses and 5 times a year a holiday. But they are also not looking for a man who likes to drink a lot or uses drugs now and then or don't have enough means to support a family or is just lazy, or being only a housekeeper after he finally married her.
And they certainly are not looking for a one time adventure. Maybe you ask yourself why Russian women sometimes write down these specific qualifications.
For me this answer is very easy. If you meet some woman in your 'own' neighborhood, she will find out by herself how you are living, what kind of man you are, what kind of job, hobbies, interests you have, how you clean your house is and how you iron your shirts. But for Russian women this is more difficult, she only can 'know' these things because you are 'writing' this to her.
She actually cannot 'see' it by herself, she lives too far away for just a short visit which for the US is impossible to do , to see e. For this reason, Russian women will ask you many times about these things, and if not, you should tell her these things by yourself. These items are very important for her, because she needs to create the right or correct image of the man she intends to live with. But unfortunately there is also a very small group of most of the times very young Russian women who only are looking for a 'ticket' green card to the US or other Western country.
Most of these young women are even not aware of the 'impossible' future they try to create. You can recognize these women if you have a normal knowledge of human character. These women doesn't want to take month's before they want to meet you preferable in your country and without detailed knowledge about what kind of man you are , also these women don't mind at all if you are 20 years or more older than they are.
And usually they will not talk or write about very profound personal interests or very private matters. In fact they act sometimes like high school girls, are already writing that they love you in their third letter and are not afraid to talk about money. They will often tell you that they are really looking forward to 'live in your country', instead of saying 'living with you'.
It is not self-evident that these women are 'scams', they are just too young to know that most of these large-age-difference relationships not always work out as they expect to be. The first line I wrote to my current husband was: They can make your head going out of control.
Imagine, a 21 beautiful young woman, a really knock out, who is in love with an 43 year old western man. If this will ever happen to you, please ask yourself, why this very young woman is attracted to a much older man? After that, ask her the same question and try to evaluate her answers about this fact, and talk with others e.
Of course there are many examples that this age difference really can work, but to be honest and not to discourage you, I interviewed different Russian women about this subject and they all answered that they in general prefer men of their own age. Of course they don't mind reasonable age difference more than western women do , but like I said, in an acceptable way. My husband is 9 years older than me and I have no problem with that, beside that, we both have reached an age above 35 that we made our decision based on mutual mature life experience.
There is a big difference between an age difference for example, she 20 and you 40 then for example, she 35 and you Just try to keep it within reasonable age difference, I thought you are looking for a Russian 'wife' and not for a 'daughter'?
These women are most of the time very young comparing to your age She tells you how nice it would be to live in your beautiful 'country', instead of telling you how nice it would be to live with 'you''. In general, she wants to come to your country very soon, but not for you as the main reason. I also made a lot of good friends. My husband and I are new to Travel Nursing. We are so happy to have already seen so many sights with our two little boys. So excited to see more as the assignments come.
Traveling has been quite an adventure. I have been able to hike and camp in the beautiful forest of the Olympic Peninsula. It's an amazing place to hike. Travel nursing was the best decision I ever made. I remember thinking back to my first assignment and how nervous I was. I was afraid I would hate it or that I would regret it. Now, all I think about is how I wish I had done it sooner. I have met some pretty amazing people along the way, I have friends across the country, and I have seen some awesome places that I never imagined going.
I have learned a lot this past year and have grown significantly as a nurse. I love travel nursing, I love my awesome recruiter and wouldn't work for any other company! Click here to learn more about pet-friendly traveling. As a huge baseball fan, traveling has given me the opportunity to see many games. This past weekend, I was able to meet one of my favorite baseball players. He even took time to take a picture with me and sign my jersey! My friend and I decided to live outside of our comfort zone for 13 weeks.
So, we made the most of our first travel assignment by taking road trips. We will always cherish that trip. My kids are grown and gone.
So I decided it was time to explore this great country, help people, and make great new friends! I took a hike up one of the mountains in Aspen, Colorado. It was a snowy hour-and-a-half of steep incline to get to the top.
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Imsges: across the room dating agency
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