Is it taboo for a 33 year old woman dating a 21 year old man?
They still joke about it though! Adariel , Nov 28, My fiance is 9 years older than me. I have a problem with this because i've seen friends do this and get hurt or lose friends.
Long story short - if you're OK with it, go for it '' like pm report more edit Reply Send Watch Surf ad-free Upgrade to premium membership. The age gap is a bit of a shock factor, but when it comes down to it, if the two are in similar situations, and agree to make it work, I don't see why not. As long as you're comfortable with it, everyone else will have to accept it. In my experience, it's been more positive seeing an older man in that he is, well, more experienced in life. I just me him, do you think he likes me? Young women are authentic beauties.
Are you sure you want to delete this answer? Go with your heart! And as for everyone else , Damn the torpedoes!!! Find A Girl Fast http: I've been with older women, I have been with younger, it just depends on the people. Love knows no age, color or religion. If you love a person you just DO! My parents have been married 30 years and they are 10 years apart, mom is older.
She had her last child my lil sis was an accident, no fertility drugs when she was My parents look about the same ago now so nobody notices. They still joke about it though! I myself dated a way older woman 38 when I was She was beautiful and fun and I learned a lot. I might have stayed with her but she ended up breaking things off with me. I guess I was just too immature for her back then. They thought she was like 28 or 29 maybe but never suspected she was 38!
I'm 26 now and would probably be with an older woman again if I found one I liked. Age is no issue and I don't want kids for a while so whatever. Age is just a number. If you love a person the number is unimportant!
I'll take a HOT, smart, independent, stable 40 something chick over a whiny, clingy unstable drama-queen 19 year old! Older ladies frankly, tend to have their crap a little more together in life.
If anything I tend to go for women my own age or older. Whatever you choose, I think if 2 people are in love that's all that matters. Things have a way of working out for the best. Good luck to you, I hope this helps! Can you answer mine? This Site Might Help You. My brother is 24 and currently engaged with a 40yr old woman who has an 11year old son that The only Issue is see is that females do not call older males "cougars" and "dilfs" and "fine wine".
They call them perverts and predators and letches and DOMS etc. That means every young guy with an older woman will eventually become an older guy and if his girlfriends are young Women call the boy toys of "perverts" and DOM's all the time for dating young women.
That is what makes older women ugly and why older woman younger male will never be a marital norm. It will always be like interracial couples. Its An alternate lifestyle but it will never even be as successful as interracial is. That is the main reason I would never date someone older than me. I dont want a cougar. I want to BE one.
I dont want to become 40 with a 51 year old wife when I can become 40 with a 30 year old wife 21 yaers younger than the older wife. My brain does that math. Then the guys my age who married women older than them are going to be looking at my wife going "yum" and I'm going to have to get out a can of whoopass.
But, you cant really compare older woman younger male with older male younger female. The relationships are very different. Older woman younger male is basically a relationship between a woman with limited child bearing capabilities trying to create a long term relationship with someone who might want 5 kids and who has little money since a 21 year old guy has no career yet. So "househusband" isnt a very wise role for a male to take.
Older man younger woman is extremely different. That is a proven relationship between a financially secure male and a very fertile female that has worked for s of years. My mom was in her 20's when she married my dad he was in his 40's.
She gave him a lot of kids and a huge close family. Something an older woman can't do for a person younger than them. Even my mom agrees that older man younger woman is words apart from older woman younger guy in terms of longevity and workability and structure.
Age gaps wont be taboo until he turns 33 and chases a 21 year old. Then older women will call him a perv and he will regret having given one day of his life to you. I'm almost 30 and my girlfriend isnt. My girlfriend is 53 I'm 31 some people do have a problem with it mostly my family her family loves me.
She has 6 kids the oldest is 9 months younger then me but were good friends her kids have all embraced me her grand children call me grandpa she has 15 grand kids. Who cares what people think if your happy with each other go with it age doesn't matter if you get along with each other are friends and have common interests that's what matters. I was 42 when I began dating a 21 year old. A few of my friends' parents have much larger age differences than yours. I think one of my friends has a mom who is about 40, and a dad who is about to turn I haven't met them, but from what I've heard they are very much in love and a perfect match for each other.
Total nerd moment here, but I think this quote is apt: By Heart On Sun May 22, I know some year-olds who are wayyyy too sheltered and basically act like they're I know others who are much more mature and fit well with somethings. Depends more on the person than the age. Once you're past that last age benchmark of adulthood, basically anyone is fair game. By balletsfriend On Sun May 22, I go to a church where almost everyone is in their early-mid 30s and I'm just about Sometimes I do feel really young around everyone, but most of the time, I don't at all.
People are always forgetting I'm 22 and they treat me like all the somethings. Usually when I meet someone new there and I tell them a I'm a student, they always say, "Oh great! It helps me too because they have a little more real-world experience than I do and I'm always getting to talk to them about jobs, marriage, and babies. There is one guy there who's in his early 30s that I think is attractive, and I know he thinks I am too, so who knows!
I've thought about this too lately as my potential dating pool is a little older. It's a little easier to date someone older in my family because my parents are 13 years apart I once asked my dad, "So, dad, if I came home and told yall I was dating a year-old, what would you think? I don't see anything wrong with it. Like some others have said, I think 30 or so would be my cut-off, simply because I don't want to date someone who could be my sister's boyfriend!
There will always be judgmental people out there about anything and everything. I doubt yall will look like an odd couple; men tend to stay looking young Nobody has to know your age difference if you don't want them to. Most people have no idea at all how much of a difference there is between my parents and even when they do know, they congratulate my mom for being a cradle robber lol.
By Celebrian On Sun May 22, I think the bigger deal is the fact that you're worried about being judged. If someone judges you negatively for dating another adult that doesn't fit into their 'age for dating' standard, remember that you have the right to reverse-judge and declare they have a little too much time on their hands and need to get their own life.
By Anonymous On Wed May 25, By Anonymous On Fri May 27, You're an adult, he's an adult, if you're attracted to each other, then why not give it a go! Only thing I'd add is one thing to think about Would you a be comfortable with going to hang out with his friends, even though they'd probably all be his age?
And b would he be comfortable going out on an evening with your friends, who I'm guessing are mostly your age? This isn't necessarily a make or break point, its just something I'D personally have to consider. I could never go out with a guy for too long if we couldn't comfortably hang out with each others friends.
I don't mean I'd have to be best mates with his group of friend or he'd have to be besties with mine, just get on well enough to be able to have a night out with mates and invite him along for a drink or something, y'know? But as he's only early 30s, not like 50, that shouldn't be too much of an issue. Naomi x '' like pm report more edit re: One of my friends is 22 and dating a 44 year old and this is a major problem she's lost friends, and is in an abusiver relation ship. I have a problem with this because i've seen friends do this and get hurt or lose friends.
Because some of your friends have had relationship issues, she shouldn't be in this relationship? If my friends abandoned me when I started dating my fiance', I'd question their friendship, not my relationship. Do I like all my friend's SO's? ALL relationships carry a risk of getting hurt. Should we not drive cars because there is a risk of getting hit by some other douche canoe while driving?
By kashmirjay On Mon Jun 06, I am almost 25, my boyfriend is We are in a small town translation: As long as you're comfortable with it, everyone else will have to accept it. Older guys often have the edge over younger ones as most of them have a steady job, a clear idea of what they want and how they plan to get it, they may own a house, a car, etc. Hurray for pre-fab families but that's a non-issue for you. Long story short - if you're OK with it, go for it '' like pm report more edit Reply Send Watch Surf ad-free Upgrade to premium membership.
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So I've been talking to this 33 year old. Not creepy, as far as I'm concerned. I'm 21 dating a man in his 30s. Life stages, life stages, life stages. My fiance is 9 years older than me. I don't think it's creepy at all.
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Mar 29, Messages: Long story short - if you're OK with it, go for it.
ALL relationships carry a risk of getting hurt. What is more important? I'm 26 now and would probably be with an older woman again if I found one I liked.
If you would like to talk to me about it, feel free to PM me. Feb 3, Messages: You have to not put yourself into bad situations and play everything as safely as possible. It, obviously, helps that he cares about 33 dating 21 ; but it's nice to know he can safely tell me how 33 dating 21 handle things from his previous experiences. He knows dting to effectively communicate and get his thoughts and ideas through.
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